Men!, av been wonderin lately, how come most girls dont feel comfortable goin out wiv dr age-mates?Well,i wudnt mind gettin answers ppl!Holla!!!

say wat now?

well do u mean that girls dont like goin out wit guys the sme age as them? if thats wat u mean sha, its simple girls just want a more mature person.

I agree with luvlymoi. My boyfriend is 3yrs older

the truth of the matter is that getting married to whether older or younger persons really doesn't matter, like they say maturity is the force of the mind, i see nothin wrong with that, its just a way of life,

there is nothin wrong with pple goin after there peers but the truth is most of this peers hardly know the importance of real and true friendship, it all depends anyway.as for me i really wonj't mind any one but u just have to reason the way real pple do,

guess they want a mature brother not some broke ass immature one.

Exactly!

knew u would say dat.

Maybe u need some education. As a matter of factly, age is just a number. But the answer you need is that girls go out with people they are on the same maturity level with. And it turns out that gals are more matured than guys of their age. Think I'm wrong, ask those in the medical field.

i dont know why people generalize alot. tufia.

LOL diddy i love that word,

Tufia,LOL

i say it alot

lol, yup.

LOL diddy

frist i thought it was
cofia LOL


but i know now it's tufia

yeah its tufia not cofia.

Majority of Boys our age tend to act immature.

Some girls just wanna date someone older than them because they believe the guy would be more 'experienced' or 'matured'. Well as we all know, it's not always the case (im a living witness - alleluyah). Anyways sha. . . It's just something we girls do.

Wanna date someone older than u. Not ur age, not one younger than u. Dont wanna date someone in ur class. Probably someone a grade or two above u. Ya know the drill!

not that it's revelant but when I fell in love I didn't know there was such a huge age gap between me and my bestowed, I was attracted to him i suppose, i find my agemates not attractive, infact i think of them as my brothers and not dating material.

hey y'all!!!! sha am just wondering, this is totally off topic but i would like to  knw the correct thing. my english teacher said there was nothin like "matured" he siad it is "mature" all the time bith past and present. i saw a lot of "matured" in this post and i would like pple that knw to tell moi if matured is a correct word to use. really appreciate!

I don't think mature is the correct word to use, we have different definitions of the word mature for instance, what I might percieve as being mature might be childish to somebody else and viceversa

@luvlymoi
it is mature not matured someone cant stop being mature. it is a continuous process.

diddy4:

@luvlymoi
it is mature not matured someone can't stop being mature. it is a continuous process.

thanks!! so i ve been rite all this while!!

yeah hun, you have.

Maturity is really really important but for me i cant date someone am older than. my ex - was 4yrs older than me. So, i think am ok with that.

Never in my life have i gone out with anyone more than 3 years older or 1 year younger than me

classiqkid:

Immaturity that’s it!

thats a fact and also the fact that gurls mature faster than guys!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19068.0.html


imagine the generalizing going on here. dat girls mature faster than guys dont mean that all girls mature faster and that all guys dont mature faster. it is a damn stereotype.

lmao @ diddy, not steorotyping but a mare Fact of life!

hey busta baby, click on this link then we can continue our chatting on YIM if u there.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19068.0.html

Busta:

thats a fact and also the fact that girls mature faster than guys!

Yeah your right that is a fact and thats also why I can't stand guyz that are under 18 their never serious

i dont mean 2 cause a debate or sumtn but i think dats just mere stereotypin.Well thanks 4 contributin tho.Wt i want y'al 2 know is dt a guy of 17 can be more mature dn a man of 23.So where does d maturity come in?

classiqkid:

Yeah your right that is a fact and thats also why I can't stand guys that are under 18 their never serious

.I believe maturity is a thing of d mind not the age.

I believe maturity is a thing of d mind not the age.