topup:

The problem isn't society, the problem is the way the men and women have grown up, and even more, their past relationships, their upbringing. Out of all the countries in the world, we know Nigeria is well known for polygamy, because traditionally, it is acceptable in certain cultures/tribes. It began long before this 21st century idea that the media has made people have fidelity issues. I think the number of children who's parents argue and almost live separate lives, who's fathers have girlfriends on the side or who's mothers have run abroad or started almost like a separate life for themselves (though still attached to the man via marriage) is shockingly high. I mean my mother and father have been brought together under the term marriage, but they live in different continents, my father if he wanted to could have a girlfriend on the side and my mother another man, truly, since they are both living separate lives. If I grew up thinking this was okay, I could also have a higher chance of cheating, as I wouldn't see the taboo aspect of it.

i so much disagree with you, most men in america and western world do cheat, they just not as bold as nija men to do it to the face of their wife, now would u call that respect? theya re all dong it, they all have mitress that they spend time with, trust me when the light goes out, what most men do in da western world will shock you.
But nigerians will rather bring that woman home for the wife to know the enemy she is dealing with.

women have been brain washed into thinkin that cheating is a mens only affair.
i say let THE GAMES BEGIN,  once it becomes acceptable for women to cheat too, then all this debate will cease to be interesting
every thing is allowed but when u get caught, its a different matter and even if u get caught nothin too spoil

@J-girl, How are you honey?


@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths.  Women can NEVER cheat like men.  The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius,

$$Rhino:

and you don't think that men do cheat for all the stated reasons as well, please note that i am not saying cheating is aiight oh, but i think that men do cheat for those reasons as well,  still blov that when a man is getting it really good at home, whenever he wants, chance of him cheating is low, but when u marry a woman and all of a sudden all the good style she use to give you is no more and she doesnt dress as sexy as before and all of a sudden, she can't kneel to give u 'doggy' and she is always tired to give u some, a man will go out there and do what he has to do.

Rhino, you are showing your true colors. Thank you for pointing it out for all the woman. Oka so your post was just all about sex. If my woman don't give it to me good, i will cheat. If she refuses to hit from the back, i will cheat. If she don't dress to my standards of sexy, i will cheat. If my woman is too tired to give me some love drug, i will cheat. UTTER NONSENSE.

hahahahahaha, that is the funniest thing since nigeria, emotional championship ke, african league ni, they cheat, because they want to cheat and because they want to get busy and get down with another man, and they will come and pretend like nothing happenes, catch a woman with a d**K in her a$$, and she will tell you that it is a corn comb, they cheat withs tyle

Bottom line: Women cheat with reason while men cheat without reason.


If you doubt me, why not ask Eldee or Hannibal why they cheat?

onyinye2:

Rhino, you are showing your true colors. Thank you for pointing it out for all the woman. Oka so your post was just all about sex. If my woman don't give it to me good, i will cheat. If she refuses to hit from the back, i will cheat. If she don't dress to my standards of sexy, i will cheat. If my woman is too tired to give me some love drug, i will cheat. UTTER NONSENSE.

u just love to attack that to discuss, i was responding to j-girl's post oh, stop attacking and just have fun

@ top up, lol. I like it too. it's just something i heard and it stuck.

DeepZone:

Stop scaring Hannibal abeg, He's a serious defaulter here.

Let him be scared. Who knows? Maybe Hannibal will soon open up a topic and I'm waiting for that to happen so i'll laugh my head off

$$Rhino:

and you don't think that men do cheat for all the stated reasons as well, please note that i am not saying cheating is aiight oh, but i think that men do cheat for those reasons as well, still blov that when a man is getting it really good at home, whenever he wants, chance of him cheating is low, but when u marry a woman and all of a sudden all the good style she use to give you is no more and she doesnt dress as sexy as before and all of a sudden, she can't kneel to give u 'doggy' and she is always tired to give u some, a man will go out there and do what he has to do.

Men don't cheat because of that all the time. Most of them cheat for pure fun which makes me even more SICK. Men need to understand that it's not all about sex. They need to know that there are other things besides sex that can encourage one to cheat. Women are emotionally inclined. It's a lot harder for them to cheat out of fun.

Poison Ivy:

@J-girl, How are you honey?
@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths. Women can NEVER cheat like men. The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius,

hey sweets!
Let's see what the guys have to say for themselves. I'm in the mood to LOL.

@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths. Women can NEVER cheat like men. The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius, Angry

Tell 'em girl!!!!

No one cld just cheat for the fun of cheating.

No one cld just cheat for the fun of cheating.

What? Do you live in La la Land?

$$Rhino:

u  just love to attack that to discuss, i was responding to j-girl's post oh, stop attacking and just have fun

Of course im having fun reading all your post. It just proves my point.

Poison Ivy:

@J-girl, How are you honey?


