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I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by samguru(m): 10:32pm On Aug 30, 2008
hi,
i am a guy of 26 i don't just know the reason why i find it difficult to date any girl yet i admire girls. the painful aspect of it is that i will be graduating next year and virtually all my friends are planning to get married .
please advice me on how to develop the habit of wooing girls and how to behave in relationship
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by vivaladiva(f): 10:39pm On Aug 30, 2008
this seems like searching to me
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by Nobody: 10:40pm On Aug 30, 2008
lolololololol lawwd have mercy
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by olanajim(m): 11:02pm On Aug 30, 2008
@poster,
there is no rule sorry.

Read your book, eat mama food, sleep, wake up and take care of yourself. Take charge of your pocket.

Be yourself. Don't be a photocopy!
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by topup: 1:24am On Sep 05, 2008
You can start by trying to increase the number of female friends you have so you can observe their characters, don't make a mistake of finding girls who are only desperate for marriage because they are graduating also, it will be perfect to find one, who will love you for you and not because you can be a quick husband.

Really, wooing girls should come naturally, but if it doesn't, you're going to have to go out of your comfort zone, try speaking more to girls in your everyday life, and make jokes and test your lines, as your friends about how they found their 'special somebody', just start actively searching and looking and acknowledging the women around you and you should start seeing progress.
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by olanajim(m): 2:22am On Sep 05, 2008
Well said. But, is the guy alone? Being lonely is not the same as beimg alone. I was in that state at that age. No gal, no date. Initially, I thought I would lose out. But then, I discovered that I wasn't even interested. There are many single ladies around. Single, lonely, and alone. You can't get them unless you are seen! Take to topup. Or remain a monk! I used to be a monk too.
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by Nobody: 6:41am On Sep 05, 2008
@ topup,
Are u a LOVE specialist? u really impress me with ur' responses on all the romance threads, u seem like the kinda girl thats fun and eazy to hang with!
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by olanajim(m): 9:30am On Sep 05, 2008
Try her out!
Re: I Am Lonely Yet Not Searching by hollandis(f): 9:34am On Sep 05, 2008
samguru:

hi,
i am a guy of 26 i don't just know the reason why i find it difficult to date any girl yet i admire girls. the painful aspect of it is that i will be graduating next year and virtually all my friends are planning to get married .
please advice me on how to develop the habit of wooing girls and how to behave in relationship
You need sympathy or what?
Go get a life angry

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