macof:
In shorter words it's ok to spill the fluid?

Yes

Liv4Christ: With ur mouth confession is made unto salvation, Isaiah declared dat he is a man of unclean lips, de bible talked about how we can set de course of nature ablaze with our tongue nd saveral other passages dat talks about de fruits of de lips, how it bring life or death, i believe dat God created de tongue to praise nd serve Him with nd in Romans 1:26 it talks about changing de natural use of women nd men.
Finally if God had wanted us to be having MouthAction, de organs would have been placed on our foreheads.

Mr Oga, pls study ur bible wt d help of d Holy Spirit dnt join scriptures wt ur head, wat u r sayin here is heresy.

macof:


Genesis 38:8-10 "And Judah said to Onan, go in unto thy brother's wife and marry her and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; so when he went in unto his brother's wife he spilled it[sperm] on the ground, lest he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the Lord, wherefore he slew him.."

So your Bible God doesn't like spilled Semen, be careful lest you die

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Apostle, calm down so make we jst dy pour evrytin inside make we dy born any aw. Kai! Al ds ISOLATED scriptures. Did u read d part dat says if any man cannt provid 4 hs aushold e s worst dan an infidel, gv birth 2 chldren u can raise. So if withdrawal s ur way of 'family planing' gud. And 2 d story of Judah and hs 3 sons onan dnt want 2 raise chldren 4 hs brother hs actn was nt based on f.p or anyoda ryt reason bt evil so nobody go die as abv

Adeebiwa09: .
Apostle, calm down so make we jst dy pour evrytin inside make we dy born any aw. Kai! Al ds ISOLATED scriptures. Did u read d part dat says if any man cannt provid 4 hs aushold e s worst dan an infidel, gv birth 2 chldren u can raise. So if withdrawal s ur way of 'family planing' gud. And 2 d story of Judah and hs 3 sons onan dnt want 2 raise chldren 4 hs brother hs actn was nt based on f.p or anyoda ryt reason bt evil so nobody go die as abv

^^^ Thanks for the contribution. However, I believe @Macof is a traditionalist/pagan, and so has limited understanding of the scriptures.

Adeebiwa09: .
Apostle, calm down so make we jst dy pour evrytin inside make we dy born any aw. Kai! Al ds ISOLATED scriptures. Did u read d part dat says if any man cannt provid 4 hs aushold e s worst dan an infidel, gv birth 2 chldren u can raise. So if withdrawal s ur way of 'family planing' gud. And 2 d story of Judah and hs 3 sons onan dnt want 2 raise chldren 4 hs brother hs actn was nt based on f.p or anyoda ryt reason bt evil so nobody go die as abv

Ah! If Jehovah dey kill for spilling fluid you must pour everything deep inside, empty your gallon

But since Onan wasn't interested in raisin kids, he was just in it for the pleasure same thing you get from mouth service

mitey:

^^^ Thanks for the contribution. However, I believe @Macof is a traditionalist/pagan, and so has limited understanding of the scriptures.

Really? but I fit give your pastor Bible lessons

macof:

Ah! If Jehovah dey kill for spilling fluid you must pour everything deep inside, empty your gallon
But since Onan wasn't interested in raisin kids, he was just in it for the pleasure same thing you get from mouth service

@macof

Whatcha talkin bout Willis macof?

Nothing stopping having one after the other

Do two good things at the same time (i.e. as in have your cake and eat it)

Make it an appetizer or if stressed, do opposite; desserts

Opposite of stressed is desserts

macof:

Ah! If Jehovah dey kill for spilling fluid you must pour everything deep inside, empty your gallon

But since Onan wasn't interested in raisin kids, he was just in it for the pleasure same thing you get from mouth service

Macof! Macof!! Macof!!! Ah i dnt even knw wat 2 say, imagine u dnt even knw d context nor d rhema bhind d scripture. Did u read dat portion 4m d beginin? 4 pleasure ke? Did God tel u dat Onan did it 4 pleasure? Did Onan even love Tamar? Wat did u read as d purpose 4 hm 2 marry her and spil her fluid? Bros go n study wt d Holy Spirit nt wt ur head or ur bias\compromised mind. Taar! Smh indeed i join op 2 laff @ u in Ephesians join d Leviticus

my question is that do people have or do these kind of unconventional sex in marriages in Nigeria? if they do please be kind enough to gives us examples!

carammel: The bible didn't give a particular way of having sex between married couples. So oral or not is welcome.

