When i was a virgin, i made a promise to boy that we will not know each other till we get married in which he took me as he's wife,but now i ve been tempted by a devil, in which i dont know how to explain it but the fact is,am no more a virgin.He's calling me every day and keep on asking me are you still what you are even the day that it happened but i said yes.How can i explain this to him, should i keep silence till we marry or should i tell him now but am afraid he will leave me if tell him and i dont want him to leave blc i loved him too much.

ekpereka:

When i was a virgin, i made a promise to boy that we will not know each other till we get married in which he took me as he's wife,but now i ve been tempted by a devil, in which i don't know how to explain it but the fact is,am no more a virgin.He's calling me every day and keep on asking me are you still what you are even the day that it happened but i said yes.How can i explain this to him, should i keep silence till we marry or should i tell him now but am afraid he will leave me if tell him and i don't want him to leave blc i loved him too much.

Firstly, devil couldnt have tempted you, plain and simple, sometimes, i think we blame devil for what he has no knowldge of.
Secondly, there is no two way around it, just call him and tell him that you have fukc someone else, and let him make his choice, if he wanna stay with you or wanna leave, he might be understanding on the fact that you were the one that told him the truth.
If you love him, u would have thought abt that as well, before opening ur legs for Mr. Disvirgin.
But be honest with your man and be willing to face the consequencies, cos he will eventually find out

Plz don't giv us that devil crap,u wanted it,u craved for it,u longed for it,u knew exactly wat u were doin so leave the devil out of this one because he has done nothin wrong.In my younger days i used to fall for that cheap trick,wen they finally succumbed it turned out they were just as wide as a German autobahn.U had better tell him now and save ur self the humilitation of ur life.because if it was me,even if i find out afta the weddin u're leavin that very minute.

This is too funny.

DEvil don Suffer!!!

A hard pill to swallow, yet the truth must be told no matter how bitter.
Don't expect him to welcm u with am open arms, be expectant of the worse
The reason y u shld tell him is dat weda u like it or not, the truth must come to limelight someday and when it does, it becomes more terrible than it should be and  then he will never trust u again for the rest of his life.

But wait o, does it mean that the guy u gave it to is most prefered than ur guy? am wondering otherwsie saw no reason why u shld haven made the promise and go breaking it.

Anyway, it will break his heart, eventually he will still have u back if he cares so so much, otherwise u are on ur own girl. Good luck as u confess.

ekpereka:

i don't want him to leave blc i loved him too much.

if u really love him as you
said, then u could have wait
for him. wish u all the best though

am really sorry dear,
the devil is so wicked,

look for the sake of other virgins around, tell them what d devil looked liked so they wont be tempted.

izeek:

am really sorry dear,
the devil is so wicked,

look for the sake of other virgins around, tell them what d devil looked liked so they wont be tempted.

i will like to know what the devil looks like as well, so i cld avoid him

How d hell did u allow devil to use you ? well there is nothing to hide again. just tell him point blank and know your faith with him. it will be worst if you keep this secrete till ur widding night with him. pills can seal the road anyway, since u did it only once.

@ post

u c the problem some of una wey b gals b say una no dey no hw to say no 2 all dis rampaging sugar cane.nw u dey say na devil work, who come b d devil nw if no b you.

devil ko esu ni
why do people always go and bother satan when he was just sitting down n minding his own biz
u might as well tell the guy that it was devil that raped you

hmmmnn.its better you tell him sooner rather than later so he ll learn a very important lesson not to take women at their word when they tell u they r virgins, its all a big con, sounds like a nollywood script to me tho sorri

ekpereka:

When i was a virgin, i made a promise to boy that we will not know each other till we get married in which he took me as he's wife,but n[b]ow i ve been tempted by a devil[/b], in which i don't know how to explain it but the fact is,am no more a virgin.He's calling me every day and keep on asking me are you still what you are even the day that it happened but i said yes.How can i explain this to him, should i keep silence till we marry or should i tell him now but am afraid he will leave me if tell him and i don't want him to leave blc i loved him too much.

Na real wah for you oh!

what kind of tempted by the devil? nonsense
*smh*
You did what you wanted to do Q.E.D.no amount of deception will change the fact that you are no longer a virgin.

Woman up and take responsibility for your actions!! tell the truth then and Shame the devil

it's beeta u tell him as soon as possible
on a side note, i tink the devil was far away when it happened

IF U CAN TRY 'N' STAY AWAY FROM SEX FOR NOW,

BE REST ASURE IT WILL CLOSED BACK AS IF U ARE STILL A VIRGIN BEFORE HE GET TO KNOW,

BUT

PROMISE DEVIL NEVER TO GO BACK INTO IT AGAIN COS U'AV TASTED 'N' I'M VERY SURE U DID ENJOYED IT.

