Hello guys!!!As a graduate who has finished service and now working,can you be in a serious relationship with a lady who is still seeking seriously for admission(this will be the second time she is failing jamb so has to wait for next year to try her luck in another jamb)(cos u mit v to wait for her to enter school,finish or u will marry her like that n start facin that emotional torture of how many guys r toastin her now or if she is flirting..esp.if u r a very jealous type?and Ladies,if u r in this lady's shoes,can u accept the relationship or u will think he is just fooling you around and won't end up marrying you??. Thanks

I won't advice that kinda relationship

missyhorlah: I won't advice that kinda relationship

Why?

Sweetest lady: Hello guys!!!As a graduate who has finished service and now working,can you be in a serious relationship with a lady who is still seeking seriously for admission(this will be the second time she is failing jamb so has to wait for next year to try her luck in another jamb)(cos u mit v to wait for her to enter school,finish or u will marry her like that n start facin that emotional torture of how many guys r toastin her now or if she is flirting..esp.if u r a very jealous type?and Ladies,if u r in this lady's shoes,can u accept the relationship or u will think he is just fooling you around and won't end up marrying you??. Thanks

do you love her?

abolade62:
Why?

cuz the girl hasn't tasted the world yet!what is giving dt guy the assurance that the girl wll date him

missyhorlah: cuz the girl hasn't tasted the world yet!what is giving dt guy the assurance that the girl wll date him

what if they r already dating?? The question is what is the probability their relationship will last cos wen she enters school,the whole story will change wen she meets finer guys to spoil her with cash

Sweetest lady: what if they r already dating?? The question is what is the probability their relationship will last cos wen she enters school,the whole story will change wen she meets finer guys to spoil her with cash

that is what m saying#she hasn't tasted the world

missyhorlah: cuz the girl hasn't tasted the world yet!what is giving dt guy the assurance that the girl wll date him

What gives you the assurance that they both cant be faithful to each other?

abolade62:
What gives you the assurance that they both cant be faithful to each other?

dunno! As a matter of fact I just said my view

missyhorlah: dunno! As a matter of fact I just said my view

You are partially right but dont be too certain it will fail.

Btw nice profile pics*winks*.

abolade62:
You are partially right but dont be too certain it will fail.

Btw nice profile pics*winks*.

thanks

abolade62:
What gives you the assurance that they both cant be faithful to each other?

it happens but remember that u guys suspect a lot.suspect she might b dating or movin around with some guy..and again,it will turn out to be a distance relationship if the gal passes jamb and gets admission in a school dat is very faraway from where the guy is..n u know dat distance relationship isn't easy at all.it brings problem.a tym will come wen he will try to call her line but switched off,d guy will start suspecting her n vice versa.she won't really v tym for him again cos of lectures n all.it isn't easy.n how often can he keep visiting her if her school will b very faraway(e.g Ebonyi to Abuja)

missyhorlah: thanks

beautiful lady u are

Sweetest lady: beautiful lady u are

I hope u r not trying to flatter me!thanks tho

Sweetest lady: it happens but remember that u guys suspect a lot.suspect she might b dating or movin around with some guy..and again,it will turn out to be a distance relationship if the gal passes jamb and gets admission in a school dat is very faraway from where the guy is..n u know dat distance relationship isn't easy at all.it brings problem.a tym will come wen he will try to call her line but switched off,d guy will start suspecting her n vice versa.she won't really v tym for him again cos of lectures n all.it isn't easy.n how often can he keep visiting her if her school will b very faraway(e.g Ebonyi to Abuja)

It all comes down to TRUST. It will work if they trust each other.

missyhorlah: I hope u r not trying to flatter me!thanks tho

I'm bolade, whats urs?

abolade62:
It all comes down to TRUST. It will work if they trust each other.

yeeeah but trust can be broken

Sweetest lady: yeeeah but trust can be broken

Are u the girl in question?

abolade62:
Are u the girl in question?

