A friend of mine came to seek an advice from me on which of the aforementioned I deem good for him to have first. To be honest with you guys I didn't know what to say to him right there. I then told him that I will get back to him soon.
Please I want you guys here to help me out.

With the breed of women this generation has to offer? Its better he get a car first

WisdomTank: A friend of mine came to seek an advice from me on which of the aforementioned I deem good for him to have first. To be honest with you guys I didn't know what to say to him right there. I then told him that I will get back to him soon.
Please I want you guys here to help me out.

Car is not an asset
Tell ur friend to buy land to start building a house or use the money to Marry
What is your friend age?
Move out of rent

Let him decide thru d opportunity cost of d two, but in my opinion, I will go with a wife.

He should get d one that has d lowest maintenance betwn d two.
Women are expensive to maintain ds days.lol

Car is liability and it involve expenses car cab send you on an era you are not plan for!!! If a man is aged for a marriage he go for a wife car will come when he settled!!!

Tell him to invest d money, wife n car aint no asset..or he can borrow me let me help him make money

Op, tell ur friend to go buy wife quick quick. Thank God this days bride price is now very cheap especially in the north.

Mods, please take this to front page. I want people's opinions over this as I may have to face this kind of dilemma in the nearest future. Please!

It depends on the age of your friend and the kind of work he does. If he is a banker/lawyer and lives in a place like Lagos, with the crazy Lagos traffic and transport system then he needs a car. But if he lives in a city where it is not so difficult commuting to/fro work then he needs to settle down if he is of marriage age. Mind you none of the 2 is easy to maintain.

it is a matter of choice,one mans meat is another ones poisin either u hold your car or your wife na you know

redsquare: It depends on the age of your friend and the kind of work he does. If he is a banker/lawyer and lives in a place like Lagos, with the crazy Lagos traffic and transport system then he needs a car. But if he lives in a city where it is not so difficult commuting to/fro work then he needs to settle down if he is of marriage age. Mind you none of the 2 is easy to maintain.

So on point. Hmmmmmm

Two complete misplaced priorities... Marriage is choice from individuals whom as attain a financial security state... There by knowing what is to come(money) And when is to come.

If you ask the question: A marriage or to Build a house which should come first... This can be. Giving a serious thought..

But car or marriage... Bro you aint ready for that. Institution, a marriageable adult won't ask this question. It is well with your friend!

pasqal09: With the breed of women this generation has to offer? Its better he get a car first

both car and women are a bad investment (if you just got this little amount of money to spend) because both are HIGH MAINTENANCE.
the only reason why a car would be a better option is because, if you get tired of the car, you can always sell it off and get "some" parts of your money back. parting with a wife you will possibly STILL have to pay for maintenance for the rest of your life.

GoodFaith:
Car is not an asset
Tell ur friend to buy land to start building a house or use the money to Marry
What is your friend age?
Move out of rent

how can you put marriage in the same sentence as AN ASSET. is marriage an asset now?

Anoneism: Mods, please take this to front page. I want people's opinions over this as I may have to face this kind of dilemma in the nearest future. Please!

if this is a something that you cant decide on your own then you are ot ready for either one of them.

SirAweezy: Two complete misplaced priorities... Marriage is choice from individuals whom as attain a financial security state... There by knowing what is to come(money) And when is to come.
If you ask the question: A marriage or to Build a house which should come first... This can be. Giving a serious thought..
But car or marriage... Bro you aint ready for that. Institution, a marriageable adult won't ask this question. It is well with your friend!

bro, you do know that marriage is almost free, right? so even a person who ask such question as "marriage or build a house" is confused.
a house is an asset, marriage aint!

WisdomTank: A friend of mine came to seek an advice from me on which of the aforementioned I deem good for him to have first. To be honest with you guys I didn't know what to say to him right there. I then told him that I will get back to him soon.
Please I want you guys here to help me out.

make him buy bus and dm go dy deliver evryday...

MRbrownJAY:

both car and women are a bad investment (if you just got this little amount of money to spend) because both are HIGH MAINTENANCE.
the only reason why a car would be a better option is because, if you get tired of the car, you can always sell it off and get "some" parts of your money back. parting with a wife you will possibly STILL have to pay for maintenance for the rest of your life.



how can you put marriage in the same sentence as AN ASSET. is marriage an asset now?



if this is a something that you cant decide on your own then you are ot ready for either one of them.



bro, you do know that marriage is almost free, right? so even a person who ask such question as "marriage or build a house" is confused.
a house is an asset, marriage aint!

Mrbrown

A car first in my own opinion

After much thought about this, I arrived at this decision ie if I am the one provided I have what it takes to husband a wife, getting a wife will be my take.

Car now!, cus if he marries now, he won't b able to get tha car

Thanks guys for the comments so far. Please keep them coming.
As for my friend's occupation, he's a banker in Abj.

ladunsky: A car first in my own opinion

Waooooo, interesting! This is coming from a lady

WisdomTank:
Waooooo, interesting! This is coming from a lady

yes now.. getting a car is essential. ..

Hw can u compare a car with a woman? This is an insult to womanhood.
Ideally, a man is meant to have one wife n as many cars as posible, so, by order of priority, take d one dat comes first.

since he is a banker he should go for a car . peeps marriage is not weeding o. For those peeps asking for him to get married first i tell u he wount be able to build a house or buy a car when children has started coming the task will increase. If for example a guy uses 150k salary to sustain a mouth if he marries he will use to sustain two mouths
2. A car can be parked if goten spoilt and the owner may decide to repair when ever he has money . But a woman no when sick you must treat immediately if threre is no money or yes.

3. Finaly co banchelor if u got money to buy a land and build a house or use it for weeding do the house first because after marriage you wount have time to build cause u scheldue has increased. And you would start wasting money on contractors.