. He’s Not “Around” You
This is probably the number 1 tell tell sign
that lets you know if a guy is into you. If he’s
not into you, then he’ll surely NOT be “around”
you.
Although when a guy is attracted to a woman,
he’ll act in many different ways, he might
tease her, he might ignore her, he might be
annoying but, at the end of the day, he’s
always “around” her when he’s doing this.
If a guy is into you, he’ll always
find reasons
to be close to you. You’ll always see him
popping up in your vicinity. This is something
that you probably didn’t notice initially but
once you realize it, you’ll start to see it all the
time.
2. He’s NOT Interested In Talking To You
It can’t get any more straightforward than
this. If he doesn’t have an interest in you, he
won’t have an interest in talking to you.
The key here is to not automatically assume
that he’s not interested in talking to you
because he’s afraid of making the first move,
or takes a very long time to reply to your
texts. A lot of guys have all sorts of weird
texting habits but the general, NOT interested
in talking to you issue, should be seen over
the long run.
You need to see if he actually has ample
opportunities to text you/talk to you and then
based on those, decide whether or not he
chooses to take those opportunities or simply
ignores them.
Finally, if you’re talking but he always seems
to be the one that’s trying to end the
conversation, that’s another clear sign that
he’s not actually interested in talking to you.
3. Talks To You As He Does With His
Friends
This is actually quite easy to spot. If he
always talks to you in a casual tone of voice,
similar to how he does with his friends, then
he’s probably not into you.
When a guy is interested, there’s always at
least a slight variation in how he goes about
talking you, a variation that proves he’s
interested. He has a special way of talking to
you or extends some special kind of attention,
something that he doesn’t do with anyone
else.
One of the best things you can do is to
observe his behavior with other people, that
way it will allow you to judge if how he’s
acting with you is any different. More on this
at point 7 and 8.
4. Has No Problem Telling You About The
Girls He Likes
Yet another clear cut sign that he’s not
interested. Make sure you don’t confuse this
with the occasional story about some girl, all
guys do that and it really isn’t a big deal.
However, if you seem to talk to a guy and he’s
having no trouble telling you about all the
girls he likes, the girls he’ll sleep with and any
other fantasies of this nature, all on a
somewhat regular basis (almost every time
you meet) you can take that as a clear sign
that he’s not that into you. If he was, he
wouldn’t be telling you about all these other
girls.
5. Bad Body Language
If he avoids eye contact, sits with his body
away from you, doesn’t try to keep the
conversation going, or he generally maintains
a distance from you, you can take all of these
as signs that he’s not interested.
6. Doesn’t Seem To Have Any Time For
You
I hate flaking, although it rarely happens to
me, when a girl flakes I learn 2 very important
things. First of all, that girl is probably not
into me, and secondly that girl is probably not
worth my time.
Now, if a guy is flakey, cancels plans and
doesn’t reschedule that guy is not interested
in you. Quite frankly, if he misses 2
consecutive dates, you can be absolutely sure
of this. Missing 1 date is one thing but if he
really wants to see you, believe me, he will
make the time and put in the effort.
7. He Seems To Flirt With You But Also,
With Everyone Else
As mentioned on point 3, noticing a guy’s
behavior with other people is critical in
determining whether or not he’s into you. If
you think he’s flirting with you, look closely at
how he acts around other women, does he
seem to flirt with them too? He might just be
that flirty guy and the fact that he acts that
way around you means NOTHING.
8. He’s Friendly With You, But Also To
Everyone Else
Again, this is another reason why you need to
pay attention to his behavior. You might think
he’s overly friendly with you, but in fact, he’s
just a friendly, social, outgoing guy. If you see
that his behavior is NO different with you than
with any other person, that’s a clear sign that
he doesn’t have any particular or special
interest in you.
9. Keeps His Feelings Hidden
Although this issue is probably more prevalent
in relationships, if you’re seeing a guy for
quite some time and he has a very hard time
of talking about his feelings, or seems to keep
them all hidden, that’s a very common sign
that he’s not interested.
If a guy is into you, he will generally let you
know about those feelings sooner or later. If
you’re unsure about this issue, the best thing
you can do is to give him some more space.
Just make sure you don’t waste a lot of time
on him.