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Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Ishilove: 11:58am On Aug 31, 2014 |
3cycle:She's a fool. No wonder the man is using her as a footmat. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 12:02pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Gbam! Society and I are in opposite direction. As you see me so, I rock my world. Society cannot dictate rubbish to me. I'm an adult for God's sake. It takes a really stubborn woman with self esteem to stick to what she wants and get it. thats the ish. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by cococandy(f): 12:08pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Nigerian culture. Presently I know a couple undergoing a divorce. The oldest of their four kids is just 13 and a girl. The man is insisting on taking the kids. Not that he can raise them or give the budding daughter the attention a pubescent girl needs from an older female. No he's not even going to let them live with him because his new wife-to-be doesn't want that. But he's just trying to prove his 'manhood' by showing the woman that he's the man and can take the kids from her. So he's taking them and dumping them with his mother their grandmother to raise. I asked and the answer I got is that little kids or not,the guy decides what to do with the kids. It doesn't matter if they are tender and in need of their mother or not. It is their culture. Ishilove: |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Isiterere(m): 12:22pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
3cycle:then it's wickedness, I don't think there is any love in the marriage ALL IZZ WELL |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by sucobaba(m): 12:24pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Its easy to blame men for all our woes when we women enable it.Deliciously truthful...i totally enjoyed myself.Kudos |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Isiterere(m): 12:27pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
3cycle:I disagree , she should have obey the husband by not taken her bath or simply go to Neighbor's house to fetch water (she could have lied that, there own pumping machine is bad ) ALL IZZ WELL |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Isiterere(m): 12:33pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
3cycle:pls op , change the title of this thread to " Man sent MAID/SLAVE packing for taken her bath . I wonder when some women will start setting and getting their priority right ALL IZZ WELL 4 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by crackhaus: 12:57pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:@emboldened...was someone making you question your maturity before? 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by arck1: 1:03pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Hearing/reading/seeing this type of shits always make me wonder why people get married every saturday Marriage is scary 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by sucobaba(m): 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness: OK.OBJECTION OVER-RULED...Hmmm *adjust spectacle and nods in affirmative* go on defence counsel,i love it when cases are dual-carriage and multi-faced. Lol...loving this 3 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
crackhaus: Nope. I said so because i'm trying to emphasize on why every one of us have choices to make based on what makes us happy or whatever suits us and not by what the society dictates. when making decisions as regards marriage, do you know that many people forget they are adults? 4 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by crackhaus: 1:41pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:The intense feelings and emotions experienced by some people who're so in love with each other can make them forget they're adults. Okay that was way off-point, I was just teasing you with my question though... |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 1:46pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
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Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by crackhaus: 1:48pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
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Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by SAMBARRY: 2:03pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
cococandy: Haha. I know. I was saying from a woman's POV.i am with you on this 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by PassingShot(m): 2:11pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness: OK. This is really annoying to read! Even with all your "could it be's", no sane man should have to humiliate his wife that way. You don't even have to treat your house help like that. It's a sign of weakness on the part of the man. 10 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by SAMBARRY: 2:21pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:I feel you o jare 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: I feel you o jare 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Its easy to blame men for all our woes when we women enable it.I love you madam Aisha. You are always on point. |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Afam4eva(m): 3:56pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Where did she see the ogbanje husband in the first place. I think women are to blame for putting themselves in such a precarious situation. It's not like she didn't see a trait of wickedness in the man before she got married but she wanted to get married all the same because all her friends were getting married. As if marriage is a solution to every problem. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by 5minsmadness: 7:30pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
