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Time and time again the question as to how “serious” an offence is cheating has been asked. In the Nigerian society where a lot of women are not financially capable of adequately providing for themselves and their children without the support of the major breadwinner AKA their husbands, there is little choice in the matter. You hear things like “he is just being a man” and “as long as he provides for me and the kids” or “After all I am the one he comes back home to everyday”.

So let’s ask the question, how serious of an offence is cheating? Is it just “I don’t feel anything for her it was just fun” or “you know it’s you I love, you are my number one” etc. since this is about my opinions I would tell you what is means to me for someone to cheat.

Firstly, it means that they have consciously put you at risk of contracting an STD. Don’t give me that story about condoms like they are 100% safe. I know a lot of people believe this. In fact someone once said to me that she does not know of any responsible men who do not ware condoms to cheat. Responsible and cheat in the same sentence? What is this world becoming? Oh and please let us know when they have condoms for the mouth because a lot of STD’s can be contracted with the mouth.

Secondly, I simply don’t mean that much to you. I wise man once said “do not gamble with what you cannot afford to lose”. You taking a gamble with our relationship and thinking its OK means you can afford to lose us and I really should not be with you.

Lastly, what does that say about you as a person? People a wired in a way that their attitude to one thing is most likely the way they look all other things in life. If you can Cheat in one area of your life why not others? Just saying that cheating can give you an insight about the kind of person you are.
Source:me

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Ayam lost here# still can't get a clear picture of the OP's post.

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