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Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 4:58pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
I came across dis comment by a lady in a forum and decided to share it here. Sometimes, people who are beautiful are often lonely. “Wow! It's so great to have finally found a place where beautiful people can talk about the problems we encounter in our daily lives. I didn't know I was beautiful, I mean as a kid I was terribly shy and no beauty, even in junior high I was an ugly duckling at least that is how I felt. I was a late bloomer and looking back now I can see I was becoming beautiful but I didn't know it, I was so insecure & my peers made me feel as though I was still that ugly duck. In my 20's I knew I was attractive but still felt so insecure and thought there was something wrong with me, the few friends I had where those from high school and men rarely approached me. It wasn't until my 30's that I became more confident, not just about my looks but with who I am as a person. Now I am in my 40's, I look 10 to 15 years younger than my age, I'm beautiful...not just on the outside but on the inside as well, which we all know is more important. Everyday I am told I am beautiful whether its from a co-worker or total stranger and the compliments don't come from just men. Women tell me just as often that I am beautiful. I've had women come up to me in bars and say "I'm not gay or anything, but you are really beautiful." Woman tell me I'm beautiful in front of there husbands or boyfriends! Sometimes I look in the mirror and I just don't see it. I know I'm not ugly but I don't see what they are seeing. And the part about always being suspicious of a mans intentions is true. It takes me a long time to trust someone as I have put my heart and feelings out there for friends and lovers only to have it stomped on. Im just glad I have a place to go now where other people understand me and don't joke about it and say "Oh poor you. What a rough life you have." Still I go to bed alone...and sometimes cry myself to sleep because of the lonelyness.” 4 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Mutuwa(m): 5:01pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Oya women...na tru? *sits on a mango tree waiting* 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by HisSexcellency(m): 5:09pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
LaurelP: I came across dis comment by a lady in a forum and decided to share it here. Sometimes, people who are beautiful are often lonely.crap!!! You shouldnt generalize your plight. Your shy and thats the root cause of loneliness 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Smartsyn(m): 5:12pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Smartsyn(m): 5:12pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
I 100% agree with you on this. Some of this fine girls can be lonely. 2 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by jakiedudu(m): 5:13pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
*Observing things afar with binnaculars, sitting on the fence* 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by fijiano202(m): 5:15pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Its kinda true,my ex best friend once told me she was lonely,i never really understood what she meant until years later..then i know guys were always around her,asking her out and going on diff dates sometimes we do double date with some of her periodic bf but i never understood she was not happy.she was fuccking beautiful and had a kind soul i wish she was a bit taller i would have dump my ex for her..after 3-4yrs we met at a friends wedding and then she told me again that she was tired of been lonely..that was when i understood that if ur not happy whether in a relationship or no,u gonna feel really lonely,she said she was just dating some of the guys just not to feel alone and isolated.. 4 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 5:24pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
HisSexcellency: Read d post again |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Sholah96(m): 5:25pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Maybe dat's in time past. Cos nowadays, ladies knw quickly if they are beautiful due to large approach 4rm guys and flattery words, compliments or watever |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
HisSexcellency: Are you sure you read the OP? 2 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 5:36pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
striktlymi: I wonder o |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Udeme288(m): 7:18pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Very true,I have a super cute friend. But in our circle of friends,she is always the most depressed. 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by zube01(m): 9:08pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
I tell u from experience been shy is very bad! Makes u think u are no good when compared to the opposite peers! Op abeg which site u copy am from I get stories to share! 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 10:13pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
zube01: I tell u from experience been shy is very bad! Makes u think u are no good when compared to the opposite peers! Op abeg which site u copy am from I get stories to share! I don even forget d site name Make I check |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by missdebs(f): 10:37pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Stop beefin us |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 10:51pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
missdebs: Stop beefin us Kaii, see sexy eyes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by MisterLongman(m): 12:38am On Jul 09, 2014 |
