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| Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by zboyd: 7:49am On Aug 04, 2014 |
Are these relationships workable or wrong from the start? Have you ever dated a friend's ex? Are there some people that you should never date? |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by popobaba(m): 7:52am On Aug 04, 2014 |
For me, it's a NO NO...none of my friends should date my ex. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by onome710(m): 7:55am On Aug 04, 2014 |
I am in such a dilemma now. My friends ex and I have been friends even while they were dating. We lost contact and recently started talking. We hang out and enjoy each others company. But I am playing careful. I feel the way we are going, we are gradually building something. I don't know what to do? Stop it? Tell my friend? Go ahed? So confused. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by onome710(m): 8:00am On Aug 04, 2014 |
popobaba: For me, it's a NO NO...none of my friends should date my ex. Why? Is there any law or custom or social belief that states that it is wrong? If they get to find themselves in it. What will you do? And you didn't say if its a No No for you to date your friends ex. What if you meet a guy somewhere, you guys become friends and then you later find out that he dated your gf. Will u break up with her? |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by dytbabe: 8:02am On Aug 04, 2014 |
Its a free world Go on and have him to ursef, infact marry him Muchechechechecheche |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by popobaba(m): 8:14am On Aug 04, 2014 |
onome710: I won't date my friend's ex. On ur last question, I don't think the OP is referring to that context, if i didn't know the guy before i started dating her, no qualms. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Tallesty1(m): 8:17am On Aug 04, 2014 |
I can't do that because my friend may believe that I was envious of his relationship and were secretly hoping it would fail so I could have my turn. It ll ruin our friendship and genuine friends are hard to find. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Nobody: 8:18am On Aug 04, 2014 |
Its a No for me. For me to date my friend ex is an abomination fto me. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Tymax(m): 8:18am On Aug 04, 2014 |
If you do it  then you obviously don't value your friendship.1 Like |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Nobody: 8:44am On Aug 04, 2014 |
I would not blame people who do. But me? I just can't. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Nobody: 8:59am On Aug 04, 2014 |
Yes i have dated my friend's Ex, infact i was the main actor who ruined the relationship because i so much had a crush on the guy, why did i do so? My friend constantly kept talking about how good the guy was in bed, how he goes several rounds with her avin countless ecstasy, i couldnt wait to have some of that too  |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by popobaba(m): 9:18am On Aug 04, 2014 |
sexyseun: Yes i have dated my friend's Ex, infact i was the main actor who ruined the relationship because i so much had a crush on the guy, why did i do so? My friend constantly kept talking about how good the guy was in bed, how he goes several rounds with her avin countless ecstasy, i couldnt wait to have some of that too LOL...Fictional, idontblivit. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by IAMBREEZY: 9:25am On Aug 04, 2014 |
sexyseun: Yes i have dated my friend's Ex, infact i was the main actor who ruined the relationship because i so much had a crush on the guy, why did i do so? My friend constantly kept talking about how good the guy was in bed, how he goes several rounds with her avin countless ecstasy, i couldnt wait to have some of that tooi actually know girls like you. @topic i can ne'er try that shít. |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by rex41e(m): 12:27pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
No no no and NO! History and comparisons will ruin your relationship. Then there's that awkward moment or two where you are reminded your friend was in this place with him/her doing this/that with him/her and unnecessary jealousy begins. Sides do you really want your friend making statements like you're having his/her sloppy seconds? |
| Re: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend's Ex? by Liability(m): 2:38pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
i dont think its okay, but... |
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