mz mariah: How I wish....... No guy yet o......How I wish he will ask me out

shioor are u for real
Like u single

how about for a start the dudes around where u're swimming.
I mean com'on FFS just get someone's attention - u aint playing ur game right and whatever u do
dont come on Nairaland to look for love. I know say some people be specialist for here
there are dudes everywher arund you. look for a responsible efficient youngman and hook up
if u nor see anybody contact me make i arrange my friend wen get gym company for lagos for u

Agybabe: Even if I know we'll get married, he must ask o.

Ask officially and it shall be done.

If I need him to ask quickly, our chats will be on proposal talks, like "oh baby do you see how cutely that guy asked her hand in marriage?"

I go show am pictures, movies, etc but if after all these he remains the same, I go withdraw gradually then that time he go do the needful.

Pesin no go fit use me come shine! Naaaah.

190:

shioor are u for real
Like u single

how about for a start the dudes around where u're swimming.
I mean com'on FFS just get someone's attention - u aint playing ur game right and whatever u do
dont come on Nairaland to look for love. I know say some people be specialist for here
there are dudes everywher arund you. look for a responsible efficient youngman and hook up
if u nor see anybody contact me make i arrange my friend wen get gym company for lagos for u

mz mariah: Lolzzzz......Nairaland for love? Nahhhhhhhhh

No be everything person dey talk for public place like this but I'm on Nairaland now strictly to catch my fun on the games section

190:

Thank you jare!!

You;d be fine, Nothing do u just work on improving your life and all other things would fall into place
Just dont idle around or hustle around to ruin your real image, im sure some man/men around are quitely watching yuh dearie xx

mz mariah: Thanks dear

mz mariah: That question 'Will you marry me' scares me

Agybabe: Even if I know we'll get married, he must ask o.

Ask officially and it shall be done.

If I need him to ask quickly, our chats will be on proposal talks, like "oh baby do you see how cutely that guy asked her hand in marriage?"

I go show am pictures, movies, etc but if after all these he remains the same, I go withdraw gradually then that time he go do the needful.

Pesin no go fit use me come shine! Naaaah.

190:

Thank you jare!!

You;d be fine, Nothing do u just work on improving your life and all other things would fall into place
Just dont idle around or hustle around to ruin your real image, im sure some man/men around are quitely watching yuh dearie xx

190:

Thank you jare!!
You;d be fine, Nothing do u just work on improving your life and all other things would fall into place
Just dont idle around or hustle around to ruin your real image, im sure some man/men around are quitely watching yuh dearie xx

mz mariah: Its not about the ring o, its about whose giving it to you. serious prayers suppose dey involved before you tell any man 'yes' and before any man proposes to any 'woman' because the rate at which people change is surprising.

My secondery school mate got married last year November 7th last year and the marriage crashed march this year.

zeb04: Ask and you shall receive btw I won't put on that ring until six months to the wedding

cdamsel: You have been watching way too much romantic movies

To me It doesn't really matter,bottom line is that you both are getting married.

Most times we hold on to the inadequate things & forget that which really matters.
Whether or not he gives a grand proposal it doesn't mean your relationship will be sugar coated.

mz mariah: How I wish....... No guy yet o......How I wish he will ask me out
Relationship has not favoured me at all.

190:

Thank you jare!!

You;d be fine, Nothing do u just work on improving your life and all other things would fall into place
Just dont idle around or hustle around to ruin your real image, im sure some man/men around are quitely watching yuh dearie xx

2s£xy:
where have you been? Wetin dey happen? Ur break light person nor dey see again. Hope you are fine bro.

I'm ok baba hope you're aite too

2s£xy:
I understand your fears my sister. My ex classmate uploaded a picture of man in the hospital with the skin of his forhead horrifically bitten off. The bone of his skull was showing with blood.

Who did it? His wife!

2s£xy:
hmmmm... But if a guy ask you out, I am sure will still toss him around and play hard to get. For some reasons, I dey fear nairaland ladies.

mz mariah: Hmmmmm.....190 I'm not saying I won't get married. all I'm saying is that the fear of getting married to the wrong person is what's keeping me from saying yes even tho I've been asked that question more than once. I see people's marriage and it some discourages me. I'm just praying for the right person to come. when he comes, my heart will tell me and I definatly can't marry myself how na? Even with the fear and all I still feel like getting married now I want to get married

softsparky:
Are you my twin sis from another mother?

Most times people think it's all abt getting married and answering Mrs. I want to marry and stayed married just like my parents.We know nobody is perfect but at least let's marry people we can cope with their imperfections.

