but theres is gona be a time when u really need it! would u still continue being proud!

lalaboi:

but theres is gona be a time when u really need it! would u still continue being proud!

It's NOT being proud dear, It's protecting your reputation. And if that times do come, I would rather depend on siblings or a friend, I can guarantee you they WON'T use it against moi.

oya lets turn the topic around!

what about the other way round! let the guyz answer this time!

me? am gona collect till it finishes! lol! when gal don love you! she can kill her papa sef for u!

guyz are the wisest, thats why they dnt av regards for gals! ( not me oh)


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ladies: would u giv ur guy when he's in need? or u will rather wait for him to ask?

i would/have give/given to my man in need w/o him asking. Some have refused others accepted.

I have, not too sure if I would again though, It depends,

Anytime someone I love or care about is in need, I want to help. Of course I would offer to help if I had a boyfriend who was going through hard times.
What is money, anyway? What is it worth, if not to take care of our loved ones?

There are more important things in life than having fake hair and nails!!

amber_ella:

Anytime someone I love or care about is in need, I want to help. Of course I would offer to help if I had a boyfriend who was going through hard times.
What is money, anyway? What is it worth, if not to take care of our loved ones?

There are more important things in life than having fake hair and nails!!

I just love this girl , Well said honey. Life entails so much more, It's funny how we take things for granted,

thats what u'll say! i bet u r putn on an attatchment rightnow!

lalaboi:

thats what u'll say! i bet you're putn on an attatchment rightnow!

Men and their warped thinking ,

I dont need attachments dear, I was beautifully created by the Master himself. If God wanted me to have long nails he would have made me with them,

lalaboi:

thats what u'll say! i bet you're putn on an attatchment rightnow!

lol - You wouldn't know either way. A true lady never spills her secrets.

amber_ella:

lol - You wouldn't know either way. A true lady never spills her secrets.

LOL, you tell him, We might give you a water-down version, but NEVER the real deal

Obviously

Well, sometimes some girls act like they dont need the financial help of their boyfrnds. Even when things gets too rough, you try to assist, give them the money and they try to prove a point that they could do it without your money. This gets out of hand sometimes and the boy folds his hand and look like a "lukosade" as if to say, "make we dey look"

It pays a lot when friends help each other. The girl might have money and just pulling the boy friend's leg. Life is meant in such a way that it might be the girl he refuses to help that will help him tomorrow. Money is like a wing. What goes around come around

Why the females expect males to be their financial saviours and then turn around to say that Man and Woman should be equal. The guy is not ur father so don't expect him to help you out. If he does, it's just an added bonus. Are you in a relationship so that your financial problems can be solved? Abeg, the guy has no obligation whatsover to help out the girl. Na im born u? Whatever happened to "i am a strong independent black woman", its at times like this that women throw Oprah and her sayings out the window, rrrrrrubish