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Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 4:23pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Question: "What does the Bible say about MouthAction?" Answer: MouthAction, also known as “cunnilingus” when performed on females and “MouthAction” when performed on males, is not mentioned in the Bible. There are two primary questions that are asked in regards to MouthAction: (1) “is MouthAction a sin if done before marriage?” and (2) “is MouthAction a sin if done within a marriage?” While the Bible does not specifically address either question, there are definitely biblical principles that apply. Is MouthAction a sin if done before or outside of marriage? This question is becoming increasingly common as young people are told that “MouthAction is not really sex,” and as MouthAction is promoted as a safer (no risk of pregnancy, less risk of sexually transmitted diseases*) alternative to sexual intercourse. What does the Bible say? Ephesians 5:3 declares, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity...because these are improper for God's holy people.” The biblical definition of “immorality” is “any form of sexual contact outside of marriage” (1 Corinthians 7:2). According to Hebrews 13:4, only the “marriage bed” is pure and undefiled. According to the Bible, sex is to be reserved for marriage. Period. So, yes, MouthAction is a sin if done before or outside of marriage. Is MouthAction a sin if done within a marriage? Many, perhaps most, Christian married couples have had this question. What makes it difficult is the fact that the Bible nowhere says what is allowed or disallowed sexually between a husband and wife, other than, of course, any sexual activity that involves another person (swapping, threesomes, etc.) or that involves lusting after another person (pornography). Outside of these two restrictions, the principle of “mutual consent” would seem to apply (1 Corinthians 7:5). While this text specifically deals with abstaining from sex/frequency of sex, “mutual consent” is a good concept to apply universally in regards to sex within marriage. Whatever is done, it should be fully agreed on between the husband and his wife. Neither spouse should be forced or coerced into doing something he/she is not completely comfortable with. If MouthAction is done within the confines of marriage and in the spirit of mutual consent, there is not a biblical case for declaring it to be a sin. In summary, MouthAction before marriage is absolutely a sin. It is immoral. It is in no sense a biblically acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse for unmarried couples. Within the confines of marriage, MouthAction is free from sin as long as there is mutual consent. *While MouthAction is safer than sexual intercourse in regards to sexually transmitted diseases, it is definitely not safe. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, HIV/AIDS, and other STDs can be transmitted through MouthAction. Source: @Yorex2011, http://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-oral-sex.html Note: The bot cleaned up the text, so MouthAction or Mouth Action is actually oral s.ex |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 4:37pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
@mitey So, there you have it from Yorex2011 link source As earlier said, though not a sin with a married context (i.e. Song of Solomon 2:3, 2:16, 4:16 and 8:2 with 1 Corinthians 7:3) it however can have a sting in the tail, as it is definitely not 100% safe because of sexually transmitted diseases such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, HIV/AIDS and other STDs which can be transmitted through it In this day and age, do you live by all the Leviticus'? Just checking. 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 4:45pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
^^^ I disagree with you. There is equal risk of infection and STDs with other forms of sex like kissing, a.nal, and even missionary sef. But that aside, in my church before marrying a couple together, the elders make them do a plethora of tests. Some weddings even fall through because of STDs and incompatible genotypes. I don't think anyone marrying at this time and age will go ahead without all forms of lab tests. So this point is moot, because we are only talking about married couples who are already known to be free from infections and STDs. The only reason I don't have tattoos today is because of that reference I quoted above. So yes, I may not be perfect, but I try my best to obey the WHOLE Bible |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by macof(m): 4:46pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Wat is pastors business with A persons sex life? Wat about anal penetration? abeg make una mind your church making money business |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 4:49pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
@macof, No be me talk am o! Someone came for deliverance, and the Pastor said oral s.ex was the cause of the problem. Who am I to judge? As for BehindBased, no mind Seun, na ana.l I write before. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 5:03pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: @mitey I keep telling you, you need to be re-reading my posts all over again or maybe someone should advise you to go to Specsavers before posting replies to them Now tell me, which part do you disagree with Also, what is the problem about now, if it is about married couples who are already known to be free from infections? ". . . obeying the WHOLE Bible" - SMH and laughing in Leviticus |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: By or.al sex, I don't mean just kissing, but oral-genita.lia sex including cunni.lingus(female) and fell.atio(male). It is my opinion that oral s*x is not sinful. It is more or less like touching the genitals of your spouse which can make s*xual intercourse in wedlock a bit more pleasurable. But care should be taken not to spill the semen outside the lady's v*gina. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 5:08pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
@BabaGnoni, I disagree with this part: it however can have a sting in the tail, as it is definitely not 100% safe And what is Specsavers |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 5:10pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi: @^^^ Guess he is hinting about Genesis 38:9-10. SMH |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 5:11pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi: ^^^ Thanks for your contribution. But you've brought in a new angle. Why should the man be careful not to spill the semen outside the vagin.a? |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Mynd44: 5:14pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey:You dont want an answer to that |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 5:15pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
