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| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by opsydudu(m): 2:58pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
topup:  what do u mean by boys are selfish  ?explain yourself |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by grandjedi(m): 4:02pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
@ topup A one-sided relationship is quite undesireable and should be avoided like the plague. However, in reality it occurs and some marriages are even like that. But with some of the things Zitar has said and prayer ( I believe, no, I know it works) then in time most of these lop-sided relationships can improve. Even a mad man responds to love. Now this is not talking about some pathologic relationships in which those involved have to leave for their own safety. @opsydudu I think she was contrasting mature men with immature men (boys) in terms of behaviour in a relationship. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by topup: 4:37pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
So grand jedi, would you advise that instead of quitting a relationship (not marriage), one should instead continue showing love? There are some relationships which the person doing wrong is comforted by the idea that the other person will never leave so they don't feel any hurry in changing their ways. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 4:40pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
People are selfish boys,girls,men,ladies etc, i think she is talking about our society believes so i guess if you love someone you show the person with action and words. But ladies show with words more than action which is not too good as a few ladies show with action and the rest of the ladies call them bad girls. It is funny how the truth is bitter. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Bazz1905: 4:54pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Zitar, Zitar, Zitar. I have repeated your name as a mark of respect. If you are married, then your husband must be one of the very very very few lucky men, and if you are not, i guess there should be many guys crawling at your feet. (That is if you practice what you preach). Appreciation, is one major deficiency ravaging most ladies (and men also) today. If only we can appreciate what we have and give thanks, many relationships will live longer. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 5:18pm On Sep 18, 2008 |
Bazz1905 you want to date her, i am sure you already have wet dreams about her, but remember something you can make your girlfriend like that if you as a guy know what you want and express it in a way she understands. A good start will be showing her this print up. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Bazz1905: 9:56am On Sep 19, 2008 |
TRanngirls, I am not having wet dreams and will never have. I appreciated Zitars post and in no way showed any sexual admiration. ( You might want to read my post again) It is just refreshing to note that their are still women who acknowledge the power of appreciation. I appreciate my girl (My wife, but i is still call her my girl) and treat her with love and respect, this in turn is reciprocated. This has been the driving force in our union for the past TEN years. (A mile stone i SINCERELY PRAY YOU ACHIEVE). The strenght of a woman does not lie in her tongue, or in sarcasm or in her body. A womans strenght lies in her brains and attitude. Appreciation is a catalyst needed in solidifying every relationship. I hope you appreciate Zitars post and learn to inculcate the habit of appreciation. You sure will need it. and oh lest i forget, the previous post and this post were both typed with my girl by my side. I have nothing to hide. lol |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by grandjedi(m): 11:52am On Sep 19, 2008 |
topup: Not quite. Notice the caveat in my post. grand jedi: In those instances when you know you've given your best and the other party is still taking you for granted then you need to opt out in peace. This is a parasitic relationship that may end up devastating the person. @Bazz1905 I quite agree with you. Many women don't realise that their men could be their love slave if they would just appreciate him. Or that a woman is in the best position to cut her man to the bone with her tongue which brings out the beast in him. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Bazz1905: 12:44pm On Sep 19, 2008 |
Grand Jedi. True talk. There will be less stress in relationships if they could discover the power of kind words intead of believing that being bitchy is the in thing. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by topup: 1:33pm On Sep 19, 2008 |
opsydudu: Lol, I choose my words carefully, BOYS ARE SELFISH! Men on the otherhand are wonderful! Boys eventually grow up into men. Which one are you? |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by simmy(m): 2:33pm On Sep 19, 2008 |
mage is going to come and post crap here. sharrap |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Mage: 2:36pm On Sep 19, 2008 |
Okay. Twas a nice and enlightening but did you have to do an exposé on guys? Men can be so vain and egotistical when it comes to their sexual prowess. If you have a man, and its ounds lik u do. Grab him, take him home and let him know how much you love him behind closed doors. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 12:56am On Sep 22, 2008 |
Mage i undestand want you are saying but i give my man appreciation because he deserves it, him alone not anybody else. I like my man to talk about me to his friends as the best sex he ever had not a one night stand he had. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by chessguru(m): 1:12am On Sep 22, 2008 |
more like appreciate your king, he is priceless |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by jgirl3: 1:18am On Sep 22, 2008 |
Appreciate a man? Okay, lemme appreciate a guy (who's not in my family) in my life right now. He's a wonderful, handsome guy with good dress sense. Till date, I bless the day I met him. He's the perfect guy in every sense. Caring, nice, dedicated, determined, helpful, amazing, intelligent and downright gentlemanly. He has never said anything bad to me in all our days of being friends, yet, he's totally honest with me. He may be far from me but he never fails to check up on me regularly and he shows genuine concern. He's not my boyfriend or husband but he's the one guy right now that have shown me how good men can be. I'm appreciating my closest guy friend and I really love the fact that he's always been there for me. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 4:48am On Sep 23, 2008 |
J-girl it is nice to appreciate a man but i think zitar was talking about your boyfriend(lover) not a guy that is your friend. Personally i think appreciating a guy that is not my boyfriend will cause problem especially if you have a boy friend or he has a girlfriend that will cause friction. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by jgirl3: 5:27am On Sep 23, 2008 |
Tranngirls:I don't have a bf so I'm appreciating the closest thing to that that i have and his gf already knows me that well. It's not going to cause any problems. . . she knows how much i admire her bf and she knows i'll never do anything to hurt them. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 2:40am On Sep 24, 2008 |
Well ok but i suggest you get a lover you are appreciate ok, because through my experience the most effective way to please a man is sex and you cant give your friend with a girlfriend sex anyway that is my own opinion. Get the real thing not a substitute. |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by joshjosh(m): 2:53am On Sep 24, 2008 |
topup: you dont take hostages young lady. it is not your fault God blessed you with wisdom and a good dose of common sence |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 3:16am On Sep 25, 2008 |
Zitar where did u come up with this, you are my heroine |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by 190: 12:16am On Oct 07, 2008 |
wait na me u want mak i read that tin, NO WAY MAN ABI NA WOMAN, CHELSEA DEY PLAY MATCH IM OFF |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by Tranngirls(f): 3:52pm On Aug 20, 2009 |
It has been a long time we read this but it is so true, this should be read over and over again |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by unitee(f): 10:01pm On Aug 20, 2009 |
he is everything the world can provide |
| Re: Appreciate Your Boyfriend/husband by achinu(m): 1:50am On Aug 21, 2009 |
Thank you for such a write up, you definitely hit the bulls-eye. I've always told my woman & continue to tell her that it's the little things that matter, I personally like to compliment my mate. I remember earlier in our my relationship, I noticed that I wasn't getting any type of compliments from her but would get compliments from other women outside. I brought this to her attention, although I consider myself a self confident individual it bothered me that the woman I cared about & was dating wasn't much of a compliment giver, yet I was getting compliments from other women besides her. She apologized & said she it wasn't intentional, that she wasn't used to receiving compliments and it didn't really cross her mind to reciprocate. Fast forward a few years later she's now a better compliment giver which I really appreciate. Some people might ask what's the BIG DEAL in complimenting your mate, I'll put it like my pastor said "IF YOU DO NOT AFFIRM YOUR MATE, SOMEONE ELSE WILL" and trust me you don't want others affirming your mate cuz it may just open up a window/door in your relationship that you don't want. Again thanks!!!! |
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