Growing up, every girl dreams of the fairytale
life... the husband, the house, the dog, the
kids, the car and the career. We've gotten
older, life happened and most of our fairytale
hasn't come true yet. We've started dating,
looking for Mr. Right and we ended up with a
lot of Mr. Wrongs. J Some or most of our
girlfriends have already walked down the aisle
and we are still on the hunt for the right one.
So to ease your frustration here's five simple
and easy ways you can start attracting your
Mr. Right into your life right now.
1. You have to know what you want. This
is the first step. In order to attract what
you want you have to know what it is you
are trying to attract. What qualities does
your Mr. Right have? Is he funny, smart,
charismatic, outgoing, and spontaneous?
2. You have to be what you are looking
for. Do you already have the qualities of
your Mr. Right? If your Mr. Right is
funny, smart, charismatic, outgoing, and
spontaneous, are you the same? In order
for you to attract your Mr. Right, you
have to already portray the qualities that
you are seeking in him. When you do, he
will come along a lot faster.
3. You have to feel the way your Mr.
Right will make you feel. What is it that
your Mr. Right will make you feel? Will
he make you feel happy, safe, secure,
loved, wanted, or complete? If he will
make you feel any of these emotions and
so forth, you have to feel that way now.
When you do, then you will be able to
attract your Mr. Right.
4. You have to let go of know how you
are going to get him. Knowing the how
isn't really important. Just know and trust
that he will come at the right time. When
I least expected it, my hubby came into
my life when I wasn't even looking for a
man. LOL! Before he came into my life, I
was all hell bent on finding me a man
because I was tired of being lonely. I
wanted companionship and I wanted to
be courted... I found love (or what I
thought it was at the time) in a lot of Mr.
Wrongs before I ended up with my Mr.
Right.
5. You have to take action. Taking action
doesn't mean that you are forcefully
going out every night to find your Mr.
Right. Taking action does mean that you
are putting yourself out there (not
putting out... that's a different thing). Go
out on a night of the town with your
girlfriends and have fun or if you decide
to sign up for an online dating site such
as Match.com, eHarmony.com, or any
other professional dating site. If you
want, you can hire a matchmaker or
decide to go speed dating. Just make sure
whatever you choose to do, make sure
you have fun. When you aren't focused
(well, we want you to stay focused on
what you want, just not obsessed) day
and night on what you are trying to
attract, it comes to you much faster.
I hope these five simple and easy ways for
attracting your Mr. Right work for you. As
always, I would love to know what you think so
please leave your comments, feedback, and
questions below.
With all my love,

I am Mr right.
Do these, and I assure you you will never get me!