Ok I just got this new job and it pays really good and my man has changed he has got so emotional and abusive he keeps reminding me that he the boss. And its his house and I should quit this job cause I come back late (I come back at 7 with food )and he complains I dot cook I came with take aways pls I don't know what to do anymore. My man has gone crazy

That is not your man, he is a boy. It is boys like that that won't support your success but will want to hold you down so he can grease his ego.

He does not want to support you but if the reverse was the case he'd expect your support

Your man,a hubby or bf?@op
Please explain

Mynd_44: That is not your man, he is a boy. It is boys like that that won't support your success but will want to hold you down so he can grease his ego.
He does not want to support you but if the reverse was the case he'd expect your support

that is how I feel

lynpetra: Your man,a hubby or bf?@op
Please explain

he is my baby daddy we have a daughter

mataz: that is how I feel he is my baby daddy we have a daughter

What do you think going forward? Do you see yourself having a future with someone who can't be happy at your success and might do things to bring you down?

mataz: that is how I feel he is my baby daddy we have a daughter

Are u guys Married,or preparing to?

He is either evil or childish. Whichever one it is, you don't want such people in your life.. not to mention as a Husband.

Dannylux: He is either evil or childish. Whichever one it is, you don't want such people in your life.. not to mention as a Husband.

I totally agree with you.

Mynd_44: That is not your man, he is a boy. It is boys like that that won't support your success but will want to hold you down so he can grease his ego.

He does not want to support you but if the reverse was the case he'd expect your support

You would jump into any thread and open that your wild mouth without thinking.Bro you lack every iota of lmatrimonial experience and you said her husband na boy.you are a fool
.get married and let your wife be bringing in takeaway as dinner
.get married married and let your wife be coming late..
.get married and let your wife be the major contributor financially.You go hear when..
A woman that has a financial edge over you is quite rocky in naija marriage,xcept for the born again marriages.(she go go show her true colours)
I dont blame the op husband.He should apply wisdom

^^^
Apparently you lack enough sense to comprehend what you read and so cannot give good solution and analysis.

Where did the OP say she is married to this man or did you miss the definition of baby daddy? The OP sounds like someone who would want a career in future which might involve her making more money does she need a man who is not comfy with that?

And you said she comes in late, since when did 7pm become late? If his problem is the take out, why not complain about the take out instead of the job?

You should learn to read, analyse and digest before commenting and trying to insult.

baggy4luv: You would jump into any thread and open that your wild mouth without thinking.Bro you lack every iota of lmatrimonial experience and you said her husband na boy.you are a fool
.get married and let your wife be bringing in takeaway as dinner
.get married married and let your wife be coming late..
.get married and let your wife be the major contributor financially.You go hear when..
A woman that has a financial edge over you is quite rocky in naija marriage,xcept for the born again marriages.(she go go show her true colours)
I dont blame the op husband.He should apply wisdom

u sound just like him u are as selfish as he is

Mynd_44:
What do you think going forward? Do you see yourself having a future with someone who can't be happy at your success and might do things to bring you down?

my dad says. I should move back home and I feel so disappointed the person who is suppose to protect me is against me. What am I going to tell my baby its just so confusing

mataz: u sound just like him u are as selfish as he is my dad says. I should move back home and I feel so disappointed the person who is suppose to protect me is against me. What am I going to tell my baby its just so confusing

Well it might be safer for the child to have two parents who are separated but happy than together and bitter.

You should try talking to him and finding out what you can do to make things better before taking such drastic actions though

mataz: u sound just like him u are as selfish as he is my dad says. I should move back home and I feel so disappointed the person who is suppose to protect me is against me. What am I going to tell my baby its just so confusing

wouldnt she marry him someday..go drolling over what you lack knowledge about

Mynd_44: ^^^
Apparently you lack enough sense to comprehend what you read and so cannot give good solution and analysis.

Where did the OP say she is married to this man or did you miss the definition of baby daddy? The OP sounds like someone who would want a career in future which might involve her making more money does she need a man who is not comfy with that?

And you said she comes in late, since when did 7pm become late? If his problem is the take out, why not complain about the take out instead of the job?

You should learn to read, analyse and digest before commenting and trying to insult.

Whatci hate about nairaland..you would find 24 year olds giving marital advice to.

Mynd_44: ^^^
Apparently you lack enough sense to comprehend what you read and so cannot give good solution and analysis.

Where did the OP say she is married to this man or did you miss the definition of baby daddy? The OP sounds like someone who would want a career in future which might involve her making more money does she need a man who is not comfy with that?

And you said she comes in late, since when did 7pm become late? If his problem is the take out, why not complain about the take out instead of the job?

You should learn to read, analyse and digest before commenting and trying to insult.

pirry yhu

baggy4luv: Whatci hate about nairaland..you would find 24 year olds giving marital advice to.

Actually, I am 12 years old now lets hear your arguments

Seriously this relationship of ur's is not healthy!
First he's already ur baby daddy(without marriage) that's still ok,
The second issue that's bad is the fact that he's not happy with ur success, he's suppose to support u, and work harder on his own part.
U guys need to talk, before any progress can be made.