Thanks for your contribution. This is the summary of @Yomex's link above (http://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-oral-sex.html). And I quite agree with it.

So why should a Pastor say that this is the cause of someone's problems?

Aggrippa: my question is that do people have or do these kind of unconventional sex in marriages in Nigeria? if they do please be kind enough to gives us examples!

Examples of what? Oral se.x is hardly a stand-alone sexua.l activity. Usually, it is part of fore.play.

And yes, Nigerians practice it. Why not?

Aggrippa: my question is that do people have or do these kind of unconventional sex in marriages in Nigeria? if they do please be kind enough to gives us examples!

Sir, do people dscus ds sex lyf as a couple. Nt an insult bt did ur parent or any family member ever did wt u? D truth s wateva hapens in d confined of a matrimonial 'room' (apotrophy cos u can do it anywhere u lyk as lng as na 2 of una; kitchen, sitn rum, bathroom e.t.c) s only meant 4 dr nt 4 anybdy 2 hear, see or knw except wt ur permisn i.e in case of counselin. So if u do al d kama sutra styles, involve in fetish, mastubate wt each oda, v nude pix of each oda, anal, oral, bos*som sex e.t.c e no concern anybdy na una 2 e concern and its nt a subject of debate. Gbam

Adeebiwa09:
Sir, do people dscus ds sex lyf as a couple. Nt an insult bt did ur parent or any family member ever did wt u? D truth s wateva hapens in d confined of a matrimonial 'room' (apotrophy cos u can do it anywhere u lyk as lng as na 2 of una; kitchen, sitn rum, bathroom e.t.c) s only meant 4 dr nt 4 anybdy 2 hear, see or knw except wt ur permisn i.e in case of counselin. So if u do al d kama sutra styles, involve in fetish, mastubate wt each oda, v nude pix of each oda, anal, oral, bos*som sex e.t.c e no concern anybdy na una 2 e concern and its nt a subject of debate. Gbam

Bro, as usual, your contributions are on point.


But please try, even though you're on mobile to write more legibly and stop breaking Nairaland's Rule 21.

Thanks and have a lovely day.

@mitey lol, tanx, its a forced habit. I'll try to adjust.

Hmmm May God help us to keep His unchangable standards. Please i will like everyone to answer me, with polite words and look and also reason with me, God bless you as you do this.
From the beginning please, what is the origin or what do you know about how the action "MouthAction" came into existance? Who were the people who practised it? Was it human beings or animals? Where has something like MouthAction being mentioned in the Bible?
The problem we have, we christians of today is that, we copy the world, forgetting that the world should copy us, we allow the world to come into the church with its practises, and we know that the world will never allow us to bring our practises into it.Lets beware of what we see other christains do.We should always ask God.

It is perversion as well as being downright wrong and dumb take it or leave it. It is good to do normal things and to treat our bodies with respect as temples of the Lord

@tensor @ mr presido. Hmmm, i understand you are orthodox in your response. Please come to think of it, did the bible tell you anything about missionary position, mouthaction e.t.c. Who ordained missionary style as the major way of sexual intercourse. Lets not be hypocritical, religous and/or bias. If you don't want it or do it good for you but you should not condemn those that want to do. Because one man's food is another's poison. Also Read and meditate on 1 corin. 7, rom 14. God did not tell anybody how to do IT. So because we have a way, we should not rebuke what looks unconventional. Strange is not always bad, different is not always wrong.

tensor77:

It is perversion as well as being downright wrong and dumb take it or leave it.