God forbid! I am a proud graduate who has served her country in Delta state(hmm!missed those allowee days)...it can't be me o..

abolade62:
Are u the girl in question?

if I wr d one,I won't v emphasised..

Sweetest lady: God forbid! I am a proud graduate who has served her country in Delta state(hmm!missed those allowee days)...it can't be me o..

What year did u serve your country?

abolade62:
What year did u serve your country?

last year

And it shall be written "...and the girl married another man she met in school".

Agybabe: And it shall be written "...and the girl married another man she met in school".

LWKM!and they bore beautiful kids and lived happily ever after' the other guy she met before she gained admission becomes a thing of the past to her leaving him so heartbroken..THE END.

Why not , I prefer a lady like that provided they are of good character and very pretty. She will do distance education or open university , having kids while having education at the same time . They are far better than girls that have gone through our corrupt institution and NYsc , all God knows how many have gone thru that pus*sy and how many kind of corrupt friends they have interacted with during their university days that may have corrupted their ways. I know very descent and good lady whose mind have been severely corrupted in school though still look descent . Finally it all depends on the love I have the girl , a university education does not enhance a woman value in my eyes but her beauty n character does .

priest2u: Why not , I prefer a lady like that provided they are of good character and very pretty. She will do distance education or open university , having kids while having education at the same time . They are far better than girls that have gone through our corrupt institution and NYsc , all God knows how many have gone thru that pus*sy and how many kind of corrupt friends they have interacted with during their university days that may have corrupted their ways. I know very descent and good lady whose mind have been severely corrupted in school though still look descent . Finally it all depends on the love I have the girl , a university education does not enhance a woman value in my eyes but her beauty n character does .

well spoken!! But wat if she doesn't want distance learning n she wants to witness University life since she hasn't been there like the guy has experienced??

Hmmm...

OP, I don't even know what to tell you.

Risky business!

Sweetestlady: well spoken!! But wat if she doesn't want distance learning n she wants to witness University life since she hasn't been there like the guy has experienced??

Then she's not ready for marriage and not in love with the guy. A lady that loves a man and ready for marriage will do anything to be with him. What experience can be compared with being with the one you are genuinely in love with She will be the one to suggest it, having a distant marriage is not fun at all and any couple in love with avoid it as much as possible. So your question is not realistic because most women in love will cherish the idea of living with their husband after marriage above anything else.

Sweetestlady: Hello guys!!!As a graduate who has finished service and now working,can you be in a serious relationship with a lady who is still seeking seriously for admission(this will be the second time she is failing jamb so has to wait for next year to try her luck in another jamb)(cos u mit v to wait for her to enter school,finish or u will marry her like that n start facin that emotional torture of how many guys r toastin her now or if she is flirting..esp.if u r a very jealous type?and Ladies,if u r in this lady's shoes,can u accept the relationship or u will think he is just fooling you around and won't end up marrying you??. Thanks

evils of men. You are screwing her and she's failing jamb. Chai. Carry your d.ick of failure and leave the innocent girl alone

ERTHAENIGMA:
evils of men. You are screwing her and she's failing jamb. Chai. Carry your d.ick of failure and leave the innocent girl alone

excuse me!what do you mean by that statement??I stated the fact that she failed jamb that's y she hasn't been able to get into school.(Abi no b jamb u go write before u enter school again??)Besides,how u know say she innocent??..pls mind your language o.u won't have commented

priest2u:
Then she's not ready for marriage and not in love with the guy. A lady that loves a man and ready for marriage will do anything to be with him. What experience can be compared with being with the one you are genuinely in love with She will be the one to suggest it, having a distant marriage is not fun at all and any couple in love with avoid it as much as possible. So your question is not realistic because most women in love will cherish the idea of living with their husband after marriage above anything else.

well,not in this 21st century tho'..I once had a room mate who for 4 years stayed in the hostel unless we had a break.