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Dating Tips by infobearer(m): 4:31pm On Jul 28, 2014
First dates are always very nerve wracking. You have so many things going on in your head and are unable to focus properly. Questions like “will he/she like me?”, “what would happen?”, “am I going to mess it up?” keep on popping in your head, making it hard for you to keep your composure. This nervous energy can very easily lead to a disaster and ruin your date. Thus, it is best to keep calm and to enjoy the date as much as possible. If you find it hard to do this, then there are some tips that can help you in remaining cool and making the best impression on your first date.
Dress Up Nicely

Dressing up nicely is always important when you are going to meet up with a person. When going on a date it becomes doubly important because you want the other person to like you. So, dress appropriately, but that does not mean that you must dress up formally. You can choose whatever you want to wear, but do keep in mind that it must be according to the environment you are meeting your date in. For instance, if you are meeting up in a lavish hotel then wearing jean and t-shirt is not a good idea and a suit might be more suitable choice. Looking good on a first date can not only make a good impression on the person you are going on date with, but also help in enhancing your self-confidence as well.

Don’t Be Late

Making a person wait on a date is a sure shot recipe for disaster. Your date is not going to like it one bit and it would give him/her the wrong signal. Thus, if you want to make a good impression on your first date then it is best to arrive early. Have a reminder on your phone about the date and cancel all meetings or chores that you have to do an hour before the scheduled meeting time so that you can dress up and reach the place well ahead of time. Thus, timeliness is crucial when it comes to making a date a success and is also the key to calming your nerves as well.

Don’t Talk Too Much

Talking too much on a first date is a sign that you are feeling nervous, so it is best to don’t talk much. Either keep quiet or listen to your date. However, this does not mean that you should not take part in conversation at all as it would be rude and your date might get the wrong idea that you are not interested in taking to him/her. The best thing to do is to have a small chit chat and talk about the things that you two have in common.

Re: Dating Tips by DoctorAshley(f): 6:32pm On Jul 28, 2014
jst be ur self jare

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Re: Dating Tips by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jul 28, 2014
DoctorAshley: jst be ur self jare
abi ooo

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Re: Dating Tips by Chubhie: 7:36pm On Jul 28, 2014
Why would I go out with a stranger and share a meal? The psychology of meal says that you share meals with those you love, trust with your life and family. In conventional dating, everyone seems to be of the best behaviour. You see people forcing themselves to smile at dry jokes etc.

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