I am planing on not having sex till I marry, I am not a virgin but I want to have that wedding night bliss cause if you kip on having sex with ur partner u won't enjoy anytin on your wedding night, what do you think

Go ahead with your plans.

Sex is not food.

How old are u?

jmoore: Go ahead with your plans.

Sex is not food.

the thing is can u guys wait that long?

mrsincredible: the thing is can u guys wait that long?

Depends on your guy.

If your guy is also sharing the same sentiment as you then its possible.

But most guys will fault your decision since they know you aint V anymore.

But its still a good decision on your path.
And its a good way of testing your would be partners self-control.

Wishing you the best in your decision.

Royal Roy:

Depends on your guy.

If your guy is also sharing the same sentiment as you then its possible.

But most guys will fault your decision since they know you aint V anymore.

But its still a good decision on your path.
And its a good way of testing your would be partners self-control.

Wishing you the best in your decision.

so wat if my partners don't agree with the ideal

Is money neccessary in a relationship?

If u don't want s*x till wedding night don't want/ ask for money till wedding night.

Henry praise: Is money neccessary in a relationship?

If u don't want s*x till wedding night don't want/ ask for money till wedding night.

so indirectly u pay ur gf for sex? If u think like that then she's not ur bf but a sl.ut. So u mean our fathers who take care of our mothers don't have sense?. My dear u should reason beyond that

No, sex is not necessary close your legs.

That was my desire for my ex who I met chaste but I regretted it as some other guy got a first taste of her before me.
Don't think I can try it again.

mrsincredible: so indirectly u pay ur gf for sex? If u think like that then she's not ur bf but a sl.ut. So u mean our fathers who take care of our mothers don't have sense?. My dear u should reason beyond that

Is your father married to your mother? Why should your BF take care of your financial needs? Go get a job or move in with your dad

Mynd_44:
Is your father married to your mother? Why should your BF take care of your financial needs? Go get a job or move in with your dad

r u happy nw?

mrsincredible: the thing is can u guys wait that long?

All guys are not the same. No premarital sex is my lifestyle. In my case I plan to marry a virgin.

You can find the one that will agree with your plans but they are in the minority.

mrsincredible: I am planing on not having sex till I marry, I am not a virgin but I want to have that wedding night bliss cause if you kip on having sex with ur partner u won't enjoy anytin on your wedding night, what do you think

It's your personal decision so my/our thoughts on the matter is inconsequential.

I hope you get a man that will share the same dream.

It's really as simple as that

jay bee:
It's your personal decision so my/our thoughts on the matter is inconsequential.

I hope you get a man that will share the same dream.

It's really as simple as that

hmmmmmmm. But I tot men like gals with dis type of vision. Can I impose it on him?

mrsincredible: hmmmmmmm. But I tot men like gals with dis type of vision. Can I impose it on him?

Your mind is probably playing tricks on you ma.

Why would you want to impose your preference on someone?

You need to find someone that shares the same dream else you are almost certainly setting yourself for unnecessary heartbreak.
If you want to go celibate then find someone that will support and embrace your stance

Don't go finding Mr born2fuck hoping to impose your celibacy on him

mrsincredible: I am planing on not having sex till I marry, I am not a virgin but I want to have that wedding night bliss cause if you kip on having sex with ur partner u won't enjoy anytin on your wedding night, what do you think

Lol

mrsincredible: the thing is can u guys wait that long?

can u comfortably stay wit a guy that doesn't giv u cash?. And many guys (I inclusive) will feel that u re givin it to some other person while u re pretendin. They might feel in their mind that u re takin them for a ride. If u have a guy that u've had sex wit nd u want to start this abstinence wit him, then by all means do it bt if it's a new guy that u want to do this thing to. Hmmmmm

it all depends on the desires of the two involved. For you, there is a "bliss" in wedding night. For others, such bliss is a contruct of the mind.

iamtheprincipal: That was my desire for my ex who I met chaste but I regretted it as some other guy got a first taste of her before me.
Don't think I can try it again.

iamtheprincipal: That was my desire for my ex who I met chaste but I regretted it as some other guy got a first taste of her before me.
Don't think I can try it again.

Lol

mrsincredible: hmmmmmmm. But I tot men like gals with dis type of vision. Can I impose it on him?

Na lie o. Guys no like girls wey dn blow other guys dn come dey form secondary virgin when e come their turn. If u b virgin e good, na that type guys like. Not secondary virgins.

mrsincredible: the thing is can u guys wait that long?

I like to say its a very nice decision,you set a goal and achieve it dear.
Quoted above as i think its very wrong to say "guys",you wouldnt be dating all of us so I dont see where that term comes to play.
I think you need to go out there and get the right man for you,you both agree and when its time to settle down you both ask yourselves if you played away and if you can forgive whatever you did to stay fit.
Goodluck with you decision and please we need to stop painting men as freak,doesnt make sense making allegations on the other gender.Wonder how that makes you all feel

passionate88: Na lie o. Guys no like girls wey dn blow other guys dn come dey form secondary virgin when e come their turn. If u b virgin e good, na that type guys like. Not secondary virgins.

Primary virgins nko?

mrsincredible: I am planing on not having sex till I marry, I am not a virgin but I want to have that wedding night bliss cause if you kip on having sex with ur partner u won't enjoy anytin on your wedding night, what do you think

...of corse punnny is essential..wha kinda question is this??...and agian, who marrys in 2014?

mrsincredible: so wat if my partners don't agree with the ideal

Are your partners that much?

It is not necessary but compulsory,if u dnt ask of brazillian hair.

Henry praise: Is money neccessary in a relationship?

If u don't want s*x till wedding night don't want/ ask for money till wedding night.

Na wa o! why must you put sex/money in the same sentence? What happen to giving & expecting nothing in return? Dont say there is nothing else you can accept for her to do for her guy without sex being involved, please! Nowadays its BOTH partners help each other tru courtship BOTH that help each other in marriage and through out life. If you claim girls wont give you guys the help or support you need in the relationship , its quite simple,find a selfless lady who will! No always be abt sex sex,

Sex is very very important for me sha..i no fit keep konji for years bcoz of one girl

tintingz: Primary virgins nko?

Those ones na real virgins na. No b like all those girl wey dn jump on top different poles so tey dm dn even blow pass some married couples na that time dm go start to wan claim no sex untill after weddin. Those types no go see me in Amadioha name. Ise

oyinbogirl:

Na wa o! why must you put sex/money in the same sentence? What happen to giving & expecting nothing in return? Dont say there is nothing else you can accept for her to do for her guy without sex being involved, please! Nowadays its BOTH partners help each other tru courtship BOTH that help each other in marriage and through out life. If you claim girls wont give you guys the help or support you need in the relationship , its quite simple,find a selfless lady who will! No always be abt sex sex,

u b whitey na, u no go understand our girls wit their mentality and u no go understand our guys wit our mentality also. Different culture, different orientation.

nairaman66:

Are your partners that much?

seems u don't understand metaphors

passionate88: Those ones na real virgins na. No b like all those girl wey dn jump on top different poles so tey dm dn even blow pass some married couples na that time dm go start to wan claim no sex untill after weddin. Those types no go see in Amadioha name. Ise

LOL funny you