jnrbayano: Well Op, you can find love here on Nairaland but am afraid the chances are quite slim.

Sometime this year a lady here played her way into my attention on a particular thread, I obliged, sent her PM, she obliged and we started talking.

It was amazing how that happened because you hardly get my attention online beyond being just friends.

I hardly take things serious if I never met someone in physical but I honestly wanted to give this a good go. I was plain, simple and never acted (cos I have been a poor actor from the time immemorial)
We have same religious belief, and that became a catalyst.

Emotions started flowing but luckily, I had a good way of checking it, I never wanted love to thrump prudence since we haven't met. I used my brain and not my heart and it enabled me study her personality well. I found out she is not in the same mould as me.

Though through her confessions she likes/loves me, her behaviour is not consistent with her confessions. I really cared for her, she knows that quite well. I couldn't/can't live a life of lie, therefore, I let the friendship go the way I let it come.........

You can find love here like I said earlier but chances are very slim. Most girls here play out the script.

There are honourable ladies here still.

Jasi7:

Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehe....u sef...u always get wetin to give as answer...alryt u win

prettiest1: That "you" was a general terms.

Danhumprey: then who are those behind these numerous female monikers? Ghosts?

redgem: Most of the guys here are married and some of the single guys are irresponsible, ill-mannered, liars..e.t.c

SpcAgtOko:

They are all fakes

redgem: Most of the guys here are married and some of the single guys are irresponsible, ill-mannered, liars..e.t.c

Danhumprey: So are the girls/ladies. They keep forming like they are the only human beings.

pasqal09:
If I can't relate with someone online, then I won't be possible in reality

redgem:
Lol...we don't form, we know how you guys behave
Firstly, no manner of approach
Secondly. Sorry to say but your male folks behave like kids

prettiest1: Ok. That's where individual differences comes into mind. I still believe there are good ladies with a kind heart here.

redgem:
Lol...we don't form, we know how you guys behave
Firstly, no manner of approach
Secondly. Sorry to say but your male folks behave like kids

Danhumprey: So in essence,you are making it look like you ladies are saints and faultless,abi? Smh.

redgem:
Nah...just behave like or be gentlemen and we will act like ladies we are

pasqal09:
Akuko!

Danhumprey: I'm a gentleman,but ladies haven't been nice to me.

redgem:
Hmmm...are you sure or you are saying the opposite?

lekzzydo: can you make it possible between us?

pickabeau1: Interesting analysis,..... maybe full of assumptions

I agree however things are not as they seem on NL

SpcAgtOko:
They are all fakes

prettiest1: meaning please?

prettiest1: meaning please?

Danhumprey: I'm a real gentleman. But ladies treat me like shít. I'm a nice guy. It's a fact that ladies love bad guys/players.

Adorayble: It means daughter of a king

pasqal09:
Sorry, tot u were ibo
It means story

prettiest1: Ok. Thanks dearie

prettiest1: not Igbo but Aks

lasheez: Hmmm.....seriously whats up with you and the ladies?I think girls also like good guys when it comes to facing reality.

prettiest1: not Igbo but Aks

Jasi7:

Yea...ure rite in a way...

buttchick: I did say in my opinion, so yeah, they are assumptions.



Are you fake? Cos I do see a f behind your moniker.

Danhumprey: You are an Akwa Ibomites?

Then,you be my sister.