It is good to do normal things and to treat our bodies with respect as temples of the Lord

Perversion, downright wrong and dumb? Well, I suppose one man's meat is another man's poison

Why not do a "normal" thing like walk to Europe or the Americas

and not fly so to treat the body and legs with respect

you guys should remember that these things you are talking about are elements of sodom and Gomorrah.they all encourage perverseness, debauchery and the likes! if one continues in these thought pattern, that person will soon become a sodom expert and leave his or marriage and graduate to start having 3somes, 4somes, groups and other degrading fetishes. dont envy people like Silvio Beluscunni who was removed because of the group parties he always partcipated in.

Aggrippa:

you guys should remember that these things you are talking about are elements of sodom and Gomorrah.

they all encourage perverseness, debauchery and the likes!

if one continues in these thought pattern, that person will soon become a sodom expert and leave his or marriage and graduate to start having 3somes, 4somes, groups and other degrading fetishes.

dont envy people like Silvio Beluscunni who was removed because of the group parties he always partcipated in.

Mwahahahaahhaha! I laugh in Sodom and Gomorrah

Adeebiwa09:
Sir, do people dscus ds sex lyf as a couple. Nt an insult bt did ur parent or any family member ever did wt u? D truth s wateva hapens in d confined of a matrimonial 'room' (apotrophy cos u can do it anywhere u lyk as lng as na 2 of una; kitchen, sitn rum, bathroom e.t.c) s only meant 4 dr nt 4 anybdy 2 hear, see or knw except wt ur permisn i.e in case of counselin. So if u do al d kama sutra styles, involve in fetish, mastubate wt each oda, v nude pix of each oda, anal, oral, bos*som sex e.t.c e no concern anybdy na una 2 e concern and its nt a subject of debate. Gbam

no one ever discussed such matters with me...i was just been curious and realistic...cos such patrices are alien to this part of the world...also consider that the hygiene of a vast majority of people questionable. so i wonder how you will practice such and on who.

Aggrippa: you guys should remember that these things you are talking about are elements of sodom and Gomorrah.they all encourage perverseness, debauchery and the likes! if one continues in these thought pattern, that person will soon become a sodom expert and leave his or marriage and graduate to start having 3somes, 4somes, groups and other degrading fetishes. dont envy people like Silvio Beluscunni who was removed because of the group parties he always partcipated in.

Governor, let me make something clear. Whether as fore-play or sexual activity, d question is, is it ok to have o_ral s>ex with one's married partner? Nobody is talking about 3some or what have you. When you fetish involves some thing else from your partner or any other strange thing, we already know its wrong, thank God you said "DEGRADING FETISH" it means there are fetish that are not degrading, good.

And for the nth time sodomy is about homosexuality. Please, don't preach religion, that is giving the church a bad image.

Adeebiwa09:
Governor, let me make something clear. Whether as fore-play or sexual activity, d question is, is it ok to have o_ral s>ex with one's married partner? Nobody is talking about 3some or what have you. When you fetish involves some thing else from your partner or any other strange thing, we already know its wrong, thank God you said "DEGRADING FETISH" it means there are fetish that are not degrading, good.

And for the nth time sodomy is about homosexuality. Please, don't preach religion, that is giving the church a bad image.

lemme educate you a little bit the word sodomy is not only solely restricted to homos...try do some research and find out what that word entails and you will be amazed...google may be of great help.

Aggrippa: no one ever discussed such matters with me...i was just been curious and realistic...cos such patrices are alien to this part of the world...also consider that the hygiene of a vast majority of people questionable. so i wonder how you will practice such and on who.

i believe you are not married yet when you are, you will know the truth. God forbid, there are issues that are dangerous to ones marriage, for example, weak erection, quick ejaculation, low sperm count, longevity, different sexual appetite, heavenly feeling, pleasuring your partner, fore play e.t.c. When all these comes to your mind you will see a need to do what God has given you access to do provided u agree. I wish to explain further but this is the best i can do for now

Aggrippa: lemme educate you a little bit the word sodomy is not only solely restricted to homos...try do some research and find out what that word entails and you will be amazed...google may be of great help.

Governor, thanks for the education. This brings to my mind a song by sound sultan many years ago when i was still much into that he said #Teacher! ...