@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths.  Women can NEVER cheat like men.  The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius,  

Hahaha. Very true. Detecting a cheating man is so easy. He doesn't even attempt to hide it correctly. He will keep the text messages. He will keep the phone numbers in his pocket. He will make up lame excuses like "I had to work late" knowing good and well he was at some woman's house smelling like her perfume. I mean if you are going to cheat, put some thought and effort into it. Oi dey.

$$Rhino:

No one cld just cheat for the fun of cheating.

DeepZone:

What? Do you live in La la Land?

Exactly! You just answered him for me. A lot of guys see it as a sport.

onyinye2:

Of course im having fun reading all your post. It just proves my point. ;DHahaha. Very true. Detecting a cheating man is so easy. He doesn't even attempt to hide it correctly. He will keep the text messages. He will keep the phone numbers in his pocket. He will make up lame excuses like "I had to work late" knowing good and well he was at some woman's house smelling like her perfume. I mean if you are going to cheat, put some thought and effort into it. Oi dey.

LOL, It's not even about hiding those things as texts etc. They will stumble at the simpliest of things you ask them, they start sweating like pigs if you dare mention something out of the ordinary.

I enjoy seeing them sink themself deeper by lying through their yellow teeth.  I love being the cat in the game, so I will prompt and prompt until I get them so confused, they are likely to even forget their last meal. ,

The secret to seeing them sweat like a "LovePeddler in church" is to keep the barage of questions. Ask them the same questions in many different formats. mama said a Liar has NO memory. And while they are giving you all the bogus answers, act as if you believe them, LOL


@J huney, yea I can't wait to see this one unfolds. BTW, I collected some serious evidence today o, You need to buzz me up, hmmmmmm Men, opps, boys,

I better wear my shades on this one

Deep,

The burden of proof is not on Hannibal.  It is on you!  Men are claiming that there exist a population of women, we don't know if its proportional or dis-proportional, but that the existence of these population make it imperable that men must act kindly, under the law of fair-distribution, to ensure that they liaise with them in ways comforting and warm in nature.    

shades off   You are counter-claiming that men have no reason to cheat.  I do not advocate cheating but on what grounds are you trying to stop it?

Poison Ivy:

@topic
All y'all goats opps, boys.opps males should shut y'all mouths.  Women can NEVER cheat like men.  The thing that is so freakum deplorable is that y'all CANNOT cheat. For someone who brags so damn much about being "smart", the many clues and hints y'all leave makes even a retard looks like a genius,

Women are serial cheats. . . . . . .The heart of a woman is deeper than the Atlantic ocean.
Behind those smiles and feminine gentleness lies the tenacity and verve to commit the most heinous offences against their husbands.
When a woman wants something desperately. . . . Nuthing can stop her from getting it.
A woman shagging a gardener to bear a child says it all.
Nuff said!!

@ DeepZone,

I don't CHEAT!!!  Far from it.

J-girl:
Men don't cheat because of that all the time. Most of them cheat for pure fun which makes me even more SICK. Men need to understand that it's not all about sex. They need to know that there are other things besides sex that can encourage one to cheat. Women are emotionally inclined. It's a lot harder for them to cheat out of fun.

Who told you it's for fun?
Nah . . . street cred is a serious business

And you said women don't cheat?
C'mon since Helen of Troy to modern day J-girl

eldee:

Who told you it's for fun?
Nah . . . street cred is a serious business

And you said women don't cheat?
C'mon since Helen of Troy to modern day J-girl

Do you all see this?
Helen oshi wo?
Street cred is absolute crap. El, don't lemme catch you there. I have your gf's number on speed dial.
I said women cheat for various reasons and Rhino failed to illuminate why guys cheat.
i don't entirely blame women who cheat cos guys can be mysteriously stupid and actually desert their women. Body no be wood jare!

Hannibal:

Women are serial cheats. . . . . . .The heart of a woman is deeper than the Atlantic ocean.
Behind those smiles and feminine gentleness lies the tenacity and verve to commit the most heinous offences against their husbands.
When a woman wants something desperately. . . . Nuthing can stop her from getting it.
A woman shagging a gardener to bear a child says it all.
Nuff said!!

@ DeepZone,

I don't CHEAT!!! Far from it.

Sharappp, Even if hell freezes over, women can NEVER equate men when it comes to cheating. Wanting something is not at all a bad trait. The sin is the method used to attain it. The thing is society has made us to look as devils. It's ok for y'all to be dipping y'all tolos in every kinda a hole. But if a lady does likewise, she is cursed.

Many times when you find a woman shagging the gardener, its retaliation for her husband shagging the housemaid. So? What is good for the goose is good as well for the gander,

@Eldee, go to Bible Study, You need it son

Poison Ivy:

@J huney, yea I can't wait to see this one unfolds. BTW, I collected some serious evidence today o, You need to buzz me up, hmmmmmm Men, opps, boys,

oooooh darling! I have something to tell you!!!! You need to buzz me too. I just found something out. We need to deal with OUR guys. You know them right? and I met a _{potential FWB today}

Poison Ivy:

What is good for the goose is good as well for the gander,

@Eldee, go to Bible Study, You need it son

EXACTLY @ both points.
El needs Jesus and If men can cheat so can we, which brings me to my other gossip news

These women again. . . . .

