Sparrow13: Thats why Rev. Fr. Don't marry.

but dey f*uck right?

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

keep shut sultan of sokoto has divorce. D imam in my area just divorced recently. D list goes on mehn.. Infact muslim clerics divorce more only dat there is no piblicity stunt

tbaba1234:

You who believe, it is not lawful for you to inherit women against their will, nor should you treat your wives harshly, hoping to take back some of the bride-gift you gave them, unless they are guilty of something clearly outrageous. Live with them in accordance with what is fair and kind: if you dislike them, it may well be that you dislike something in which God has put much good [ Quran 4 19-20]

na to practice am be the wahala.

stonemind:
Allahu Akbar

Why did mohamid marry his son's daughter?
Both Christianity and Islam are scams

don't know o, dey say dat she wants to divorce him because he doesn't have time for the family, will divorce solve the problem? I don't know o ,

Yeye story of Chris and Anita. Only the useless members of their church can read this from beginning to end...

God hates putting away. May our God of peace calm the raging evil storm in this family. husband and wife are meant to live together no matter the circumstances. Please let us all learn form the fatal marriage/family mistakes this duo has made. For those couples that live apart because of work, please look for immediate solution. when the hedge is broken.....the serpent bites.

pjosh1: How e take concern me or are they the first couple on earth to divorce?

i concern me well well ooo. We are talking of pple whose influence cd make or mar young christian couples.

First, i am not interested in whatever their problem is but on the word of God.

Are we still brethren by Rev Chidi Okoroafor is one message dat wd remain evergreen. And i ask Pastor Chris and Anita, are we still brethren?


Husbands, love ur wives even as Christ love the church. Pastor measure ur love for ur wife and weigh it with the love of Christ for the church.

Wives, submit to ur husband, pastor Anita, hv u scored urself on this.

Now even if any of u is the evil doer, what abt Gods word, 'pursue' peace with all men. How hv u tried. Heaven is real!

I hate divorce says the Lord of Host. Is it now proper to do what GOD HATES?

I was hoping to read how Pastor has 'pursued' peace, where Anita has done the Abigail virtue. OMG

how terrible it feels to see supposed matured christians drag the love of Christ to mud.

Whatever their grieviances, it ought not to hv become a public debate.
What are they teaching the church. So sad.

Don't let these 2 multi millionaire fool us . Both of them know what happened ,and the reason they both went seperate ways. How can a woman keep quiet for 16 solid years with such treatment? Silence means consent. And why will a man allow his wife to live away from him for 16yrs if not that she agrees? Can 2 work together if they don't agree? The arrangement was done and agreed by both parties but maybe things somehow have gotten out of hand and the most possible is that Chris may now have children outside wedlock .this may be the reason why anita is angry and saying if I have kept my own bargain and u haven't keept urs then let's split. They got married in uk I think which means anitta will receive huge sums of money if the divorce scales through ,don't be fooled all this drama may even be to whip chris back into line . In the game of life 2 plus 2 doesn't always equal to 4

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

What kind of comment is this. In that case the story will be pastor marries second wife or pastor beheads wife for bringig dishonour.

Beckybeky: So what exactly is she driving at?

I think she needs her husband by her side like any normal married woman.

mikeywise:
please, i need enlightenment from the bolded, thank you in advance.

what kind of enlightenment, sir?

Are you Frank Edward?

tlops:

What kind of comment is this. In that case the story will be pastor marries second wife or [s]pastor beheads wife for bringig dishonour.[/s]

Not part of Islam.

CHINEKE , AFI IGBA TI ASHIRU TU PO o .

PastorAji: alabajooooooooooooooooooooooo

No wonder he said SELF_SERVICE aka MAASSTTAAARRBBAASSHOONN is not a SIN

i swear

tbaba1234:

Not part of Islam.

Ok...

But the solution to this marital problem could hv been the reflection of the knowledge of the bible which the two parties preach.(God coming in between them to solve their problem privately)i think their religious growth is enough to guild them than creating avenue for the public to come in.we need to be practical here.now how can I truth religious preaching,hence the teaching does not reflect positively on the activities of the tutor .. can sence fallacies

Fourwinds: kai danboroba. wana kitten ama koboko froblem ne. pastor wana gindadi

Mai ka ke rubutawa?

