First,sorry if d topic looks somhw

I just want to know popular opinion on this issue cos it got me thinkin...

Is there anything wrong if as a guy,you go to your girl's place more than she comes to yours due to no delibrat doing of urs?

The real issue is I go to my gal's place more(somtimes stay ova) just because my present temporary workplace is kinda remote & boring bt she stays main town which is more lively & interesting.She also stays alone bt there r neighbours around.

So ds got me thinking dat as a guy,is there anything wrong wit that?pls I want ur sincere opinions...

Nothing wrong my brother, it is called away match, no fear of away go rule!

a friend of mine who frequented his gfs place was dumped like crap






lastnote: scarcity is the spice of relationship

Nothing actually wrong per se, but you would wanna be the man and restrict yourself from going over there too often.

I would say you allow for missing eachother more, so that the few times that you guys would meet would be truly special. And trust me, you don't wanna continue like this for long. No matter how odd your place is, enjoy it that way. You can't make her want to always visit you there when you don't feel comfortable there yourself. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong in going over to her place. But the problem is the frequency. Moreover, I wouldn't subscribe to you sleeping over at her place. Haba!

What you are doing will backfire, mark my words, unless you retrace your footsteps. Remember! She has got friends. She might not have any odd ideas in her head at this juncture, but you know what friends can do. They can just plant it up there and watch it germinate, and before you know it... Stories that touch go follow the matter.

Onlinebizexpert: a friend of mine who frequented his gfs place was dumped like crap






lastnote: scarcity is the spice of relationship

well said!

Why not vacate ur present apartment n look for anoda apartment close ur workplace.....
A man's respect is earned when his decision over his woman is d woman's guideline.
What will u do if she asks u excuse her dat she needs her privacy?

One question?

you dey always chop her food anytime you go there?
Do you give her money for upkeep?


ok, those were 2


Once had a neighbour whose boyfriend was practically living with (he get house oo), I concluded the guy is just hungry and dumped his expenses on the 'not-too-smart' lady

Give her space bro

oga no kill yourself. No matter how you guide a woman you alone cannot be the only man that will fvck her.

Do you think guiding her will prevent her from fvcking another deeeek?

Many men have spent good 3 months staying in their girls place but she still manage time to fvck outstide and latet dump their guy.

Save urself from heart attack, gain your respect, whether your place is fine or not let her do the frequent visiting.