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J0nyb0y: Guys, this my present situation. Am an introvert a serious nerd. I have feelings for this lady, infact i love her.. we've been friends for up to 7months and i also know shes into me. The problem is that i dont have the balls to tell her my feelings. At times we go emotional mostly on chats but soon i start feeling awkward and change the topic.. Yesterday i told her i love her over a chat and she was like how many days did it take me to type that.. It means she knows am d shy type because she knows me. Am very reserved type.. I have read lot of articles and books on dating & relationship, just to improve myself. Tomorrow (sat) i have made up my mind to tell her my feelings, come what may but still dont know how to go about it, what to say, how to do it. Nairalanders help a Nerd..
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Sorry if my post is 2long..

i will like to help you..if she is very pretty.then drop her phone no here.. But if otherwise, neva mind..

If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you...


What are friends for?

frankben: If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you...
What are friends for?

dejt4u: i will like to help you..if she is very pretty.then drop her phone no here.. But if otherwise, neva mind..

these bro's ain't loyal

ok na.

For whooping 7months no "telling" has occurred.

Is she also a nerd?

sKeetz: these bro's ain't loyal

that's how you help a nerd....

Experience, the best teacher

What are you comfortable with? What places do you see as home?

oho!

I'm in d same predicament with d op..we av been friend since childhood..help me o..to tel her i love u..mhen my heart wil stop working..i'm afraid of her replies.

frankben: If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you...


What are friends for?

thats y am here asking for advice bro

jnrbayano: For whooping 7months no "telling" has occurred.

Is she also a nerd?

i think so too.. Because shes kind of shy at times. But shes a 'talker'

What other telling do you want to do? You already told her you love her, except I didn't read well.
Bro, it doesn't stop in telling, it goes into role play. Even after the telling if ur game isn't tight you will still lose

@J0nyb0y, i'll help you, use the NL message box and foward the girl pix and contacts. What are we here for if not help each other, and if i don't take care of you...........

Mynd44: What are you comfortable with? What places do you see as home?

not too extreme and not too cold..

dejt4u: i will like to help you..if she is very pretty.then drop her phone no here.. But if otherwise, neva mind..

help? By dropping her phone number?

laplace12: What other telling do you want to do? You already told her you love her, except I didn't read well.
Bro, it doesn't stop in telling, it goes into role play. Even after the telling if ur game isn't tight you will still lose her.

My advice; convince yourself you are now her boyfriend and try your best to play that role wella, they result will be much better than coming up with some old stale lines in the name of toasting.

That will be deceiving himself, the outcome when he will find out that the girl was just playing along and not string attached will be heart breaking. @OP just ask her out simple, it's either she say a yes or no, she might have been waiting for that since.

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J0nyb0y: help? By dropping her phone number?

d guy funny jare nd i say mk i follow nt to mk d thread boring..m very loyal to ma girl!

Elantracey: That will be deceiving himself, the outcome when he will find out that the girl was just playing along and not string attached will be heart breaking. @OP just ask her out simple, it's either she say a yes or no, she might have been waiting for that since.

the problem isnt asking her out my dear, its how to go bout it, the fear of what to say or having a cold feet at the last minute and that might ruin everything...

Elantracey: That will be deceiving himself, the outcome when he will find out that the girl was just playing along and not string attached will be heart breaking. @OP just ask her out simple, it's either she say a yes or no, she might have been waiting for that since.

You will not understand cos you are a girl and at the receiving end.

LaurelP: D way ur scared, u might mess d whole thing up
Neva be afraid of a girl turning u down, cos it will happen
Sit her down and tell her exactly how u feel and don't give Bleep wat her response wud be
Just do ur own part and leave hers

bros its not just easy 4 a nerd like me... I dont just know

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J0nyb0y: the problem isnt asking her out my dear, its how to go bout it, the fear of what to say or having a cold feet at the last minute and that might ruin everything...

wait o, hasn't she been your friend for 7 months? You should know her by now, what she likes and what makes her happy, it's not like you just met her, i know you might be scared of it ruining you guys friendship but their's no harm in trying, and be bold or she'll just take it for a joke.

J0nyb0y: by trying my best to convince myself am her boyfriend without her seeing herself as my girlfrnd me would put me in the friendzone... I fear dat side die!

He already said the girl is into him and responded well when he told her he loves her. Does he need to continue the telling? He just need to act as a lover and watch out for the result
Before he could do that he need to convince himself he is her lover. He need to be the lover he said he is. What's the big deal here?

Op pm me. I can help you. Just take me along when you ask her out and leave the rest to me. She can't say no.

laplace12: You will not understand cos you are a girl and at the receiving end.

A girl saying yes to a guy doesn't make any difference, I have heard plenty yes that resulted to nothing. What makes the difference is acting the 'yes' out and this is always in response to your game(role play).
Its most efficient to play the role a bit, if she doesn't respond you move on. If she does you continue to as much as she can take and finally love may come in.

you can try that on a girl you just met not someone you've been friends with for months

krall: Op pm me. I can help you. Just take me along when you ask her out and leave the rest to me. She can't say no.

lol.. what will you do?

Elantracey: you can try that on a girl you just met not someone you've been friends with for months

You may be right sha. Maybe that explains why it is difficult to get out of friendzone

J0nyb0y: lol.. what will you do?

I will stand behind you for morale support. Even if she reject you, she cannot reject me. Then maybe we can do change of ownership later

7months? what are you waiting for? you better act fast b4 anoda guy takes over,same thing happened to me b4;and now she is happily married