It is sad to see such unglorify things happening to clerics. The effect of the crisis between Rev. Chris & Rev. Anita on their members will certainly make the ungrounded go astray and Jesus Christ will not be happy for this. This is a trial period for the couple. Let all faithful Christians join voices in prayer for Rev. Chris & Rev. Anita that God should see them through and give them absolute victory. This is not the time to castigate. I am sure a lot of people dont know them, so why do you judge? .
I pray that God should minister to both of them in His words of life.
These Bible references will bring back the stolen joy in their home in Jesus name. Amen.
Coll. 3 : 19; 1Cor.7 : 1- 40; Heb.13 : 4; 1Cor.13 : 1-13; Eph.5 : 25-28; 1Peter3 : 1; 1Peter5 : 7. At the end God name shall be Glorified

ndidibabe: Yeye story of Chris and Anita. Only the useless members of their church can read this from beginning to end...

too harsh

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

But not in marriage.
And they will find a verse in the bible to back it up. Many are called, but few are choosen.

abeg you stop defending the woman, she has already made up her mind. here is the latest gist about their divorce palava

Speaking with Premium Times through her lawyers, Mrs
Oyakhilome said her relationship with her husband had
terribly degenerated that there is no room for any
reconciliation or out-of-court settlement. ...continue http://pakogirl..com.es/2014/09/no-going-back-on-divorcing-chris.html?m=1

This is it, I always said it, all these spiritual fraudsters like oyakilomeh, adeboye, oyedepo will all be exposed with time, their women are starting to speak up and like a pack of cards all the false prophets come tumbling down!!!

Did I see "white house" somewhere, along the line?

( a typical scene that happens out of ignorance)


woGO-wife of G.O
G.O- general overseer



wife:- honey we need you at home, i need you. (almost weeps as her husband packs his diary and other important files, dragging his not properly worn shoes till he sits and wears it) u are always busy, busy busy. Today oklahoma, tomorrow, its beijing, frankfurt, solomon's island, krakov, and yet you dont have a full week with us. Your kids wouldnt know why you do this.


G.O: woman, i am a Big man of God. I have to approve, ordain and deliver as the Spirit leads me. I would have time for you this coming Easter, but this is paramount- "winning souls for God's kingdom" (puts on tie as a soft knock is heard on his door) dont let the devil use you to ruin my ministry.


Wife: hmm which devil. Youre a father and you ought to do your duty to your family 1st.


G.O: (buttons sleeves annoyingly) later woman. (he rushes out as his next trip is to new zealand. He must meet the minister's meeting)


(the above is entirely fictional and should not be taken so so serious)

Even the high Priest in the Bible had weeks off to attend to his family. If the above accusation against the pastor 'in white suits' aka Pastor Chris, is true, then i concur its typical of 'big men of God'


even Apostle Peter had time for family- all my point is based on if the above is true!

texaco1: Don't let these 2 multi millionaire fool us . Both of them know what happened ,and the reason they both went seperate ways. How can a woman keep quiet for 16 solid years with such treatment? Silence means consent. And why will a man allow his wife to live away from him for 16yrs if not that she agrees? Can 2 work together if they don't agree? The arrangement was done and agreed by both parties but maybe things somehow have gotten out of hand and the most possible is that Chris may now have children outside wedlock .this may be the reason why anita is angry and saying if I have kept my own bargain and u haven't keept urs then let's split. They got married in uk I think which means anitta will receive huge sums of money if the divorce scales through ,don't be fooled all this drama may even be to whip chris back into line . In the game of life 2 plus 2 doesn't always equal to 4

The cause of the Higgi haggi is the sharing arrangement. One party the dull the other one.
It's shows they have not been practicing what they preached. They both should hide thier head in shame most especially Chris.

King of glory let your peace reign in this home. Let every spirit of divorce be broken in IJN AMEN

In the wake of the divorce proceedings between Chris and Anita Oykahilome, there have various reports by church
members of the Christ Embassy International. The latest is from a founding church member, Cyla Simpson who took
to the controversial Facebook page to talk about the Anita Oyakhilome. According to her, ” I am writing this to
everyone with a heavy heart. It is heart wrenching to see the way people are referring to Rev Anita and how
uncultured people are while talking. You don’t need to be derogatory or condescending to express yourself no matter
your level as a christian. First I would join true Christians around the world to appeal to Rev Anita but would say
listen to God rather than man.

“I want to appeal to everyone to please pause and think deep because whatever a man sow, he shall surely reap. This
is like beating a child like Ibo elders will say and still take the tears from the child. Take a step aside and think. Is
there a woman who will give up her home on flimsy excuse, if no why are we so callous and insensitive in this
matter. I am a married woman and so are many reading this, or you have a mother, a sister or daughter. If you are
happy for them to go through whatever brought Rev Anita to this level please continue with your judgemental
approach towards her. And the God of truth will visit everyone with same except if there was no cause. Amen!!!
“I have read some accusing her of money and power motivation. PLEASE LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT THE PASTOR
ANITA I KNOW AS MOST OF YOU YOUNG ONES IN NIGERIA DO NOT HAVE MUCH OF AN ENCOUNTER WITH HER.
Rev Anita has been my pastor for about 13 years now. I am one of the founding members of her church and I have
seen her grow a church from using all any available venue while planting more churches in faith sending her best
member out to start a new church, from two churches in England has grown to churches in almost every borough and
cities. Rev Anita will see anyone and everyone regardless of your status.