^^^ Really? Now I'm more interested. Why is spilling the Fluid an issue? 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 5:17pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: Pretending to be naive or ignorant doesn't suit you. - Pull the other leg There's the answer again: https://www.nairaland.com/1581304/oral-sexx-sin/1#20693041 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: It is my belief that marriage is sacred before God and the s*xual experience between the spouses is meant to fulfil 3 basic needs: 1) Pleasure. 2) Procreation. 3) Bond the union. These 3 needs are critical in marriage and should be pursued with vigour in order to enjoy marital bliss within the context of Christianity. If the couple decide to spill the s*men outside the v*gina, the second basic need above would not have been met, hence in my view it is a wrong way of using this special tool in marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Mynd44: 5:21pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi:I take it that you also dont support contraceptives right? 2 Likes |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Mynd_44: That's a given! |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Mynd44: 5:24pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi:Can we debate this on another thread? Dont wanna derail this one 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Liv4Christ: 5:24pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
With ur mouth confession is made unto salvation, Isaiah declared dat he is a man of unclean lips, de bible talked about how we can set de course of nature ablaze with our tongue nd saveral other passages dat talks about de fruits of de lips, how it bring life or death, i believe dat God created de tongue to praise nd serve Him with nd in Romans 1:26 it talks about changing de natural use of women nd men. Finally if God had wanted us to be having MouthAction, de organs would have been placed on our foreheads. 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Mynd_44: Sure! |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 5:39pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Mynd_44: striktlymi: Mynd_44: striktlymi: Whoa, whoa, whoa. Whoa, before y'all joyfully and heartily skip off to open a thread together just keep in mind, that God gave us the ability to make responsible choices, ourselves and as such, are responsible for our ALL actions That said, one would expect any on the breadline or a faith building to use contraceptives or onanism if zipping it up, would not be an option of the day |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by BabaGnoni: 5:42pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Liv4Christ: @Liv4Christ Creativity! Inventiveness!! Thinking outside of the box, which results in innovative or different approaches to a particular task Bet it can be argued that, if God wanted us to fly in air etc, we should have grown or sprouted wings etc 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by UyiIredia(m): 5:45pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi: SMH. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by UyiIredia(m): 5:47pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi: Presumably s£x between older or barren couples are exempt from this. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 7:08pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
@Mynd_44 and @Striktlymi please where is the thread you created. I will like to add my own arguments, but I don't want to derail this thread. Just so you know, I am pro-contraceptive. #TeamContraceptive |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by macof(m): 7:17pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Liv4Christ: With ur mouth confession is made unto salvation, Isaiah declared dat he is a man of unclean lips, de bible talked about how we can set de course of nature ablaze with our tongue nd saveral other passages dat talks about de fruits of de lips, how it bring life or death, i believe dat God created de tongue to praise nd serve Him with nd in Romans 1:26 it talks about changing de natural use of women nd men. Sir, I have mouth to eat and speak- basic functions I can always had some more eg. Kiss, bite, and the topic matter 1 Like |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by macof(m): 7:19pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: Genesis 38:8-10 "And Judah said to Onan, go in unto thy brother's wife and marry her and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; so when he went in unto his brother's wife he spilled it[sperm] on the ground, lest he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the Lord, wherefore he slew him.." So your Bible God doesn't like spilled Semen, be careful lest you die |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 7:31pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
@Liv4Christ, I will tackle your arguments in order. With ur mouth confession is made unto salvation, Isaiah declared dat he is a man of unclean lips, de bible talked about how we can set de course of nature ablaze with our tongue nd saveral other passages dat talks about de fruits of de lips, how it bring life or death, i believe dat God created de tongue to praise nd serve Him withMost of our body parts serve more than one function. That I use claps my hands to worship God in church does not mean that I cannot use the same hands to caress or 'romance' my wife in the privacy of our home. That I use my mouth to sing praises to God does not mean that I cannot kiss my wife in the mouth, brea.sts and then downtown. As you can see, it is a natural progression. Genesis 1:31a (KJV) tells us that And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. If God didn't want us to be stimulated/arous.ed by mouth on genitals, then He wouldn't have made it so during creation. nd in Romans 1:26 it talks about changing de natural use of women nd men.Romans 1:26-27 is condemning lesbianism and homosexuality. It mentioned nothing concerning body parts. Finally if God had wanted us to be having MouthAction, de organs would have been placed on our foreheads.I seriously don't get the rationale behind this statement. Please can you explain further? As always, thanks for your contribution. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 7:42pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
macof: I am glad you brought up that verse, I have been waiting for someone to bring it up since... The reason God slew Onan was because of his wickedness. Back then in the land of Israel, it was customary for the brother of a dead man to sleep with his widow in order to raise children for him(the dead man). But Onan was wicked and decided instead to spill the fluid. In fact the reason why this particular passage is interesting is because it is actually pro-contraceptive. To the best of my knowledge, this is the only place in the Bible where spilling of fluid is mentioned. It appears to have been common-knowledge in that era for a commoner such as Onan to be so skilled in performing it. Despite being somewhat common, we didn't hear of anyone else being punished for engaging in that. In fact if not that Onan had applied the method out of wickedness, it may never have been recorded in the Bible. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Adeebiwa09(m): 7:52pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: wen u cnt do wtout it, and it bcmes iritatn, once a partner get ofendn and iritated wt it, e.g d hushand/wife s upset or smetin cos he wnt b able 2 do it cos d wife s on her menstrual period, or wen menstrual pain, iritatns on privates, dysfunctional erectn e.t.c |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by mitey(m): 8:09pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
^^^ The same thing(obsession) can apply to all other sexua.l acts and not just oral se.x alone. So no, that is not a reason to stop it. |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by macof(m): 8:18pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mitey: In shorter words it's ok to spill the fluid? |
Re: Is Oral Sexx a Sin Before God? by Adeebiwa09(m): 8:24pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
striktlymi: Gues i'm interestd in dat thread, link me up |
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