this is to all those hoping to tie the rope soon ,newly wedded can borrow a line or two.
this are some of the major issues that will usually constitute a serious headache if not properly handled in marriage.

1,money
2,sex
3,number of kids
4,roles,if you want to stick to tradition is OK
5,family planning option.please avoid the use of chemoprophylacs or other stuffs that are not sure of some of them can render barren for up to 20 years or permanently.
6,Ministry,if you are the type let her know you have the tendency to abandon all and commit to God in the ministry some day.
7,expectations
all this and more should be the topic of your discussion before you say i do. please real fellows add to the list and lets all learn.

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without any reservation,i agree with thee.you must have some experience? bless you