Anyway Mr. BOSS, Google is different from Bible even though they both kind of ends with the same vowel sound and letters. Google is not your standard, the Bible is. Beside unless you have a video documentary about what sodomy is all about, as in you were there, dnt tell us heresy.

Aggrippa: lemme educate you a little bit the word sodomy is not only solely restricted to homos...try do some research and find out what that word entails and you will be amazed...google may be of great help.

Governor, thanks for the education. This brings to my mind a song by sound sultan many years ago when i was still much into that he said #Teacher! ...

Anyway Mr. BOSS, Google is different from Bible even though they both kind of ends with the same vowel sound and letters. Google is not your standard, the Bible is. Beside unless you have a video documentary about what sodomy is all about, as in you were there, dnt tell us heresy. Thank you

People of God. Please, let us not become hypocrites. If you don't agree with it don't condemn those that don't see it as sin. It's not the way of Christ.
The painful part of this is, u will use your hand all over ur wife's body, use your month and tongue all over also. Does that stop you from lifting up your hands in church or praying because technicaly your mouth is 'unholy'? I mean do you propose we shld just jump on her, put it in and when you have done an oscillatary motion and sme white oil have been poured you bring it out and say thank you Jesus? Mehn nawa o. And its these men that would be dangerous in the 'ministry'(se]x[)

Aggrippa: you guys should remember that these things you are talking about are elements of sodom and Gomorrah.they all encourage perverseness, debauchery and the likes! if one continues in these thought pattern, that person will soon become a sodom expert and leave his or marriage and graduate to start having 3somes, 4somes, groups and other degrading fetishes. dont envy people like Silvio Beluscunni who was removed because of the group parties he always partcipated in.

And that is a very pragmatic point. Logically these abnormal acts don't bring any lasting satisfaction hence the craving to become more and more perverted and do more disgusting and filthy acts with one's body. We are not ANIMALS after all but higher beings created in the image of God.

Adeebiwa09:
Governor, let me make something clear. Whether as fore-play or sexual activity, d question is, is it ok to have o_ral s>ex with one's married partner? Nobody is talking about 3some or what have you. When you fetish involves some thing else from your partner or any other strange thing, we already know its wrong, thank God you said "DEGRADING FETISH" it means there are fetish that are not degrading, good.

And for the nth time sodomy is about homosexuality. Please, don't preach religion, that is giving the church a bad image.

Is your partner a toy or does she resemble a rag doll. What is wrong with checking and eliminating the animal and devilish desires and acting a normal moderate manner when you are with your spouse.
What is even bringing about these kind of orgiastic questions. Is it not watching porn and losing the spirit of self control and so becoming obsessed with deriving inordinate pleasure from the body. At the end of these orgiastic acts what is the gain?

Adeebiwa09:
Governor, let me make something clear. Whether as fore-play or sexual activity, d question is, is it ok to have o_ral s>ex with one's married partner? Nobody is talking about 3some or what have you. When you fetish involves some thing else from your partner or any other strange thing, we already know its wrong, thank God you said "DEGRADING FETISH" it means there are fetish that are not degrading, good.
And for the nth time sodomy is about homosexuality. Please, don't preach religion, that is giving the church a bad image.

That is even filthy and disgusting. A man should treat his wife's body with honour and respect. Is it too much to ask that a husband should not subject his wife to abnormal repulsive acts?

Adeebiwa09: People of God. Please, let us not become hypocrites. If you don't agree with it don't condemn those that don't see it as sin. It's not the way of Christ.
The painful part of this is, u will use your hand all over ur wife's body, use your month and tongue all over also. Does that stop you from lifting up your hands in church or praying because technicaly your mouth is 'unholy'? I mean do you propose we shld just jump on her, put it in and when you have done an oscillatary motion and sme white oil have been poured you bring it out and say thank you Jesus? Mehn nawa o. And its these men that would be dangerous in the 'ministry'(se]x[)

you can say that again....lol at bolded, so true, some peeps are artisists when it come to these activities! all manner of bedacrobactics