Can you ever forgive your girlfriend if she confess to you that she cheated on you with her Ex?can you marry such a girl?It happened to a friend and he needs my advice!!!

ask her to Hit the free way. I don't think I'd forgive the person I LOVE for cheating on Me, it's wrong, the feeling of being cheated on is really bad and the only way I could get over the ordeal is when I break up and move on.

no

yes.

Nah son she still likes her ex duhh , exes should remain exes , cut her ass offffff EARLY.

Hi guys and dolls

This is a good thread i hope some people don't come dropping stupid posts to this, it would be interesting if lots of guys gave an honest answer to this thread.

I made the above comment because i have experienced that guys find it difficult to forgive for pride, ego whatever. My best friend was in a situation and was unable to make the right choice thereby cheating on her boyfriend of 3yrs, i know he worshipped the ground she walked on and she loved him too,but he refused to forgive her, he still loves her but won't give their relationship another chance. One of his reasons was pride.

What say you fellas?

She is cut the fact that its her ex is very symbolic.

Lahlaxza

Symbolic of what babes?

Symbolic of the fact that, she has unresolved feelings for her ex and she is putting the feelings of the new guy at risk by not being completely honest with him in the first place.Thats dishonest and irresponsible.Two qualities i cant stand in a girl.

ummm, u see, i will forgive her but let her bare in mind i will do back. so she will feel the hurt and basically forgive me. if she doesnt then its over.

to eer is human to revenge fucking divine.

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Symbolic of the fact that, she has unresolved feelings for her ex and she is putting the feelings of the new guy at risk by not being completely honest with him in the first place.Thats dishonest and irresponsible.

Ah! gotcha


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hey dolls (xoxoxo)

no i wont

nope

i Could never ever forgive a guy if he ever did that to me

yes, if u have the spirit of forgiveness but in terms of marriage, u gotta search ursef if thats wat u really wanna do

first of all,if ur BF keep cheatin on u with his EX,dat means he still gat something for her and u're prolly just like a REBOUND girl or something, he might leave u for her if she wants him back, u gatta look deep into dat
but on d oda hand,it might just be a mistake or a situation u he couldnt help.u know guys are HORRIBLE at controling demselves,  but u cant make d same mistake twice cos if u do den its no more considered a mistake, u just still want some of ur EX's and her bootie,
MARRIAGE!!! huh, i dont know abt dat
but i might forgive him tho,pendin on how many times and how often he did mess wit her

It's quite difficult, because i've put so much to sustain the relationship for three years. What gives me the assurance that she would not do the same thing again. It's really disturbing; it might even have psychological effect, but i would still talk to her to know why she did that. The truth is that she still have hidden feelings for her Ex and, i may never trust her again, but i would forgive her. I will let her go and start all over. Though it's difficult but it's worth it than continuing in a relationship where there's no trust.

It's quite difficult, because i've put so much to sustain the relationship for three years. What gives me the assurance that she would not do the same thing again. It's really disturbing; it might even have psychological effect, but i would still talk to her to know why she did that. The truth is that she still have hidden feelings for her Ex and, i may never trust her again, but i would forgive her. I will let her go and start all over. Though it's difficult but it's worth it than continuing in a relationship where there's no trust.

no cos if he's done it b4, y can't he do it again

iice na ur style wey i like.if en no want again make he kuku say.then i go find my way.i dont think i'lld ever forgive d guy even if i do,we would annul d relationship

My friend told me,his Girlfriend one pastor told her to go and settle with the ex,that the Ex is using her spirit,that the only way she can break free from him by sleeping with him!!!
But all these,the lady confessed her self to her boyfriend which is my friend.the guy is now confused ,that she told him herself and begging him for forgiveness,that she did it for her spiritual reason.what can he do now?

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My friend told me,his Girlfriend one pastor told her to go and settle with the ex,that the Ex is using her spirit,that the only way she can break free from him by sleeping with him!!!
But all these,the lady confessed her self to her boyfriend which is my friend.the guy is now confused ,that she told him herself and begging him for forgiveness,that she did it for her spiritual reason.what can he do now?

Only in Nigeria

As long as he is a boyfriend, slept with his ex, he will be my ex immediately, he become history the moment i know about it.

as for me i'll find it very difficult if my bf should cheat on me with his ex. let's just say that would be the end of the relationship.

well it depends,, if the girl fils sorry
and intensionally opened up to you
i think that implies that she still loves you and that is why she is tryin to be transparent with u.

what if she decide not to tell you oor sshe did nt want you to know is there a posibitlity of u knowin

really this does nt mean that she does nt have to delt with
but as you all know there are diff ways of dealin with a girl dat is if she loves you

that it every thing depends on her approach
what lead to the confesion

undecided

i was at the cinemas to pick up my girl after work one friday night, when i met my bestfriends girl friend with some other guy at the galleria.
they stayed and watched a late night movie, and she even slept in the guys place.

prior to that time she told her guy she was going to get a textbook from a friend on the island.
well she felt i wud tell on her when i saw my friend, which i dint do,
but she went ahead and called her guy and said we met at the galleria.

when he asked her what she was doing she said they all went for a celebration. mind u i saw just her and this other guy.

now she makes it look like i said what i dint. they still habgout though, but i know better.

i can never forgive such lieing cheat of a girlfriend.

yes.