missdebs: Stop beefin usAre you Lonely |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by MisterLongman(m): 12:38am On Jul 09, 2014 |
missdebs: Stop beefin us |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Ryabcool(m): 1:09am On Jul 09, 2014 |
missdebs: Stop beefin usYou are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty. Anyway, i'm not surprised. Its usually the average/ugly ones with shape that make the most noise and have the most attitude. @OP, i agree with you. Luckily I've dated TRULY beautiful girls and most of them usually had low self esteems and were emotionally needy. They have very soft hearts that can easily be broken. And when they love, they love to a fault. Nobody else matters to them except that loved one. 9 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nkem88(f): 7:32am On Jul 09, 2014 |
It's pretty true and understandable, to me anyway. I've never been one to categorize myself as a beauty or attractive, but others do. It has its ups and downs just like everything else in life. Being seen as attractive causes a disturbance at work. On a number of occasions, I've had to be moved or shuffled around because of persistent or disturbing men. Women also egg them on at times. Just a month or two ago, I had to be escorted by my male supervisor from the back door of our workplace to my car because of how problematic it became. It's certainly one of the things that keeps me indoors or not going to parties or clubs. Guys see your face first and I'm one of those who would rather have my personality make an impact on someone than looks which will undeniably fade. It takes me a while to open up to people as well, which is probably why I don't keep many friends. I have to trust someone to open up to anyone these days and call him or her a friend. I can count the number of friends I have with one hand. Men and women. One thing they all have in common is that they love and respect all of me and not just what's outside, as I do them. Like the poster, I fell for the wrong people in the past as well, but I made sure to learn from those experiences and never let it happen again. Thankfully, the person I'm with now understands and respects every part of me and who I am. 6 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by vizier007(m): 7:47am On Jul 09, 2014 |
striktlymi:he probably wants to be the first to comment... Lol 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 09, 2014 |
HisSexcellency:he is right! Most really beautiful women are single and lonely.........desperate for that great guy and not the wussies who would kill to buy her a drink. 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by zube01(m): 8:37am On Jul 09, 2014 |
LaurelP:abeg do ! |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by sisiafrika(f): 9:11am On Jul 09, 2014 |
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty. 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 09, 2014 |
HisSexcellency: Seconded, she either doesn't have a job, doesn't go out or doesn't mix up with people. From her story, her complex even kept her away from marriage. NEXT ! |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by nikkypearl(f): 11:34am On Jul 09, 2014 |
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty.That 's so mean! |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by LaurelP(m): 12:06pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
[quote author=]It's pretty true and understandable, to me anyway. I've never been one to categorize myself as a beauty or attractive, but others do. It has its ups and downs just like everything else in life. Being seen as attractive causes a disturbance at work. On a number of occasions, I've had to be moved or shuffled around because of persistent or disturbing men. Women also egg them on at times. Just a month or two ago, I had to be escorted by my male supervisor from the back door of our workplace to my car because of how problematic it became. It's certainly one of the things that keeps me indoors or not going to parties or clubs. Guys see your face first and I'm one of those who would rather have my personality make an impact on someone than looks which will undeniably fade. It takes me a while to open up to people as well, which is probably why I don't keep many friends. I have to trust someone to open up to anyone these days and call him or her a friend. I can count the number of friends I have with one hand. Men and women. One thing they all have in common is that they love and respect all of me and not just what's outside, as I do them. Like the poster, I fell for the wrong people in the past as well, but I made sure to learn from those experiences and never let it happen again. Thankfully, the person I'm with now understands and respects every part of me and who I am.[/quote] Nice one 2 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by fruityjojo(f): 12:23pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty.Chai! Na wa oh. She has a pointed nose,red lips, sexy eyes, curvy figure & a very lovely, smooth complexion. What else does it take 4 a girl to be beautiful physically!? 2 Likes |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by solomonbrown64: 12:28pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty. .....Chai!, dis is pure prejudice..,....Ogini na 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Ryabcool(m): 1:25pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
nikkypearl:didn't mean to be. I'm a very blunt person. Its one of my many good/bad sides; depending on how you look at it. 1 Like |
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Ryabcool(m): 1:26pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
solomonbrown64:Prejudice? No! Frank? Yes. |
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