JoeCutie: Hey Missyhorlah, are you reading this?

190:
I'm ok baba hope you're aite too

mz mariah: My ex classmate too.

He married his wife last last year November 7th and immediately after the wedding she started acting up,She would insult his family, he would return from work and no food, everyday fights, she started passwording her phone, she doesn't even allow him touch her. every weekend she will pack her things saying she is going to spend the weekend with her parent that it got to a point, he had to call her parent on one weekend to confirm if she was actually there but the mum said she didn't get to the house.

She left again on a weekend and never returned for 2 weeks, no calls , only for her husband to hear that she went to abuja for a politician's party and that was how he angry packed her things and waited for her to return. she returned and no apologies, they fought and the next day when he left for work , she called to tell him that she has left his house. on getting home, the house was empty, she packed everything leaving only his cloths,she packed all his properties that the guy almost ran mad and that was how the marriage ended. all effort made by the guy to settle everything did now work .

When some people marry, the man will change to something else and the woman will change from being nice to a Jezebel and one will be like 'is this not the same man or woman i married'. when I see cases and this and even the since worst that this I become even more sacred of marriage.My neighbor will beat his wife, strip her naked and all this he will do in present of his kids which is very wrong. things stick to children's head very easily so you see, one needs prayer and care to make such decision in life. not answer Mrs for 6 months and go back to miss

softsparky:
Are you my twin sis from another mother?

Most times people think it's all abt getting married and answering Mrs. I want to marry and stayed married just like my parents.We know nobody is perfect but at least let's marry people we can cope with their imperfections.

2s£xy:
I understand your fears perfectly.

As for your ex class mate, she is one of those who get married just for the name, not really for love. The hand writing is always on the wall but we often ignore them.

People around here know me for always talking about a particular ex .

Well, I have learned to take note of little details and I on my search light on the person's actions. These days, I am like a spy camera but you won't know. People could fake a lot of things, but they can't fake what they feel for one, which propagate their respective actions. Trust me... Action speaks louder than words! Pay more attention to the action and you will be less worried over his words.

Because of this new me, I move on before it comes to that end.

2s£xy:
cool but would selfishness allow ceratin people not commonize what they have instead of cherishing every bit of the moment?

softsparky:
Exactly,selfishness and greed.

I wanna marry my own man whether rich or poor. All I want is happiness and rest of mind . Though they say marriage is not a bed of roses.

Missmossy:
Your head is there ""

ideology:
Lol, i just wonder how people would live fake lives around me,
Pls lets note from the first day u met someone, there was a little voice that said she/he is not the one, if u listen attentively to yourself, but We don't listen, rather we are carried away by physical appearance, social and financial status etc, for some lets just catch the fun.

Like many believe action speaks louder than words, for me i pay more attention to what people say, between the lines reveals their motives.

What people fake more of their actions than words.
Actions are calculated thoughts while most speeches are spontenous.
It may not work for u, till u understand other higher principles.

The buttom line is wen you meet people, be real, not ignore red Light, this is wat most men are guilty of, wen the lady does something they don't like, at relationship level they ignore because they wanna be nice instead of saying their minds they shy away so They girl won't feel bad, unfortunately wen they get married, because the can't endure it any more, most at times they would react badly because they have been carrying the burden for long, then u will hear the lady say "my husband has changed"

Let me stop here, just make sure you don't marry out of pity, you will regret it.

2s£xy:
you have point but trust me, if someone tells you she loves you, you might be tempted to believe those words which even immediate actions may not reveal her latent motives.

I have been there man...

Remember I told you I was at my bros' house last week? Well, he narrated a story that happened live in Benin.

Woman conived with a supposed pastor and lover, poisoned her legitimate husband, he became intoxicated, weak and was driven by this woman into the distance between Warri and Benin. Right there and then, they poured petrol on the car and burnt the man.

The woman went to report the case at the Police station HERSELF saying her husband is missing... The police located the scene and interrogated residence of the town. They were told that they saw a woman and man. Further investigation blew their cover open.

She has about 2 kids for the deceased husband... And this happened not longer. The husband was an oil worker based in US but he transit between US and Nigeria as frequent as necessary for the sake of their marriage.

I am sure the woman may have said "I love you to her dead husband several times"... Yeah, listen to words more than action.

When you request something, take keen look how your supposed girl friend handles it. When it's your birthday, etc. There are times when these mischieves are reveal, albeit seasonal.

Take note of the little details man... Actions, and not words.