I cant , no time.

First of all, can we define this contextual "dating" so we can draw the imaginary line btwn sex-dating nd marriage-dating.

OkikiOluwa1:
When I was in the university, I met a girl.
The girl thought I really loved her & started planning her future with me.
Meanwhile, I never loved her. I was dating her for other reasons. When I realized I couldn't betray her again, I had to tell her am sorry & that we won't end up marrying each other. It pained her so much...
I felt so bad & started blaming myself that why did I approach her in the 1st place?

I wished I could have that spirit ..

Kentnickole: First of all, can we define this contextual "dating" so we can draw the imaginary line btwn sex-dating nd marriage-dating.

That reminds me...I need to rephrase my comment.

Xtarxhyne: lol....no

Follow me back make I pm u

glitest:



That reminds me...I need to rephrase my comment.

If need be dear.

danbrowndmf: jus tl me one of those qualities u wanna see in a man b4 u date him..biko just one

the man must be prospective and focused.

remsonik:
Lol, go and sample pepper in the market and see if you will not be lynched,a lot of people are just comfortable with the fact that theirs no instant punishment for fornication.

you are so narrow minded if that is your understanding of product.

Of course not, I Marry everybody I date.

Cecediva: I will like to bring this topic for discussion.

I hear some guys guys say I can date a lady but I can't marry her when is time for me to marry

OR

Some ladies say he's just good for dating when am ready for marriage I can't marry him.


So why date someone you can't marry for a long time?


Your opinions please

I'm in that situation right now sef.

honjohnbright: Before now,YES! but now to be very honest with u, NO!!!

REASONS:
*makes u insincere
*contradicts ur integrity claims
*its not gentlemanly
*frivolity is not what u need
*ur wasting someone's precious time

MEANWHILE
Its a different case when u actually started the relationship with the hope of taking her to d alter someday but due to some incompatibility ishh u backed off

BOTTOM LINE
Keep sex out ov ur relationship before marriage if Heaven is ur "Terminus"

Well said sir

glitest:


How about we start on a new note tomorrow; New attitude.New conversation?.
Huh?.

Great! I'm all in then. Goodmorning.

krall: Nairaland females this is your lucky day......Am looking for a new wife. Indicate interest if interested.

new wife?? Which means you are already married.

nope in capital

I do not have time for unnecessary relationships. If I can't marry a girl, I'll rather be her friend than date her. Albeit, I may later discover some turn-offs while dating someone and break up in the end. But, the thing is, I can't date someone I can't marry in the first place, all things being equal.

frankben: i'm sorry dear.... Please what's wrong with taking 7up?

Its cabonated, caffeinated, sugared i.e has artificial sweetner {aspartame} that is 200 times sweeter than sugar which is a poison to the body, increases high risk of oestoeporosis, improve the risk of weak enamel, damages kidney, denies the ability of the body to produce sugar and much more

PrincessB1: Its cabonated, caffeinated, sugared i.e has artificial sweetner {aspartame} that is 200 times sweeter than sugar which is a poison to the body, increases high risk of oestoeporosis, improve the risk of weak enamel, damages kidney, denies the ability of the body to produce sugar and much more

choi!!! Quite informative... Thanks alot dear....

*hugs*
*smooches*
*kisses*

frankben: choi!!! Quite informative... Thanks alot dear....

*hugs*
*smooches*
*kisses*

Tnx *Hugs hm bck*

PrincessB1: Tnx *Hugs hm bck*

but "hug" wasn't the only thing i gave you...

What about the others?

@Topic: No, I can not & will not do that. That will be a complete waste of time, energy & resources. Reasons? Alright, I will tell you.

If I should do that, then it will only mean that;

1. I'm an outright hypocrite

2. I can not define myself & my wellbeing

3. I'm not a responsible person

4. I have no respect for myself & those around me.

5. I do not know what I want for myself & from life @ large.

O.P, It's all about honesty, u know. Like someone mentioned earlier, the real question we should be asking ourselves is, "can I continue to date someone that I hav discovered that I cannot marry"
My 2cents actually

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I cannot date smone I cant marry...if it happened in d past dat I walked frm a rltnship, den it wasnt intentional...cos I no fit

jennylove7575: of course they all are. I don't need to give u count. Poverty man pack ur load and go. I deal with ego owo, kudi. I don't care if the man is slowpoke as long as he is a confirmed ATM he will be my man...I wonder how all this poor men for naira land managed to get megabytes sef

So you're saying your dad inclusive is a very useless man and you brothers if you have any...That's your choice tho. i hope your not referring to me as "poverty man" ma'am?

angela98: the man must be prospective and focused.

prospertive? Asin d man must be rich or wat?

danbrowndmf: prospertive? Asin d man must be rich or wat?

nope. As in ithe man must have plans for the future. Not necessarily rich.

frankben: but "hug" wasn't the only thing i gave you...

What about the others?

L L wetin u wan do wt d rest..... abeg joor:p

angela98: I can not date a person whom I see as unmarriageable. because I am one person who is very committed to her relationship. I Dont just date any man, there are qualities I expect to find in a man before I can date him. If the relationship leads to marriage well fine. Its not every relationship that leads to marriage, there are so many unforeseen circumstances that can breakup relationships.

u are wise

Cecediva: I will like to bring this topic for discussion.

I hear some guys guys say I can date a lady but I can't marry her when is time for me to marry

OR

Some ladies say he's just good for dating when am ready for marriage I can't marry him.


So why date someone you cagn't marry for a long time?


Your opinions please

How old are you? 6?

mascot87:

Eeya,sorry so you have being meeting wrong men with shallow mentality all ur life? Pele

[b][/b] ofcoz,they are yo type and they cover the surface of the earth like sand so i have no option than to notice the few ''sensible '' ones

Ezibless: [b][/b] ofcoz,they are yo type and they cover the surface of the earth like sand so i have no option than to notice the ''sensible '' ones

You don't classify me with all the clowns that u've been attracting. I now see the reason why u've been meeting wrong people.

Acidosis:
ahahah, do not be decieved o. Thinking is one aspect; acting is another. All in all, hope dey

are you conversant with this statement; ''as a man thinketh in his heart so he is''

mascot87:

You don't classify me with all the clowns that u've been attracting. I now see the reason why u've been meeting wrong people.

just swerve!!!!! You're officially ignored