Why should a woman cheat on her husband/partner??
2 wrongs don't make a right, does it?

@topic, it would little or no effect on men.

Hannibal:

These women again. . . . .

Why should a woman cheat on her husband/partner??
2 wrongs don't make a right, does it?

Why should a man cheat on his wife/partner?
it's equally wrong to betray the trust in a relationship.

Men cheat because they dont trust the women in their sub conscious

Im just saying that men, are notorious cheaters. It runs in their veins like their best friends, Ego and Pride.

Men cheat because:

They are bored in the relationship
For stupid recognition from their friends
Because they are not satisfied to their degree of sex
Just for the hell of it
Just for the challenge
etc.

I think we should help the sisters understand us a bit, some say it is coded in the gene of a man and they are correct just as giraffes grew long necks so they could eat from tall trees so did the early men cheat with other women to ensure the survival of their offspring. A man can NEVER know,without a paternity test if a child is HIS. But a woman always knows if a child is HERS.That is why throughout all cultures, a cheating wife has always meant
harsher sentences than a cheating husband has. In most other areas, the sentencing for women for other crimes was similar to men’s, if not the same.So the argument that women were judged for harshly because they were women does not seem to be true. It’s only true when it comes to marriage fidelity, and now we know why.

So sisters try and show some love its the way we were created if men were to carry babies I am sure the rate at which they cheat would reduce till then , you gurls have to live with it!

Chrisbenogor:

I think we should help the sisters understand us a bit, some say it is coded in the gene of a man and they are correct just as giraffes grew long necks so they could eat from tall trees so did the early men cheat with other women to ensure the survival of their offspring. A man can NEVER know,without a paternity test if a child is HIS. But a woman always knows if a child is HERS.That is why throughout all cultures, a cheating wife has always meant
harsher sentences than a cheating husband has. In most other areas, the sentencing for women for other crimes was similar to men’s, if not the same.So the argument that women were judged for harshly because they were women does not seem to be true. It’s only true when it comes to marriage fidelity, and now we know why.

So sisters try and show some love its the way we were created if men were to carry babies I am sure the rate at which they cheat would reduce till then , you girls have to live with it!

What the hell is this bull? You are basically saying that we women should accept that a man cheats? Boy you must be out of your mind.

Hannibal:

These women again. . . . .

Why should a woman cheat on her husband/partner??
2 wrongs don't make a right, does it?

It sure DOES NOT, however, it is rewarding,

j-girl:

oooooh darling! I have something to tell you!!!! You need to buzz me too. I just found something out. We need to deal with OUR guys. You know them right? and I met a _{potential FWB today}
EXACTLY @ both points.
El needs Jesus and If men can cheat so can we, which brings me to my other gossip news

LOL, FWB? hhmm.me thinks we on de same pace jare

@chris, thanks for the epistle, unfortunate, ONCE a dog, ALWAYS a dog, woof woof

Chrisbenogor:

So sisters try and show some love its the way we were created if men were to carry babies I am sure the rate at which they cheat would reduce till then , you girls have to live with it!

I can NOT believe this!
We have to live with the fact that men are serial cheaters?
What rubbish?
I am not going to live with it if my man keeps giving out his d**k to every Kemi, Ngozi and Amina that comes his way. In fact, he'll get my fangs stuck in his neck and regret it every single day of his life IF I can not walk out of the relationship easily.

Poison Ivy:

LOL, FWB? hhmm.me thinks we on de same pace jare

@chris, thanks for the epistle, unfortunate, ONCE a dog, ALWAYS a dog, woof woof

I said potential! The guy is just so *sigh*

j-girl:

I can NOT believe this!
We have to live with the fact that men are serial cheaters?
What rubbish?
I am not going to live with it if my man keeps giving out his d**k to every Kemi, Ngozi and Amina that comes his way. In fact, he'll get my fangs stuck in his neck and regret it every single day of his life IF I can not walk out of the relationship easily. I said potential! The guy is just so *sigh*

Don't mind this mu mu boy. He will be the same one to cry his lungs out when his woman cheats on him.

onyinye2:

Don't mind this mu mu boy. He will be the same one to cry his lungs out when his woman cheats on him.

Abi o!
Don't mind him! I want to see if all other guys will back him up on this before I attack them too.

@Onyinye2 ya I know its sad but its the truth. 8 out of every ten married men must have come close to cheating on their wives its not denying the constant temptation its the acting on it that differs with each man and believe me sometimes its just as hard. Plus why are men visual you want to fight that too go ask the Indecency industry you should get a good answer about what sex their biggest customers are. I think your beef is with the creator,
Keepin it real!

Do you all see this?
Helen oshi wo?
Street cred is absolute crap. El, don't let me catch you there. I have your girlfriend's number on speed dial.    

Street cred is everything
There's a reason why my marital status says SINGLE!!! not caged
I don't still believe it's possible to cheat before marriage, it's like tasting different foods at a buffet

@Eldee, go to Bible Study, You need it son

I got a letter from the Vatican
They apologised for mistakenly depriving me of sainthood