PassingShot:Some women can drive men to do bizzaire and insane things. It has been happening since the dawn of time. Also I'm curious to know how its a sign of weakness. And what would be a sign of strength? I'm asking from a purely curious standpoint. |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by SAMBARRY: 8:38pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness:sign of weakness means he's not man enough to be a man.EOD! mods come and lock this thread. Some of the post I am reading here is unbelievable. I can't believe some supposed human beings will stoop so low to type insane and inconsiderate things 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by hensben(m): 8:39pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: I am sooo disgusted by some comments here. Chai!! Men of the same kind will always defend themselves. I am not surprised that the issue would be dragged on to blame the woman as usual. Barbaric caveman mindset!! Really, ladies must do well to avoid men with poverty of the mind walai! Men who behave like this are those who have been so poverty stricken for soooo many years such that they become sadists!! And when they manage to get lucky to hit riches, their barbarism increases by 100. No wonder ladies avoid poor men. The many years of poverty and suffering does no good to the thought process of a human.thank you for insulting poor men but are all ladies rich?...stop generalizing, not all poor men are like that, even rich men behave that way too....madam, marriage is all about companionship and God Intervention if you are a christian. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by 5minsmadness: 8:55pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: sign of weakness means he's not man enough to be a man.EOD!I agree with you on the bolded. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by hensben(m): 9:09pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Let me first offer some insight on the water pumping situation. For security reasons he water is connected to one apartment in a shared compound. In my former house it was connected to mine, I had to give the security man a spare key so when I am not around water can be pumped, once he lost the key and I travelled, my neighbours were stranded till I came back and they couldnt break my door down, so they had to go 2 weeks without water and I was unreachable.my sis. you have not just knowledge but wisdom inclusive. |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by baralatie(m): 9:11pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: sign of weakness means he's not man enough to be a man.EOD!you have not answered the question. what is "weakness of a man as different from the strength" 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by PassingShot(m): 9:13pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
5minsmadness: It's a weakness that he could not handle the issue with civility and also unable to behave rationally in times of anger and adversity. Remember the saying that says that the true measure of a man is not what he does in times of comfort but what he does when faced with dire situations. There is another that advises not to take any decision when angry or else the outcome will be disastrous. No matter how the case is viewed, sending your wife parking for any reason other than infidelity and some other unimaginable offences cannot be justified. For crying out loud she is his partner and not his dog because you shouldn't even treat your help that way. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by free2ryhme: 10:00pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Mynd44: I find it more disturbing that the woman wants to beg him..... Ofcourse she will beg since doesnot have a job or earn a good salary to sustain herself. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Amhappy(f): 10:28pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
I guess she is the man's wife and kid too. Thats how my dad do treat us when we are little. He rations the quantity of milk for tea,omo to wash,food stuffs and pocket money for the week/month etc. Well my dad no ration water join ooo. @OP That woman is in soup. One of my older friend with 3kids was given 1000 for the month by her husband as he was about to travel. A rich man ooo. She went and borrowed money,when the man returned,he refused to pay and she have no source of income. I think women should try and earn no matter how small. Some men are callous. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by solidman59(m): 11:57pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Nice write up dear, u certainly have a point there but I think ur opinion is one-sided. Therefore, I will tell my guys here to stop marrying silly women too. Don't get me wrong sha, the truth is dat what you've jst talked abt applied to ladies too and I think you failed to point that out. Thanks aisha2: Its easy to blame men for all our woes when we women enable it. |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by Nobody: 4:39am On Sep 01, 2014 |
solidman59: Nice write up dear, u certainly have a point there but I think ur opinion is one-sided. Therefore, I will tell my guys here to stop marrying silly women too. Don't get me wrong sha, the truth is dat what you've jst talked abt applied to ladies too and I think you failed to point that out. solidman59: Nice write up dear, u certainly have a point there but I think ur opinion is one-sided. Therefore, I will tell my guys here to stop marrying silly women too. Don't get me wrong sha, the truth is dat what you've jst talked abt applied to ladies too and I think you failed to point that out. The truth is that even a drunk man will have standards when it comes to choosing a wife. You find a man with a long list of attributes in a wife he is looking for no matter how he himself is he will tell you which of the girls he is dating is good for marriage and which is not. It is the women who seem to be allergic to having standards. You will see a supposedly smart put together woman who just wants a husband, she can be picky about her shoes, clothes bags etc but she is willing to accept any kind of man just to be someone's wife because all her mates are married, or her parents are forcing her to marry. Over the years we have emotionally blackmailed women into not having standards, we tell them that they are choosy and will end up frustrated spinsters, so women have no conditioned their mind to grab any man even with no tangible husbandish character just so they can be considered married with the hope of changing himwhich normally totally fails. My message is for women to have and stick to standards and not allow fear and desperation make them make bad choices anymore. No one should marry a silly spouse male or female 5 Likes |
Re: Husband Sends Wife Packing For having Her Bath. by pickabeau1: 6:33am On Sep 01, 2014 |
On the contrary in my experience women have the highest standards. They don't date ordinary people as they call it Women are naturally hypergamous..how many women marry gatemen or bricklayers? Your point will come to be when the woman has no other options and she has to settle You are making women out to be hapless victims saying they have no standards...lol How many women will marry a conductor I think you r being economical with the realities of life aisha2: |
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