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Poll: He drinks, but his girlfriend must not drink. This is:

Ridiculous: 68% (11 votes)
Understandable: 31% (5 votes)
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Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by izeek(m): 1:01pm On Aug 27, 2008
i dont have a problem with ladies who drink,

but 1 qst, has he ever asked about ur drinking habit, and what did u say?
am sure he is angry about sometin.
cos if he knew u drink, then no sense in the issue.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by spikedcylinder: 1:05pm On Aug 27, 2008
apocalypse:

@ spikedcylinder

   Don't need to get upbeat bout it am just trying to make a point here.Be true to yourself , you wouldn't like the idea that your brothers wife smokes.

   I am teetotal and I don't smoke , even if I can stand my friends drinking or smoking I wouldn't want to be friends with a woman who does let alone my g/f


  p/s: I no be SU but I believe what is bad for the man is badder is worse for the woman

I am not being "upbeat" and I am 100% true to myself.
I cannot be bothered by what someone else does with herself except I see that it is ridiculously destructive e.g taking hard drugs then I might try and wade in. But habits like drinking and smoking? As long as it is done in moderation why bother?
I bite my nails. Loads of people think it is a bad habit, I agree but would i appreciate my "husband's sister" trying to make a mockery of it? No.
There are lots of other things to think about than making it my business what habits people get up to or what things people believe or do not believe in.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by naijacutee(f): 1:17pm On Aug 27, 2008
Na wa o. As long as you're not an alcohlic, what's the problem? So if you two go together to a restaurant or something, you're not allowed to order wine etc?

I see nothing wrong with beer as long as the 'drinker' is not dependent on it. Personally, I wouldn't drink beer, as it's not very lady-like in my opinion. I'd rather go for something like Baileys or wine.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by SOJ(m): 1:42pm On Aug 27, 2008
@poster

there's somtin u r not telling: for example, did he see u drinking alone? grin

but really, d guy must be a toddler to leave u for taking an apparently harmless drink of stout and yogurt, i mean there r obviously worse combinations in life: coke + garri, rice + ogbono soup and so on tongue
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 2:21pm On Aug 27, 2008
Seun:

Forget the guy. If he drinks, then he should not have a problem with you drinking.
Tanks SEUN,he is takin everything too personal
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Pataki: 3:18pm On Aug 27, 2008
@ Poster,

O ti e le. Na small stout you dey drink? Why wont he leave you? undecided

Step up your game. A girl who drinks such for me is a no go area for life time commitment.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by tope2000(f): 3:21pm On Aug 27, 2008
lol@thread grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by KarmaMod(f): 3:22pm On Aug 27, 2008

whats the problem with palmwine?

Everything is wrong with it.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by spikedcylinder: 3:26pm On Aug 27, 2008
Pataki:

@ Poster,

O ti e le. Na small stout you dey drink? Why wont he leave you? undecided

Step up your game. A girl who drinks such for me is a no go area for life time commitment.

e-hubby, what might you suggest? wink
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Pataki: 3:29pm On Aug 27, 2008
spikedcylinder:

e-hubby, what might you suggest? wink
There is Sepe, there is Opa Eyin, there is even Ogogoro. She is sitting with small stout. tongue

So you just remembered me all the while abi?
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by tope2000(f): 3:30pm On Aug 27, 2008
Pataki:

There is Sepe, there is Opa Eyin, there is even Ogogoro. She is sitting with small stout. tongue

So you just remembered me all the while abi?
lmao grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by MrCrackles(m): 3:31pm On Aug 27, 2008
Pataki:

There is Sepe, there is Opa Eyin, there is even Ogogoro. She is sitting with small stout. tongue

So you just remembered me all the while abi?

paraga, burantashi, adiagbon abi shoboleyoke nkan! grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by tope2000(f): 3:32pm On Aug 27, 2008
Brash!:

paraga, burantashi, adiagbon abi shoboleyoke nkan! grin

oh gosh
pls dont kill me laughter grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Pataki: 3:36pm On Aug 27, 2008
Brash!:

paraga, burantashi, adiagbon abi shoboleyoke nkan! grin
I GO DIE OH!!!!! grin cheesy grin

See why it is not good to log on nairaland during work time. You people are kolomental. cheesy
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Aug 27, 2008
All d shayo girls in d house jen rowo e loke! grin

@poster
All dt wan na excuse.
There's a bigga booty he's knocking rite now! QED. cool
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by maborukoje(f): 6:15pm On Aug 27, 2008
NiyiRocks!:

All d shayo girls in d house jen rowo e loke! grin

@poster
All dt wan na excuse.
There's a bigga booty he's knocking rite now! QED. cool
TANKS dear as if u no he is knocking a new girl right nw,tahks every1 in d House i gotten over d issues right nw he is not wil 2 have mi back,BUT IS DERE ANYTIN BAD IN DRINKING STOUT AND YOUGUORT CAUSE I DONT RELLY UNDERSTND.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Aug 27, 2008
Please don't beg him to come back.

Reason 1: Are you willing to give up drinking for the relationship? In all honesty, I think it's not worth it in this case. Won't he run away if he notices that you have some other habit that he can not condone?

Reason 2: If he loved you as he must have told you before you guys started checking each other out, If he was a real man, he would have warned you or at least tried to convince you to leave a bad habit rather than make a run for it.

I guess the guy had eaten what he came to eat and now he has found a perfect excuse to move on.
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by spikedcylinder: 11:39am On Aug 28, 2008
Pataki:

There is Sepe, there is Opa Eyin, there is even Ogogoro. She is sitting with small stout. tongue

So you just remembered me all the while abi?

No o! You always on ma mind babes. . . . grin
Brash!:

paraga, burantashi, adiagbon abi shoboleyoke nkan! grin

Kolomental kpata kpata gba ni e!!!! grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Left Me Because I Take Alcohol: Is It Meant For Guys Only? by chikend(m): 2:53pm On Aug 28, 2008
Ceeno E vu:



I guess the guy had eaten what he came to eat and now he has found a perfect excuse to move on.



seconded,


@poster.! ROCK ON BABY!!! grin

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