If thaat happens during marriage it's a different story altogether but if happens during courtship there is a feeling of mistrust that can NEVER be taken away, I cant live with that so I'm off. Dont want to keep looking over my back

@Eurphoria
What u should understand is that no guy can actually stand his girl cheating with another guy, be it his ex or not. Men are naturally jealous, though there's always an exception to every rule.
Women can always forgive cos its literally a man's world(no offense intended).
I'd rather my girl cheat with another girl than with a guy.

she'll be m ;Dy next ex!

Well you said she confessed, She wasnt caught.Well here is my reasoning, confessing a sin means forsaking it.I think i will have loved to forgive her if i were your friend.But It still depends, You Know.

Well you said she confessed, She wasnt caught.Well here is my reasoning, confessing a sin means forsaking it.I think i will have loved to forgive her if i were your friend.But It still depends, You Know.

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No. Women tend to have more control over their urges than men do, so unless her ex was dieing, she shouldn't have gone there.

I did forgive once and she did it again. An adulterous woman will never change.

theres to many women in this world to stick with someone who disrespects u by stepping out on you with another guy. Tell her to hit the road. Even if im married for 30 years and someone cheat on me, its the end. Cos you wouldnt do that so someone u claim to love

i'll have to orgive her, but one thing there is dat she shouldn't come around me again coz i don wanna figure out that event in ma mind anymore, so she should just gerrout

of course i'll 4give her, but d r/s is over,
children who cant control their lust feelings dont need r/s

I have a friend who is almost runing mad because of this. But in his own case he is married and do not deserve what his wife is doing to him cos he loves her to a fault. He also needs help cos he can't get it off his mind. Kindly visit https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-315167.0.html

He needs your help.

My advice to you depends on how important she is to your life. If you truely love her, I don't c why you shouldn't give her a second chance. ANd if you don't trust her anymore then send her away in a gentlemanly way without stress.

Fair enough she confess. What if not?

My ex did i forgave her n we continued but she spoilt the whole show by tellin me the relationship will nvr graduate to marriage. I sensed this and immediately I broke it.
@post , u can forgive her.d truth is dat its very difficult to erase exs especially in ladies lives cos they don't recover so quickly from a broken relationship. I pray my next will nt still be in love with her ex 

My friend told me,his Girlfriend one pastor told her to go and settle with the ex,that the Ex is using her spirit,that the only way she can break free from him by sleeping with him!!!
But all these,the lady confessed her self to her boyfriend which is my friend.the guy is now confused ,that she told him herself and begging him for forgiveness,that she did it for her spiritual reason.what can he do now?

Tell the lady that the spiritual cleansing is not complete until she bleeps all the guy in NL, Odey

Hehehehehehe

obaf:
Can you ever forgive your girlfriend if she confess to you that she cheated on you with her Ex?can you marry such a girl?It happened to a friend and he needs my advice!!!

Sad

zaragoza:
@Eurphoria
What u should understand is that no guy can actually stand his girl cheating with another guy, be it his ex or not. Men are naturally jealous, though there's always an exception to every rule.
Women can always forgive cos its literally a man's world(no offense intended).
I'd rather my girl cheat with another girl than with a guy.

Oh really?!

I hv nothing to say in dix post, I don't even know why I commented

As long as you are not married yet you can forgive her but start to protect yourself (from stds) and your heart ,for me she will have to do something extra ordinary to make me marry her if she is smart she will walk away on her own or convince me beyond reasonable doubt . Sometimes uncontrollable situations make women step outside (mostly financial ). Then on the other hand sometimes it is their wake up call and she will know how to handle situations that can push her to cheat again .

zaragoza:
@Eurphoria
What u should understand is that no guy can actually stand his girl cheating with another guy, be it his ex or not. Men are naturally jealous, though there's always an exception to every rule.
Women can always forgive cos its literally a man's world(no offense intended).
I'd rather my girl cheat with another girl than with a guy.

yes no doubt but it is what it is . This things are inevitable for a lot of ladies in naija when they are not yet married that is just the way it is except she is a virgin

Bitches will still go back after confession. They all leeches!

9ja4lyfe:
theres to many women in this world to stick with someone who disrespects u by stepping out on you with another guy. Tell her to hit the road. Even if im married for 30 years and someone cheat on me, its the end. Cos you wouldnt do that so someone u claim to love

You are a real Gee!. These women are all the same.