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I Can't Ask A Girl Out Because Of My Brown Teeth / Ladies, Can You Date/have You Dated A Nerd? / The Best And Practicable Way To Ask A Girl Out? (2) (3) (4)
..... by J0nyb0y(m): 10:19am On Jul 18, 2014 |
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Re: ..... by dejt4u(m): 10:23am On Jul 18, 2014 |
J0nyb0y: Guys, this my present situation. Am an introvert a serious nerd. I have feelings for this lady, infact i love her.. we've been friends for up to 7months and i also know shes into me. The problem is that i dont have the balls to tell her my feelings. At times we go emotional mostly on chats but soon i start feeling awkward and change the topic.. Yesterday i told her i love her over a chat and she was like how many days did it take me to type that.. It means she knows am d shy type because she knows me. Am very reserved type.. I have read lot of articles and books on dating & relationship, just to improve myself. Tomorrow (sat) i have made up my mind to tell her my feelings, come what may but still dont know how to go about it, what to say, how to do it. Nairalanders help a Nerd..i will like to help you..if she is very pretty.then drop her phone no here.. But if otherwise, neva mind.. |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 10:24am On Jul 18, 2014 |
If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you... What are friends for? |
Re: ..... by sKeetz(m): 10:27am On Jul 18, 2014 |
frankben: If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you... dejt4u:these bro's ain't loyal 8 Likes |
Re: ..... by chimajii: 10:27am On Jul 18, 2014 |
ok na. |
Re: ..... by jnrbayano(m): 10:27am On Jul 18, 2014 |
For whooping 7months no "telling" has occurred. Is she also a nerd? 3 Likes |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 18, 2014 |
sKeetz: these bro's ain't loyalthat's how you help a nerd.... Experience, the best teacher |
Re: ..... by Mynd44: 10:31am On Jul 18, 2014 |
What are you comfortable with? What places do you see as home? |
Re: ..... by chimajii: 10:32am On Jul 18, 2014 |
oho! |
Re: ..... by sholikay(m): 10:39am On Jul 18, 2014 |
I'm in d same predicament with d op..we av been friend since childhood..help me o..to tel her i love u..mhen my heart wil stop working..i'm afraid of her replies. |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 10:45am On Jul 18, 2014 |
frankben: If you don't know how to ask her out, i can help you...thats y am here asking for advice bro |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 10:47am On Jul 18, 2014 |
jnrbayano: For whooping 7months no "telling" has occurred.i think so too.. Because shes kind of shy at times. But shes a 'talker' |
Re: ..... by laplace12(m): 10:47am On Jul 18, 2014 |
What other telling do you want to do? You already told her you love her, except I didn't read well. Bro, it doesn't stop in telling, it goes into role play. Even after the telling if ur game isn't tight you will still lose |
Re: ..... by Ichel: 10:51am On Jul 18, 2014 |
@J0nyb0y, i'll help you, use the NL message box and foward the girl pix and contacts. What are we here for if not help each other, and if i don't take care of you........... |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 10:54am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Mynd44: What are you comfortable with? What places do you see as home?not too extreme and not too cold.. |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 10:55am On Jul 18, 2014 |
dejt4u:help? By dropping her phone number? |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 10:56am On Jul 18, 2014 |
laplace12: What other telling do you want to do? You already told her you love her, except I didn't read well. That will be deceiving himself, the outcome when he will find out that the girl was just playing along and not string attached will be heart breaking. @OP just ask her out simple, it's either she say a yes or no, she might have been waiting for that since. |
Re: ..... by LaurelP(m): 10:58am On Jul 18, 2014 |
D way ur scared, u might mess d whole thing up Neva be afraid of a girl turning u down, cos it will happen Sit her down and tell her exactly how u feel and don't give Bleep wat her response wud be Just do ur own part and leave hers |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 11:01am On Jul 18, 2014 |
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Re: ..... by dejt4u(m): 11:01am On Jul 18, 2014 |
J0nyb0y:d guy funny jare nd i say mk i follow nt to mk d thread boring..m very loyal to ma girl! |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 11:03am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Elantracey:the problem isnt asking her out my dear, its how to go bout it, the fear of what to say or having a cold feet at the last minute and that might ruin everything... |
Re: ..... by laplace12(m): 11:04am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Elantracey:You will not understand cos you are a girl and at the receiving end. |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 11:05am On Jul 18, 2014 |
LaurelP: D way ur scared, u might mess d whole thing upbros its not just easy 4 a nerd like me... I dont just know |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 11:08am On Jul 18, 2014 |
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Re: ..... by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 18, 2014 |
J0nyb0y:wait o, hasn't she been your friend for 7 months? You should know her by now, what she likes and what makes her happy, it's not like you just met her, i know you might be scared of it ruining you guys friendship but their's no harm in trying, and be bold or she'll just take it for a joke. |
Re: ..... by laplace12(m): 11:12am On Jul 18, 2014 |
J0nyb0y: He already said the girl is into him and responded well when he told her he loves her. Does he need to continue the telling? He just need to act as a lover and watch out for the result Before he could do that he need to convince himself he is her lover. He need to be the lover he said he is. What's the big deal here? |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Op pm me. I can help you. Just take me along when you ask her out and leave the rest to me. She can't say no. |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 18, 2014 |
laplace12:you can try that on a girl you just met not someone you've been friends with for months |
Re: ..... by J0nyb0y(m): 11:57am On Jul 18, 2014 |
krall: Op pm me. I can help you. Just take me along when you ask her out and leave the rest to me. She can't say no.lol.. what will you do? |
Re: ..... by laplace12(m): 11:59am On Jul 18, 2014 |
Elantracey: you can try that on a girl you just met not someone you've been friends with for months You may be right sha. Maybe that explains why it is difficult to get out of friendzone |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 18, 2014 |
J0nyb0y:I will stand behind you for morale support. Even if she reject you, she cannot reject me. Then maybe we can do change of ownership later |
Re: ..... by Sunkyphil(m): 2:25pm On Jul 18, 2014 |
7months? what are you waiting for? you better act fast b4 anoda guy takes over,same thing happened to me b4;and now she is happily married |
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