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Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by tommysparks: 12:15pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Ladies and gents I came across this question on a friend's blog and I have been pondering on it. My fiance already has a house in fct and works there but am working in another state but plan to transfer to fct after our marriage. And my fiancé's house is closer to our offices. Now should I move in with her or rent another house when we get married and I finally get my transfer . Inputs and suggestions pls |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by stormybucci(m): 12:24pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$ |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by iamSi(m): 12:29pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
LOL ... You must be a Typical Nigeria ... I thought we are following western world now ... #Crapaholics #Hypocites #ConfusedSouls ... Please don't tell that to a white man ... Their LOVE for themselves might result in 'them putting a big hole in ur very small brain stormybucci: dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$ |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Sunkyphil(m): 12:32pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
No its not wrong but it musnt be for long cos she will use dat against u later on |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Dygeasy(m): 12:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
I see no issue here at all. Move to FCT as planned and into your fiancee's apartment for your own convenience. If the rent as at when you'll move in is almost due, pay the next rent. Isn't she your wife? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Tymax(m): 12:48pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
It largely depends on the way your fiancée would interprete it. Some women might see you as miserly, saying you don't wanna spend your money. Also, her father might frown at it. Well, Guy na you sabi your woman. If she will give you drama over a small issue like this, please don't move in with her. Go rent another place. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by unapologetic: 12:53pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
There is nothing wrong in moving in with your fiancee because she isn't just any lady. All you need to do as a man is to support her by footing most of the bills and not wait for her to pay 'em. It's not about what people think but what makes the two of you happy. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by stormybucci(m): 12:56pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
iamSi: LOL ... You must be a Typical Nigeria ... I thought we are following western world now ... #Crapaholics #Hypocites #ConfusedSouls ... Please don't tell that to a white man ... Their LOVE for themselves might result in 'them putting a big hole in ur very small braind last tym i checked, there's a big difference btw d whites nd blacks |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by ITbomb(m): 12:59pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
If you are paying the next rent, there is no issue there. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by tommysparks: 1:48pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Tnx ya all for the suggestions , more opinions are still welcome |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by iamSi(m): 2:26pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
And please re-check you'll know we are on the same page ... But somethings won't just let u see thru stormybucci: d last tym i checked, there's a big difference btw d whites nd blacks |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Fxwarrior: 2:33pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Yeye dey smell.She never send you packing before? |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Exponental(m): 2:37pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust. Amos 3:3 says..... Can two walk together, except they be agreed? If u cant reason (agree) together, u cant live (walk) together. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Houseofglam7(f): 2:39pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Exponental: Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust.End of story! |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by stormybucci(m): 2:39pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
iamSi: And please re-check you'll know we are on the same page ... But somethings won't just let u see thruyea i get it nw... Na "readographical" error cause am b4 |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by b3llo(m): 6:20pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Exponental: Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust. EOD! |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by johnmatilda: 6:47pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
AND THIS IS WHERE WE COME TO THE END OF THE THREAD! THANK U ALL |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by iamSi(m): 7:35pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
You the best bro ... E ba mi so fun Boy yen ki o tepa mose owo e gidi gan ni ooo stormybucci: yea i get it nw... Na "readographical" error cause am b4 |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by stormybucci(m): 8:51pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
iamSi: You the best bro ... E ba mi so fun Boy yen ki o tepa mose owo e gidi gan ni oooi tire 4 d people wae dae give d guy funny advice, even 1 dae quote bible passage 4 d guy..... let me make my last comment "guy don't be a real man by staying in ur wife's apartment nd footing d bills or rent, be a real man by renting ur own apartment nd foot d bills.. asap!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by iamSi(m): 8:58pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
GBAM !!! ... Let the thread be closed ... stormybucci: i tire 4 d people wae dae give d guy funny advice, even 1 dae quote bible passage 4 d guy..... let me make my last comment "guy don't be a real man by staying in ur wife's apartment nd footing d bills or rent, be a real man by renting ur own apartment nd foot d bills.. asap!! |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by passionate88: 10:11pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
stormybucci: dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$I wonder the types of women we have in Nigeria... So if a man stays with his wife in the house he built she wouldn't love nd respect him again?. |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by mencade5(m): 10:40pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
buy a house for a woman, give her brand new car, take her shopping to dubai and france. When her madness come up she will shock you with this question. ''what have you done for me?'' biiitches everywhere. My brother no enter that house ooo. She go use am control you tire. I don go. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by xzibukz(m): 10:41pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
tommysparks: Ladies and gents I came across this question on a friend's blog and I have been pondering on it. My fiance already has a house in fct and works there but am working in another state but plan to transfer to fct after our marriage. And my fiancé's house is closer to our offices. Now should I move in with her or rent another house when we get married and I finally get my transfer . Inputs and suggestions pls move in with her. *you can call me for your wedding photography. photobook & enlargement only. (i dont do video). 08031918782 |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Guy, if na bacha, rent and let her move in with you. The dignity of a man rest in his interpretation of circumstances. Misinterpret this one, you go HouseboyBucci yourself 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by stormybucci(m): 11:48pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
passionate88: I wonder the types of women we have in Nigeria... So if a man stays with his wife in the house he built she wouldn't love nd respect him again?.d respect would be more |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by rattlesnake(m): 11:52pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
just start paying the rent na whats the ish again |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by tranxo(m): 6:57am On Jul 28, 2014 |
The main thing is the rent. The responsibility should be yours now. |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Move into the house with a bigger space... You shouldn't expect her to leave her spacious room/house to a an uncomfortable place. If you must rent nother place make sure it is better than her house if not humble yourself and move into her house... Men and unnecessary Ego |
Re: Is It Right To Move Into Your Wife's Apartment After Marriage? by texybaby(f): 9:34am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Dygeasy: I see no issue here at all. Move to FCT as planned and into your fiancee's apartment for your own convenience. If the rent as at when you'll move in is almost due, pay the next rent. Isn't she your wife?Thank Ɣ☺ΰ...u just said my mind ooo |
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