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The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nonsonnamani: 2:05pm On Jul 31, 2014
By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.
Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou

Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get
it...

Like, from the look of things they think they do but
they just don't.

Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is
dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go
like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?"

I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too
ugly for that babe jare".

The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that
when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's
hundred percent different from what makes you guys
trip.

For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and
probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner
and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted
by what you see.

The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works
for men actually work for women.

They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs
that maybe they will get women swooning around
them.

I see dudes wail about how average or not so good
looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't
really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends
headaches and heartbreaks.
I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress
really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it
stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to
steal their girlfriends from them.

Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only
to watch her turn them down.
Then they start thinking something is wrong with
them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't
spend enough".


So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts
really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her,
tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically
become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the
girl turns you down again.

Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with
you.

Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with
you and it is that you just don't get it.

The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see,
we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be
seen.

And what is that?

The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man.
The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in
making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have
fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call
'em "players".

Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying
and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn
them into a play thing.
They call us - we don't pick.
They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't
(when we might be in a guy's house at that very
moment they called us up to ask)

I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we
girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures
if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER
QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you

The fact is this....

Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a
woman - every man can become a man any woman will
kill to want to be with.
It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn.

When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost
nothing - don't wonder why.
It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it
fish brain or what ever you want.

We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty
To sum up...

- Any man can make women chase after him if he can
have the personality and quality that triggers
attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in
subsequent posts)

- we women don't give a hoot about how you look,
maybe to a little extent we do but we would rather date
an average looking guy who has the personalities that
get we women tripping than a handsome dude who
doesn't.

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Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Eberex(m): 2:12pm On Jul 31, 2014
[b][/b]
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.
Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou

Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get
it...

Like, from the look of things they think they do but
they just don't.

Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is
dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go
like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?"

I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too
ugly for that babe jare".

The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that
when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's
hundred percent different from what makes you guys
trip.

For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and
probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner
and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted
by what you see.

The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works
for men actually work for women.

They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs
that maybe they will get women swooning around
them.

I see dudes wail about how average or not so good
looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't
really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends
headaches and heartbreaks.
I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress
really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it
stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to
steal their girlfriends from them.

Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only
to watch her turn them down.
Then they start thinking something is wrong with
them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't
spend enough".


So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts
really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her,
tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically
become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the
girl turns you down again.

Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with
you.

Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with
you and it is that you just don't get it.

The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see,
we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be
seen.

And what is that?

The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man.
The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in
making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have
fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call
'em "players".

Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying
and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn
them into a play thing.
They call us - we don't pick.
They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't
(when we might be in a guy's house at that very
moment they called us up to ask)

I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we
girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures
if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER
QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you

The fact is this....

Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a
woman - every man can become a man any woman will
kill to want to be with.
It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn.

When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost
nothing - don't wonder why.
It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it
fish brain or what ever you want.

We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty
To sum up...

- Any man can make women chase after him if he can
have the personality and quality that triggers
attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in
subsequent posts)

- [b]we women don't give a hoot about how you look,
maybe to a little extent [/b]we do but we would rather date
an average looking guy who has the personalities that
get we women tripping than a handsome dude who
doesn't.

Yeah right!
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Polchiz(m): 7:14pm On Jul 31, 2014
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.
Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou

Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get
it...

Like, from the look of things they think they do but
they just don't.

Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is
dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go
like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?"

I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too
ugly for that babe jare".

The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that
when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's
hundred percent different from what makes you guys
trip.

For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and
probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner
and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted
by what you see.

The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works
for men actually work for women.

They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs
that maybe they will get women swooning around
them.

I see dudes wail about how average or not so good
looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't
really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends
headaches and heartbreaks.
I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress
really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it
stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to
steal their girlfriends from them.

Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only
to watch her turn them down.
Then they start thinking something is wrong with
them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't
spend enough".


So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts
really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her,
tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically
become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the
girl turns you down again.

Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with
you.

Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with
you and it is that you just don't get it.

The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see,
we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be
seen.

And what is that?

The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man.
The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in
making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have
fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call
'em "players".

Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying
and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn
them into a play thing.
They call us - we don't pick.
They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't
(when we might be in a guy's house at that very
moment they called us up to ask)

I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we
girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures
if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER
QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you

The fact is this....

Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a
woman - every man can become a man any woman will
kill to want to be with.
It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn.

When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost
nothing - don't wonder why.
It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it
fish brain or what ever you want.

We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty
To sum up...

- Any man can make women chase after him if he can
have the personality and quality that triggers
attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in
subsequent posts)

- we women don't give a hoot about how you look,
maybe to a little extent we do but we would rather date
an average looking guy who has the personalities that
get we women tripping than a handsome dude who
doesn't.

This is simply your opinion and stop preaching as if it is a dogma ( a well established principle).
Ask many girls and they will tell you how they trip for guys who are:
1. Above 6ft.
2. Wealthy
3. Educated
4. Out going
5. Influential
They don't give a damn if the guy is an armed robber, a drunkard, a woman beater, a cheat, among others.
So, what personality nonsense are you talking about?
It seems you don't live in Nigeria. The nollywood movies they watch has really affected their brain.

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Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by DoctorAshley(f): 8:52pm On Jul 31, 2014
u r damn right smiley
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by oilykid(m): 9:28pm On Jul 31, 2014
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.
Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou

Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get
it...

Like, from the look of things they think they do but
they just don't.

Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is
dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go
like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?"

I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too
ugly for that babe jare".

The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that
when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's
hundred percent different from what makes you guys
trip.

For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and
probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner
and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted
by what you see.

The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works
for men actually work for women.

They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs
that maybe they will get women swooning around
them.

I see dudes wail about how average or not so good
looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't
really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends
headaches and heartbreaks.
I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress
really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it
stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to
steal their girlfriends from them.

Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only
to watch her turn them down.
Then they start thinking something is wrong with
them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't
spend enough".


So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts
really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her,
tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically
become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the
girl turns you down again.

Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with
you.

Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with
you and it is that you just don't get it.

The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see,
we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be
seen.

And what is that?

The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man.
The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in
making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have
fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call
'em "players".

Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying
and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn
them into a play thing.
They call us - we don't pick.
They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't
(when we might be in a guy's house at that very
moment they called us up to ask)

I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we
girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures
if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER
QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you

The fact is this....

Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a
woman - every man can become a man any woman will
kill to want to be with.
It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn.

When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost
nothing - don't wonder why.
It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it
fish brain or what ever you want.

We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty
To sum up...

- Any man can make women chase after him if he can
have the personality and quality that triggers
attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in
subsequent posts)

- we women don't give a hoot about how you look,
maybe to a little extent we do but we would rather date
an average looking guy who has the personalities that
get we women tripping than a handsome dude who
doesn't.

OK.noted
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nellyelitz(m): 9:52pm On Jul 31, 2014
Polchiz:
This is simply your opinion and stop preaching as if it is a dogma ( a well established principle).
Ask many girls and they will tell you how they trip for guys who are:
1. Above 6ft.
2. Wealthy
3. Educated
4. Out going
5. Influential
They don't give a damn if the guy is an armed robber, a drunkard, a woman beater, a cheat, among others.
So, what personality nonsense are you talking about?
It seems you don't live in Nigeria. The nollywood movies they watch has really affected their brain.
i gat ur back bro.

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Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nellyelitz(m): 9:53pm On Jul 31, 2014
No money no honey...leave the sermon till sunday service.
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by guyANDROID1: 10:20pm On Jul 31, 2014
CAPITAL "LOL"

And what's the personality?.

