MizMyColi:

Twisted Thinking.

What is a friend useful for? when you answer that, add "girl" before "friend"

That's a Girl-Friend .



Some people sef and their thinking pattern

MizMyColi:

Twisted Thinking.

What is a friend useful for? when you answer that, add "girl" before "friend"

That's a Girl-Friend .



Some people sef and their thinking pattern

Tymax:
This is deliberately misleading. Why do you need to downplay the romantic connotation of a girfriend? A girlfriend (in today's world) is not just a friend who is a girl. She must be romantically involved with a guy before she can be called such.

In this light, what then is the "benefit" of a girlfriend?

Disclaimer: I am not bashing girlfriends o.

The romantic part is just an added benefit, which isn't peculiar to Girl-friends. Ask the sex-workers in my area and "friends with benefit".

Perchance, you didn't know there are ways to be romantic without going all sex-y and smoochy and still be considered a Girl-Friend

MizMyColi: The romantic part is just an added benefit, which isn't peculiar to Girl-friends. Ask the sex-workers in my area and "friends with benefit".
Perchance, you didn't know there are ways to be romantic without going all sex-y and smoochy and still be considered a Girl-Friend

Tymax:
so what separates girlfriends from friends with benefit? The 2 groups are friends with the guy and they are romantically involved as well.

One is fair weather. The other is All Weather (or supposed to be)

MizMyColi: One is fair weather. The other is All Weather (or supposed to be)

Tymax:
Which is which o? Cos FWB represent a "stable" arrangement.

FWB:- So, you want to embark on a casual, no-strings attached relationship? Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out. Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly - Elitedaily.

^^^ There, that's the definition of Friends with benefit.

You should know by now, which is All weather and Fair Weather .

Or Do you want the definition of a Girl-Friend?

MizMyColi: FWB:- So, you want to embark on a casual, no-strings attached relationship? Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out. Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly - Elitedaily.

^^^ There, that's the definition of Friends with benefit.

You should know by now, which is All weather and Fair Weather .

Or Do you want the definition of a Girl-Friend?

Tymax:
Ɨƚa..Ɨƚa..Ɨƚa.. Madam, I need your own opinion. Besides, the definition you provided represents stability. That means I get the stuff regularly without the emotional baggage . This looks "all weather" to me o.

Please who is a Girl-Friend? Is she different from a girlfriend (without the dash you deliberately put there)? It seems you are trying to distinguish between the two girl friends

A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipedia


That said, whatever rocks your boat

You can't keep running from emotional baggage. That's the surest way to learn Emotional Intelligence.

@TheEmboldened gives me the impression that You're yet to, or simply do not understand what really matters.

A girlfriend (as it is supposed to be) is first and foremost your friend. Not necessarily a wife to be and should be treated like you would a friend, with respect. That said, anything else you two decide to add, which are not contained in honorable friendship codes would be termed "Your Business"

MizMyColi: A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipedia


That said, whatever rocks your boat

You can't keep running from emotional baggage. That's the surest way to learn Emotional Intelligence.

@TheEmboldened gives me the impression that You're yet to, or simply do not understand what really matters.

A girlfriend (as it is supposed to be) is first and foremost your friend. [size=14pt]Not necessarily a wife to be[/size] and should be treated like you would a friend, with respect. That said, anything else you two decide to add, which are not contained in honorable friendship codes would be termed "Your Business"

MizMyColi: A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipedia


That said, whatever rocks your boat

You can't keep running from emotional baggage. That's the surest way to learn Emotional Intelligence.

@TheEmboldened gives me the impression that You're yet to, or simply do not understand what really matters.

A girlfriend (as it is supposed to be) is first and foremost your friend. Not necessarily a wife to be and should be treated like you would a friend, with respect. That said, anything else you two decide to add, which are not contained in honorable friendship codes would be termed "Your Business"

Tallesty1: If you have a girlfriend and you are not gonna marry her in the next six months-one year then you are seriously wasting your time, money and peace of mind.

Life - Gf Equals peace of mind.

And if you mistakenly invest emotionally in a woman who is not that much invested in you = DOOM.

Tymax:
My sister, I do not endorse romantic relationships without possible marriage in sight.I feel it is largely meaningless to be romantically involved with someone you have no intention to marry.

Well, I think we are almost on the same page.

great289:
you are running round beating about the bush

No, I was merely reiterating

MizMyColi: No, I was merely reiterating

MizMyColi:

Twisted Thinking.

What is a friend useful for? when you answer that, add "girl" before "friend"

That's a Girl-Friend .



Some people sef and their thinking pattern

marveangel: . @ least I don't get to buy and buy and keep buying for my friends.......and they are way more grateful when I buy them beer or do little thingz dan d supposed GFs

No! You don't have a GF, what you had/have is a GD - [size=14pt]Gold Digger![/size] Besides, why date someone you have no interest in marrying? Isn't that being selfish?

MizMyColi: No! You don't have a GF, what you had/have is a GD - [size=14pt]Gold Digger![/size] Besides, why date someone you have no interest in marrying? Isn't that being selfish?