iebanehita: researchQ, I believe the Facebook page you got this story has a link?

Before passing judgement, we need to hear the other side of the story. What has Pastor Chris or whoever is coming up for his defence has to say about it?

All fingers are pointing at Pastor Chris, as if he is the devil's incarnate.

No matter how much they paint Rev Anita as a saint, she must sure has some fault in this divorce saga.

Bobby4090:


The Man's residence thats off Opebi street, Ikeja is called "white house". Its big and painted house. While his family have been out for 16 years, the "White house" is being populated by single unclad girls who call themselves church workers and the man is comfortable with that arrangement for reasons best known to him. This was one of the early roots of the divorce case because the man has refused to send them away or rent a place for them even after the wife and his daughters told him to. I was there once December last year, looks like a club house.

leo1234:
Women have no say in Islam.
U can have as much as u want so no need for divorce.

smemud: U don dey craze abi

Bobby4090: The Man should make out time for his family. its as simple as that. How can the man and his family be leaving in two different continents in the name of church programmes. How can Pastor Chris's house thats off Opebi street in ikeja be filled with single and unmarried church girls when his family is begging for his attention. What manner of family and example is that. Does he think its just money that a married woman and kids need to make them happy? They need his affection, his presence, his direction and his leadership. If all these things are lacking then something is wrong somewhere. How can you and your kids leave apart for 16 years and you call yourself a father. Pastor Chris knows whats up and thats why he is happy with the arrangement. All those girls that flock round him and travel with his to different church programmes while his wife is being excluded are very wicked and home breakers. This calls for an intervention of the church leaders please.

ephi123: Serious traffic for Seun / nairaland today, this is the kind of gist Nigerians like to hear. World people

nora544: Pastors Christ has studied Architecture in nigeria not religion, so how he can have a PHD in religion when he didnot study it before but i know the pastors of this nen churches can all preaching religion without study religion.

when you look non of this pastors from this new churches heas realy study religion.

Pastor christ is a fake Pastor and I read what he speaks about his wife. That shows that he hneed her only that he look married.

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

lahit14: Pls mak out time frm time to time as often as possibl to be wit ur family and Bleep ur wife's brain out, its part of her marriage benefits, God will be proud of u

researchQ: Revelation From Anita Oyakilome's Close Friend

- She told Rev Chris that you are such an organised person, you give us almost a full year calendar on Dec 31st of
every year, please put the family in the timetable too. The times you don’t have any engagement, please come home.
I need you and the children need you. Please bear in mind she has been here since 1999 and she was just about 30
years old then as a married woman with 2 children. So for almost 16 years of her marriage, no husband at home for
straight 1 week, no dad at home for the children. No christmas, yet he has party with the staff that we all watch at
Christmas. Even Jesus always withdrew from the crowd to fellowship with his father.

- She asked Rev Chris that on hearing of the immorality, ‘not holding it against you but let all these ladies move out
of White House and go and get houses outside. They are rich enough to buy houses at their place of choice if they
don’t already have one and allow them marry. Who benefits from this choice, is it not everyone? So which is her
offence in this. And Rev Chris did not agree to it. The brothers even said they went to have meeting with him in South
Africa to beg him to at least meet her half-way but he refused. 2 public responses are the emergency Bible study
after their meeting with him titled – Spirit of Error and Spirit of Truth, please flash back at this meeting or relisten to
it and after so much call in the UK for him to produce our mother, he had meeting with our pastors and deacons in
May and it is recorded that many left the meeting weeping for the way he described our mother that some have had
lifetime experience with.”

http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2014/09/why-rev-anita-must-divorce-chris.html

iebanehita: researchQ, I believe the Facebook page you got this story has a link?

Before passing judgement, we need to hear the other side of the story. What has Pastor Chris or whoever is coming up for his defence has to say about it?

All fingers are pointing at Pastor Chris, as if he is the devil's incarnate.

No matter how much they paint Rev Anita as a saint, she must sure has some fault in this divorce saga.

holyfather:

hmmm...
Strong IMMAGINATION you've got,brov

nora544:

From which University did he get his PDH! Pastor chris

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

olumidazz: anita of all people filed a divorce suit against her husband on grounds of adultery, if she was trully christain like she claims she should berry the hatchet and know thay singular act of hers will destroys the ministry of christ

Tallesty1: *and to you naija ladies that reject guys because your pastor says he is not your husband, I hope you have learnt your lesson*

iamord:

Name one islamic cleric u know

bushdoc9919: @OP.

The problem is simple....the couple were not spending quality time together....so they drifted apart.

If you get married....part of the deal is that you spend time with your wife/husband and children from the union....or else things will not end well. Especially spend time with one's children.

Seems Pastor(assuming the OP's tale is true) forgot all about that.

Seun:
I think adultery is the only condition for divorce that is permitted in the bible. As for forgiveness, can that truly happen without repentance?