Ola8:

IF You CAN TRY 'N' STAY AWAY FROM SEX FOR NOW,

BE REST ASURE IT WILL CLOSED BACK AS IF You ARE STILL A VIRGIN BEFORE HE GET TO KNOW,

BUT

PROMISE DEVIL NEVER TO GO BACK INTO IT AGAIN COS You'AV TASTED 'N' I'M VERY SURE You DID ENJOYED IT.

Who dey decieve this one.Anybody wey tell u that one don chop ur money.

ROFLS _{On the last day . . . Devil will surprise PLENTY peeps . . .}

Nautillus:

ROFLS _{On the last day . . . Devil will surprise PLENTY peeps . . .}

Abi o?


The devil made me do it indeed.

kai! the devil must be very looooong and haaaaaard!
ROTFL

SOJ:

kai! the devil must be very looooong and haaaaaard!
ROTFL

and that means every woman would like to ride a devil and every man carry around a devil, by ur definition

@rHINO
YUP!!!
Abeg who don see d devil??

SOJ:

@rHINO
YUP!!!
Abeg who don see d devil??

if u be man, check btw ur legs and you will see the devil there.
If you be sister, check ur man's lingo and you will see the devil

We blame devil every time.

@ godalone,

for want of an excuse,
yes the devil is readily available.

am am sure he wont mind u blaming him, as long as u did the deed.

Ola8:

IF You CAN TRY 'N' STAY AWAY FROM SEX FOR NOW,

BE REST ASURE IT WILL CLOSED BACK AS IF You ARE STILL A VIRGIN BEFORE HE GET TO KNOW,

BUT

PROMISE DEVIL NEVER TO GO BACK INTO IT AGAIN COS You'AV TASTED 'N' I'M VERY SURE You DID ENJOYED IT.  

Tis' true but not applicable in all cases.

cold:

Who dey decieve this one.Anybody wey tell u that one don chop your money.

Believe it or not, tis' true to a certain extent. . . depends on the elasticity of the vaginal wall. Ever wondered why somebabes sleep around and still have tight vaginal. . . y'all pray to God for elastic vaginal wall. Some babes got disvirgined due to rigorous exercise and not sexual intercourse.

@ poster: Tell the truth, at least u'll still have whats left of ur dignity.

And if e dey do u like sey na dat guy or no-one else. . . there's a place on allen avenue wey dem fit help u sow am 2gether.

Pls don't quote me oooh.



PS: PERSONALLY, I PREFER NON-VIRGINS. . . SAVES U DISSAPOINTMENT ON WEDDING NITE.

Okanran:



And if e dey do u like sey na that guy or no-one else. . . there's a place on allen avenue wey them fit help u sow am 2gether.

Please don't quote me oooh.

Bros man u don waka o!

Okanran:


PS: PERSONALLY, I PREFER NON-VIRGINS.

hmmmmmm

rokiatu:

hmmmmmm

lexicon:

AMAKAONE:

  Bros man u don waka o!

Will y'all stop making me the subject of discussion, abi na bad thing 2 give advice

@ AMAKAONE: Didn't u see this Please don't quote me oooh. BTW, what would u say if I were to tell u moi's a virgin I know u probably doubt this, which is y am leaving ma number for you to call so u can come n confirm.

Holla @ 080-I CAN GO ALL NITE-Bleep tis' toll free.

PS: Poster, start practicing that siggy of urs.

Its better u tell him over the phone before h finds out on the wedding nite.
U have no choice, just tell him.

Madam,

I am sorry to read about your situation. Do not take the words of some of these heartless posters too seriously, I understand that in this world, the devil does his best to destroy that which is the best of us. The devil is not concerned about petty things, as always, he goes for the biggest score.

We live in an educated society where people understand that sometimes a virgin will not bleed because her hymen is already torn from some non-sexual activity in the past. Continue lying to that man. I'm sure this was just a one time failing that has solidified your commitment. There is no reason to EVER tell him. After all, if he never finds out, it's as if it never happened.

Good luck and Godspeed.

@ poster

dont mind all the people who are condeming you. the boy dosen't need to know, just go and wash your "stuff" with alum and it will be tight as hell. infact, u'll feel like a virgin to him when he does that thing.