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Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Nobody: 1:08am On Jul 09, 2014
many of us have seen leaked sextapes of some couples. Most times released by the guys. I have heard all kinds of comments been made about the tape and most times, the lady is the one who recieves the insults.

My opinion is: it is wrong to blame the ladies for they have done no wrong here. It is perfectly ok for anyone to want to have sex infron of the camera. People do such things as part of trying new things to enhance their sex life. So any lady that choses to have sex infront of the camera isnt a slu...t, fact!

You call her mumu? Are you going to call a woman 'mumu' just becos she trusted her lover? She called him her lover for crying out loud! I think what is wrng is for the said lover to betray trust and not the lady trusting in the first place. When we blame her like we do, then we are encouraging betrayals and discouraging trusting. Now you ask why the world continues to go backwards.

I do not think the question should be "why did she agree to it?" i think the question should be "why should an individual sit down and all he thinks of is crime, crime and crime?" thats the point!

My advice is: blame the right person, not the wrong person.

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Nobody: 1:17am On Jul 09, 2014
for the ladies, dont let anyone make you feel you are a bad person for having sex in front of the camera. It is completely ok for you to want to actualize your fantasies. If your boyfriend wants to label you a slu...t for having sex infront of the camera, you can kick him out of your house and dont forget to fling his penis at his face as you push him out.

That the society blames you shouldnt make you stop doing it IF YOU WANT IT. You can be wiser about it. Take control of the recording process and make sure it is done at your place where you can be sure that there are no hidden cameras. After recording, you can delete it if you want.

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Csami(m): 2:59am On Jul 09, 2014
Honestly craziebone, ur name dey reflect.
Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Onlinebizexpert(m): 3:53am On Jul 09, 2014
why should a sane individual record their s.ex session, we already have enough p.o.r.n videos to watch

people just sitdown dey give GOD extra persons to punish angry

interested in online importation

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Nobody: 5:33am On Jul 09, 2014
Csami: Honestly craziebone, ur name dey reflect.

i dont know what you mean by this. But the truth is it is so sick seeing those things everywhere. I think it is a crime to go about recording sextape of you and your gf and posting it on line without her consent. If you want to put it on line, why didnt you ask her? You think you can take unilateral dicision on matters that also affect other people?

Anyone can be a victim. Someone close to you can fall victim. It is important everyone speaks out against it.

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Nobody: 5:41am On Jul 09, 2014
Onlinebizexpert: why should a sane individual record their s.ex session, we already have enough p.o.r.n videos to watch

people just sitdown dey give GOD extra persons to punish angry

interested in online importation

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God is not angry with those who make sextape, fact! Like i said earlier, ppl do those things as part of trying new things to better their intimate experience. As long as they do it for themselves and for themselves alone, God is ok. And yes, Believes can do it too. Is God also against fore play? They are all the same. They are done to make the most of the experience.
Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Nobody: 5:43am On Jul 09, 2014
Onlinebizexpert: why should a sane individual record their s.ex session, we already have enough p.o.r.n videos to watch

people just sitdown dey give GOD extra persons to punish angry

interested in online importation

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porn is wrong but your own sextape for your own consumption isnt wrong.
Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Onlinebizexpert(m): 8:23am On Jul 09, 2014
craziebone:

God is not angry with those who make sextape, fact! Like i said earlier, ppl do those things as part of trying new things to better their intimate experience. As long as they do it for themselves and for themselves alone, God is ok. And yes, Believes can do it too. Is God also against fore play? They are all the same. They are done to make the most of the experience.

understand what i mean, it is only a mad man that would enter sambisa forest with the current boko haram case

that is to say only a stewpid gal would allow her bf record her during sex because of this viral issue of leaked sextape whenever there is problem between them

do you know that some guys keep those videos till the gal wants to get married then they would release it.......that an ended MARRIAGE

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by Onlinebizexpert(m): 8:24am On Jul 09, 2014
craziebone:

porn is wrong but your own sextape for your own consumption isnt wrong.


but with the viral way it is leaked no sane person would record it as at now

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Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by tpia1: 11:51pm On Aug 11, 2014
seriously, its simply disgusting the way men and women are going at each other's throats these days.

Imagine, I just read a discussion about ra.pe (the US is working through new laws on the topic), and some people were advocating recording any "consensual " sex you have because the girl may claim rape afterwards.


what kind of madness is all this?

why should people be forced to have no other choice than be making sex tapes to counter mentally deranged claims by satanic women who are out to get them?

And how for goodness' sake will real rape cases be considered valid if its the culture to seduce a man then scream he r.aped you?


1. men say they cant do without sex (casual sex that is)

2.women also claim their right to free sex at random and without any limit on the number of partners.

3. you defend your right to party, booze and live a libertarian existence

4. You dress with all your private parts hanging out


so at what point does your "original mission" kick in and how do you justify your insistence on locking up as many males as possible simply because they slept (or refused to sleep) with you?
Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by sexyjennik(f): 12:09am On Aug 12, 2014
Both parties are wrong but i blame d ladies most 4 allowin such.cal it luv or being adventurous or experimentin ur sex life whether ur gud or not,its a no no 4 me.sumtin might happen 2 d relatnship in d long run and d guy can use dat tape against her.u knw hw selfish sum guys can be n d extent dey can go jst 2 prove a point 2 a lady.on d other hand sum guys might even récord it witout d lady knwin mayb 2 blackmail her.other times,it might b a rape case n he récords it n post it online.its rili bad.God didnt make it dat way.it shud b sumtin private btw u n ur spouse n not showin it 2 d whole world.better stil y not do it in d open so every1 can c d real action?dis is so degradin of us nigerians.civilization has made us 2 4get dat we r africans and as such we dnt behave lyk d western world.we mustn't copy eveytin dey do 4 christ sake.i pray all dis stops 1ce n 4 all.
Re: Leaked Sex Tape: Who Should Be Blamed, Guys Or Ladies? by tpia2005: 9:20pm On Dec 29, 2014
craziebone:
many of us have seen leaked sextapes of some couples. Most times released by the guys. I have heard all kinds of comments been made about the tape and most times, the lady is the one who recieves the insults.

My opinion is: it is wrong to blame the ladies for they have done no wrong here. It is perfectly ok for anyone to want to have sex infron of the camera. People do such things as part of trying new things to enhance their sex life. So any lady that choses to have sex infront of the camera isnt a slu...t, fact!

You call her mumu? Are you going to call a woman 'mumu' just becos she trusted her lover? She called him her lover for crying out loud! I think what is wrng is for the said lover to betray trust and not the lady trusting in the first place. When we blame her like we do, then we are encouraging betrayals and discouraging trusting. Now you ask why the world continues to go backwards.

I do not think the question should be "why did she agree to it?" i think the question should be "why should an individual sit down and all he thinks of is crime, crime and crime?" thats the point!

My advice is: blame the right person, not the wrong person.

genetics imo, @ bolded.

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