The "poor" here is not of the measure of a man's pocket but of a standard quality, good quality. When I see some women struggling in their marriage and how beautiful they are, I wonder how they've got themselves into these predicaments. But then, I realised how tough it is for beautiful girls to make up their minds about a man to marry among several suitors and in most cases, the best sweet talking womaniser or best lavish spender wins. And the average not so rich guy with good loving heart and would have make a better husband ends at the losing end.

So what do you think is the cause?

*sighs* No guy is poor or of low quality. The highest naira note we have is 1k so any guy that has it is among the richest here.


Talking bout quality in the sense you presented it here, every guy has a desirable quality and every lady has what she wants in a guy and once she sees a guy that has it, she will automatically stick to him no matter what.

Love, dating and marriage are mysterious, we really can't understand them.

Its the nature of women

Money money money

Tallesty1: *sighs* No guy is poor or of low quality. The highest naira note we have is 1k so any guy that has it is among the richest here.


Talking bout quality in the sense you presented it here, every guy has a desirable quality and every lady has what she wants in a guy and once she sees a guy that has it, she will automatically stick to him no matter what.

Love, dating and marriage are mysterious, we really can't understand them.

No guy is poor (yes) or of low quality (I don't agree)...some men are just not marriage material


All others of what you said is absolutely spot on!

marieolae: Money money money

Yeah...separating women and money is like separating monkey and banana

All women are naturally wealth mongers and men predicament is beauty!

Crocz:

Yeah...separating women and money is like separating monkey and banana

All women are naturally wealth mongers and men predicament is beauty!

yup you got it!

Ejo le fe ro.

Playing too hard to get..

I agree with the poster..

Some of them usually force themselves on the husband with the belief that when he gets married, he will change and stop his bad habits like adultery, drinking and coming home late and battery....... Though there are some marriages where the man hides his true identity until after marriage. But if a lady already saw the danger signals and still went ahead with the marriage, she should be ready to bear the burden.

Sehindemi: Ejo le fe ro.

O ya come back and explain yourself o...fine girl like you go see person like me, you won't marry

Crocz:

O ya come back and explain yourself o...fine girl like you go see person like me, you won't marry

That's what happens when a woman falls in love with money in lieu of virtues and good qualities. But I must admit, some beautiful women end up with rich good quality husbands.

Sehindemi:

Ni bo?...I won't accept that..you must say something o

Such happens anyway.

Crocz:

Ni bo?...I won't accept that..you must say something o

Na force??
I say I no 1 marry!
Infact,

Oh wow Really! I have never met a supposed RICH Man in Nigeria with a suffering wife who is complaining to the world that her husband is not up to standard quality! Where do u meet such women Op?

continue smoking weed op, crap

marieolae: yup you got it!

Monkey bananas






You na no dey learn

fruityjojo: Oh wow Really! I have never met a supposed RICH Man in Nigeria with a suffering wife who is complaining to the world that her husband is not up to standard quality! Where do u meet such women Op?

I never mention wealth there madam

ednut1: continue smoking weed op, crap

Thanks man...I heard that stuff is good for nerves relaxation

Please just define standard quality/good quality then I will know what to say.

Crocz: The "poor" here is not of the measure of a man's pocket but of a standard quality, good quality.

I don't understand,explain what u actually mean here.

priscaoge:
I don't understand,explain what u actually mean here.

In one closest word: "character"

Crocz:

In one closest word: "character"

Ok. Now back to ur question. The character a man exhibits while dating a girl might change once they get married for some certain reasons. You might see something in a beautiful girl which attracted u to her to d extent of marrying her,@ d end of d day u won't see that anymore. It might start affecting ur marriage. A lady who doesn't know d rudiment of Matrimony will find it difficult to run her home without a househelp. Her husband may be the type that doesn't like househelp around. So this will automatically change d man's character towards her.

Some guys that smokes/drinks/Womanize etc may pretend to have stopped those things just to marry her,after marriage he will go back to those habits which the girl will find irritating and once she complains,the man will say that she nags.

This OP is High

priscaoge:
Ok. Now back to ur question. The character a man exhibits while dating a girl might change once they get married for some certain reasons. You might see something in a beautiful girl which attracted u to her to d extent of marrying her,@ d end of d day u won't see that anymore. It might start affecting ur marriage. A lady who doesn't know d rudiment of Matrimony will find it difficult to run her home without a househelp. Her husband may be the type that doesn't like househelp around. So this will automatically change d man's character towards her.

Some guys that smokes/drinks/Womanize etc may pretend to have stopped those things just to marry her,after marriage he will go back to those habits which the girl will find irritating and once she complains,the man will say that she nags.

Hmmm...spot on!