“If she ever kept you waiting, she will apologise profusely throughout the meeting and make it good to you. Rev Anita
without an office will still counsel us even in her car on Wednesday night after church yet she has 1hour 30mins drive
back home with 2 young girls. For so long she was driving a volkswagon golf until 2005 that we bought her a BMW
X3 and she still refused to drive it for many months until she was begged to use it so that we can be blessed. She
used the same car until 2010/2011 and the replacement she had then is still what she used till her last day in church
last year.

“We begged her to come around for us to celebrate her birthday but she will still go into hiding. On her return the
little song we will do for her, she will return it to Rev Chris in thanksgiving. Any money you give her she sends it
straight to church account or Loveworld TV. If we ever raise money for her birthday she ask us to go and use it for
evangelism or send it to Loveworld TV. When you give her any material thing, regardless of the shop you purchased it,
she will use it for you to see and thank you as long as she sees you for the gift.

“At Christmas, while service was on up to 2013 christmas she will give almost everyone in church gift. Foodstuff will
be dropped at your side as service. She will specially take care of the elderly, help you settle down when you arrive in
the country. No barren left without children as she will make it her project until it happens. So how come people came
up with this terrible accusation. You accused her of being rude to some CEC members. Wow. This is wicked. First for
so long, she was the Vice President and others have other positions. I thought husband and wife are one.

“She raised 2 girls in this society and the 2 girls are admirable, humble, down-to-earth children. They are children
not a reflection of the home they grew. Pastor Chris was not around. He came to our church on Fathers’ Day
sometimes ago and he told us one of the daughters’ requested for it as her birthday gift – how touching and how she
treasures her dad’s presence. She could ask for material thing but she asked for his presence and we all are here
judging them. I remember these girls will politely beg me to allow them carry my baby and they will play with him
and when they bring him back, they will thank me for letting them carry him and I’m surprised because I should thank
them for helping me. And they do same to other mothers in the mothers’ area where we sit in church. Is it not what
they saw their mum do, they are not class-freak.

“I remember that visit of Pastor, Rev Tom talking said we may not value what we have. That she is the grace in the
CEC. If they all condemn someone, she will see a good reason to embrace the person and she has always been right.
Rev Chris said at one IPPC that most changes we see here in the mini op u want to destroy their marriage..marriage is for better for worse

iebanehita: researchQ, I believe the Facebook page you got this story has a link?

Before passing judgement, we need to hear the other side of the story. What has Pastor Chris or whoever is coming up for his defence has to say about it?

All fingers are pointing at Pastor Chris, as if he is the devil's incarnate.

No matter how much they paint Rev Anita as a saint, she must sure has some fault in this divorce saga.

You ever came across the word 'HAVE'

peteregwu: I DONT KNOW WHY SOME PEOPLE LOVE UNREASONABLE AND CHILDISH COMMENTS AT TIMES. IF DONT WHAT TO SAY THAT IS MORE MATURED, JUST KEEP QUIET AND LEARN. ANYWAY I HAVE THE STORY, ALL SAYING IS THAT DIVORCE IN ANY MARRIAGE IS NOT RIGT AT ALL. IT BRINGS UNFORGIVENESS, LIES, AND BITTERNESS. IT ALSO LEADS INTO ADULTERY. AS BELIEVERS LOVE YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND BECAUSE OF CHRIST. BUT PASTOR CHRIS SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT IN EVERY MISSIONARY WORK, THE WOMAN SHOULD BE BY YOUR SIDE. YOU CANT PUT YOUR WIFE FAR AWAY IN LONDON AND YOU REMAIN IN NIGERIA FOR SO LONG. ANYWHERE YOU ARE AS A PASTOR OR MISSIONARY WORKER, YOUR SHOULD ALWAYS BE BY YOUR SIDE, BODY NO BE FIRE WOOD.

PRIESTS. With their status, they have avoided women and infidelity bruhahaha. Nothing like DIVORCE.
#GULLIBILTY. Its an epidemic worse than the worst case of Ebola.

Long distance is bad for relationships. All the media talk is just salt and pepper. Only Pastor Chris and Anita know the real truth. We outsiders should stop judging people. Nobody except the man, his wife and God know the real story behind this.