topup:

Don't listen to it, if someone told you that. It means NOTHING, his behaviour is what matters most. If you respond to it by being more intimate with him, it could have just been a ploy to get you to see him in a more romantic light. If you're not currently going out, or the best of friends, or have known each other for years, then the guy is just testing the waters to see how gullable you are, or he is really desperate for marriage, who knows he could have said the same thing to another girl last week, but she rejected him.

Don't let him make up your mind for you or rush you, if you weren't interested in him before, this shouldn't change things.

Tgirl4real:

I met one foolish guy _{(branch manager)} at sweet sensations sometimes ago when i went to make some enquiries. You won't believe the guy proposed that first day. He sat me down as if he had somethn intelligent to say. Lo and behold, he started on the history of his life and ended up handing me a marriage proposal.


Few months later, i went back to that branch to get some snacks with some friends. I saw the guy, so, i decided to pretend i din't know him. The guy couldn't even walk up to me. He was wondering if he knew me or not. _{how he go remember when na so he dey propose to every girl that enters sweet sensations.}

Busy_body:

I have long given up on guys that do this, it is the ladies that accepts that amazes me. And I know 3 people that got married within a week of meeting their hubby, and of course, money played an important part. A cousin of mine did it too, she said it is better to get married to someone that can take care of you, rather than someone who you would struggle with

3 out of those 4 are in serious trouble but they can't get out as they are newlyweds, the fourth one too got into a few trouble but she has gone underground. I also know loads of guys that are regretting their hasty life partner choice and are suffering.

k1banty:

Na wah for woman, just because say man like better thing and he dey promise heaven on earth that one no mean say make una dey use us pose and denge.

One thing i noticed is women always find it difficult to tell the truth to a man's face in a polite manner. why is this so?

k1banty:

Na wah for woman, just because say man like better thing and he dey promise heaven on earth that one no mean say make una dey use us pose and denge.

One thing i noticed is women always find it difficult to tell the truth to a man's face in a polite manner. why is this so?

Tgirl4real:

Nawa o. I don conclude that desperation/love of money/dishonesty is the root of most broken marriages.

k1banty:

Na wah for woman, just because say man like better thing and he dey promise heaven on earth that one no mean say make una dey use us pose and denge.
One thing i noticed is women always find it difficult to tell the truth to a man's face in a polite manner. why is this so?

k1banty:

@busy_body
why do 'some' women especially those working always have to 'access' a guy's appearance before anything else. What are they looking for?

k1banty:

I get levels so i don't just ask/talk to any girl, she has to be classy and when you want that you step up your game.

k1banty:

No woman will want to understand your situation, they want something in a man they can hold on to. Good job that pays well, choice cars (some will even tell you they want to manage with what you've got)

k1banty:

If it is just any girl then that will be easy and women will understand but if you want the best the you have to flaunt your best. Men overdo with their promises but some can afford to do it while some can't. This is part of the "wooing" process. All lies will always be uncover later, serves who right? Me i don't know.
Na so i see am

Tgirl4real:

Busy_body, it's not in all cases that the guy is not on the same level with the girl. Some guys just don't think before they talk, while some are born liars. At the same time we have those that are truly desperate and can actually do anything to get the girl they want.

Ruby_Pearl:

Wedding in a week?
Sorry, I don't do Vegas style

Outstrip:

A guy once said that to me. He said he would give me the world or die trying. It was so corny. We had not even known each other for 2 weeks though I went to high school with his twin sister. I actually laughed it off but he did not give up. He got married though and whenever we would run into each other I would tease him about it and he would be so embarassed. Funny as hell.

Ladies what would you make of a man that says he can marry you in a week if given the oppurtunity?

Guys, what do you have in mind for a lady you say this too, that is if you have been in the situation before?

Honest responses please!!!

victorian:

Poster, please don't accept his proposal to marry you within a week of just meeting. Its a trap, i was once a victim. My exhusband saw me for the first time and proposed within a week, he lives abroad, has a good job, but the guy was not what he proclaimed to be. I saw "pepper" . But i thank God, am out of it alive . God is good O! Beware.
No good man would want to rush into marrying a girl , he simply met within a week , NONE!

Abuseay:

Hmmnn, Gamine,

Gamine:

Ahh Tgirly

How you take know sef.

i wonder what some guys think, the desperadoness dosnt surprise me these days o