In 9ice voice "My personality no matter at all" Gongo aso
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Missmossy(f): 10:24pm On Jul 31, 2014
Una no dey tire ni? With all these things about ladies/women and boys/men thing.
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jul 31, 2014
Missmossy: Una no dey tire ni? With all these things about ladies/women and boys/men thing.
me gan don tire. Make somebody tell us the lies for once sad
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 31, 2014
This s a lesson for the upcoming kids... Adults are exempted...
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Missmossy(f): 11:15pm On Jul 31, 2014
OliverPin: me gan don tire. Make somebody tell us the lies for once sad
Lol...na them sabitongue
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by b3llo(m): 12:45am On Aug 01, 2014
Polchiz:
This is simply your opinion and stop preaching as if it is a dogma ( a well established principle).
Ask many girls and they will tell you how they trip for guys who are:
1. Above 6ft.
2. Wealthy
3. Educated
4. Out going
5. Influential
They don't give a damn if the guy is an armed robber, a drunkard, a woman beater, a cheat, among others.
So, what personality nonsense are you talking about?
It seems you don't live in Nigeria. The nollywood movies they watch has really affected their brain.
Cheers boss! You've hit the nail on the head. Personality and manly characteristics my a.s.s
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 2:42am On Aug 01, 2014
""For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some
bosoms and probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted by what you see."" This statement of urs is absolute HOGWASH! U only attract dogs wit such principle.
My dear, ur post is an attempt to disguise ignorance as intelligence. Cheers

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Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Mobi47(m): 4:54am On Aug 01, 2014
wao I love nairaland....... See comments with a properly guided and well thought thoughts.....hmmmm. Assuming its on facebook that this is posted, every one will just be saying good job,,, good job. Nairaland is for the men........hahaha we think b4 we write here,,,,,,although some children frm facbook de come here come de shout 1st to comment. @OP- I love ur post....it has 55% truth and 45% false.

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Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by youngwolf(m): 7:32am On Aug 01, 2014
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.
Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou

Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get
it...

Like, from the look of things they think they do but
they just don't.

Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is
dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go
like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?"

I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too
ugly for that babe jare".

The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that
when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's
hundred percent different from what makes you guys
trip.

For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and
probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner
and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted
by what you see.

The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works
for men actually work for women.

They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs
that maybe they will get women swooning around
them.

I see dudes wail about how average or not so good
looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't
really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends
headaches and heartbreaks.
I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress
really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it
stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to
steal their girlfriends from them.

Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only
to watch her turn them down.
Then they start thinking something is wrong with
them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't
spend enough".


So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts
really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her,
tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically
become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the
girl turns you down again.

Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with
you.

Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with
you and it is that you just don't get it.

The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see,
we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be
seen.

And what is that?

The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man.
The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in
making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have
fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call
'em "players".

Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying
and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn
them into a play thing.
They call us - we don't pick.
They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't
(when we might be in a guy's house at that very
moment they called us up to ask)

I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we
girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures
if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER
QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you

The fact is this....

Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a
woman - every man can become a man any woman will
kill to want to be with.
It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn.

When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost
nothing - don't wonder why.
It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it
fish brain or what ever you want.

We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty
To sum up...

- Any man can make women chase after him if he can
have the personality and quality that triggers
attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in
subsequent posts)

- we women don't give a hoot about how you look,
maybe to a little extent we do but we would rather date
an average looking guy who has the personalities that
get we women tripping than a handsome dude who
doesn't.



U ve said so much....but u ve not made a point here. That personality theory does not hold water in this case
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by dmcdad: 9:22am On Aug 01, 2014
Polchiz:
This is simply your opinion and stop preaching as if it is a dogma ( a well established principle).
Ask many girls and they will tell you how they trip for guys who are:
1. Above 6ft.
2. Wealthy
3. Educated
4. Out going
5. Influential
They don't give a damn if the guy is an armed robber, a drunkard, a woman beater, a cheat, among others.
So, what personality nonsense are you talking about?
It seems you don't live in Nigeria. The nollywood movies they watch has really affected their brain.
1 bottle of Amarula for you.
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 01, 2014
It's still thesame bi*tch that'll dump you for a money bag even when you have attributes of a manly personality. #TheseHoesAintLoyal undecided
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by FancyClock(m): 5:31pm On Aug 22, 2014
Is not all about PERSONALITY my dear
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Sunnypar(m): 5:05am On Feb 27, 2016
shocked
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 5:08am On Feb 27, 2016
ahh... ess long ooo. but 80% accurate sha
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 7:16am On Feb 27, 2016
Your opinion. I turn men with these "personality nd masculine traits" down if they are not attractrive/quite attractive.
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Sunnypar(m): 9:19am On Feb 27, 2016
Speechless3:
Your opinion. I turn men with these "personality nd masculine traits" down if they are not attractrive/quite attractive.
shocked

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