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|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by bukatyne(f): 5:04pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Like I said earlier, this is just on a natural level.
I know God give spouses, kids, and of course preferences.
But again, He knows the best
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Abrilla(f): 5:04pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Travel more and you go see
beeevan: 10 years isn't that bad but I prefer someone closer to my age, 5 years difference is perfect for me.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by bukatyne(f): 5:06pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Odilafta: Personally,I dig older guys lets say from 4 to 10 years older...For a person of my kind,I wouldn't tolerate my age mate because I know the kinda shows "they" run at the supposed age...
I don't think thr older here is like 4yrs, 5yrs etc.
If I remember correctly,people with 5yrs difference are regarded as age mates
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by beeevan: 6:54pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Abrilla: Travel more and you go see
Nope, i prefer to stay where I see something worthy.
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|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by bukatyne(f): 6:59pm On Sep 07, 2014|
See no evil; hear no evil
@Abrilla: do you think it is just the age diffrrence or other factors?
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 7:00pm On Sep 07, 2014|
bellong: Efe and Jenny will always find a way to bring in kpekus to discussion....
Lol! Abeg don't start jor.
moca: Na lie oh!
Babes, we're talking quality over quantity.
Older men know just how to 'handle' their partners and push the right buttons. It takes real expertise for a man to hold off, whilst gradually coaxing, teasing, and bringing his partner with him to the heavens...without 'letting go'. They know just how to take their time and do it 'slowly'.
Most younger dudes are just too into themselves & vain to realise that it's not just about them or what they want. I'm even remembering Jenny's comments about a young, fit, athletic dude with a killer body to die for - who was rushed into her A&E department for cutting his hands or something...but was most concerned about not being able to go to the gym because of his 'injury'.
Jenny, abeg come finish your story
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by beeevan: 7:01pm On Sep 07, 2014|
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Sep 07, 2014|
mako007: you're married?? Wat kinda place is NL, I'm not hitting on nobody again. It's done
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 7:08pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Traitor! You should be covering my back, not throwing me out to
You're even worse than Ile!
Ah Jenny, these 'little' rewards are just the fuel some of us need in order to face hectic weekdays na. Don't begrudge me jare.
Lol! You still remember my shenanigans with sheets? I don learn now. Not everything that glitters is gold. Cotton sheets definitely provided the much needed friction, unlike silk sheets. We can't afford to fall off the bed at our age now, can we?
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 7:15pm On Sep 07, 2014|
chineloSA: Having dated a guy way older than myself, I would NOT advice any young girl to date a very senior guy. I worked for him after University and he gave me a headstart in life, BUT in hindsight, I feel my life could have turned out differently if I dated my age mate.
When we say older men, we aren't referring to men old enough to be our fathers or grandfathers...which seems to be what you've described here...
Ah, but that was describing how it was a couple of generations ago naw...all that grinding, fetching, carrying, cooking, farming, et al...
If I was born then, I most certainly would advocate for a couple more co-wives to help ease the burden sef. (that's where Cococandy and Carefreewannabe go come in handy... ) I probably would have been into pottery / mat making or even been a successful fish seller. Infact, anything to beat farm work.
And yes, older man again it would have been for me too
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 07, 2014|
cococandy: Forehead of life.pros = diencephalon(inbtw each hemisphere) + telencephalon (cerebrum)
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by damiso(f): 9:43pm On Sep 07, 2014|
bukatyne: Like I said earlier, this is just on a natural level.
He sure does
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by bukatyne(f): 9:53pm On Sep 07, 2014|
When you say older, by how many years?
If the wifey is 24 & hubby 29, the hubby is older while techncially her age mate/grade
I saw someone mention 4yrs diff as older men
@what age do you think a lady can marry to put very thing in perspective.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 10:00pm On Sep 07, 2014|
Impossible to say as it really depends on a lot of factors such as the environment in which they find themselves, culture, attitudes, and even the perspectives of the couple involved.
What I can say though is that I'll be hard pressed to believe a lady marrying a man (for the first time), old enough to be her father or grandfather, would be doing so out of 'love'. It just has to be based on finance. My opinion.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by bukatyne(f): 10:04pm On Sep 07, 2014|
When you say older men personally, what age range were you looking at?
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 10:07pm On Sep 07, 2014|
7 - 10 years.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Sep 07, 2014|
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by kilokeys(m): 2:32am On Sep 08, 2014|
female - 14, male -24 ( gross misconduct )
female - 25 male -35 ( perfect)
personally its d wisest decision. u can't have two pple displaying madness at the same time..
scenario of same age couples:
1. laying in bed pinging friends at d same time
2. entertaining fellow agemates as friends (sounds like aa hostel )
3. stupid arguments on which singer is better, wizkid or davido...
and many more rubbish
scenario of a ten-year gap
1. He overlooks her childishness (if she is)
2. She wouldn't wanna displease him (respect)
3. He has better things doing than pinging and lolling and lwkmdying at d dead of d night.
4. they argue less and debate more ( facts are proven in debates)
5. there is something romantic abt seeing a Man older than u trying to flirt and tease and please u when he needs some hmmm. (na babes tell me o)
6. He is most likely more financially stable
7. She is likely to be in her most fertile stage in life.
most importantly.. ill like my lady calling me, daddy.
esp. during the hot sessions.
na with sleep eye i write this post o... views fit xhange when my eye don clear.
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|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EfemenaXY: 9:57am On Sep 08, 2014|
Your crazy but true post!
Lol @ scenario of same age couple lolling, lwkmdying at the dead of night, and displaying madness!
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Mosesnwa(m): 12:15pm On Sep 08, 2014|
The age gap is too far na haba.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by princeonx: 12:16pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Ruthia: i meant 2 say i apprec8 ur response, i'm having d challenge dats y i asked, ur comment was wat i needed.You're having a challenge on who to marry and you think its strangers online/www/NL that will advise you right?
IMO, any man or woman that need advise about who to marry is not old enough to get marry! 10yrs apart or 50yrs apart!
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by valmunich(m): 12:16pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Age is just a number when the love is there
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by oludashmi(f): 12:17pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Would you rather be happy with a matured man that rub pancake and smile in public but be battered by a young guy?
The ball is in your court if numbers matter to you than happiness.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by MrDoGood(m): 12:19pm On Sep 08, 2014|
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 12:20pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Good!!!!!!!! No drama!!!! And if he causes too much drama, you just exhaust the remaining strength he has by doing what you do well. If you know what I mean! I'd make any 'old man' feel like he is twenty years younger. I'm just naughty and playful.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by BizBloke(m): 12:21pm On Sep 08, 2014|
*nodding my head* Great and funny explanations.
At last paragraph, you're right to a very huge extent.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Debbiemma(f): 12:22pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Age is neva an issue in marria,what matters is love
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cheddahboy(m): 12:23pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Marrying before the age of 30 is like leaving the club @ 10 p.m... Story for the gods!!
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by BizBloke(m): 12:25pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Tymax: Honestly, I think 10 years is quite a stretch. The lady in this kind of relationship/marriage is easily manipulated because age difference is a big deal in this part of the world.
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by PastorOluT(m): 12:27pm On Sep 08, 2014|
McWhillion: Why not, my wife to be is still in junior secondary school
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 12:27pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Vewi vewi good cause women fade so quick like that LUX singlets igbo boiz are selling up n down in Nigeria
|Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by BizBloke(m): 12:28pm On Sep 08, 2014|
Ruthia: Is it wrong for a lady to marry a man 10 years older than her? If yes or no please explain.
It may not be objectively wrong - in actuality, it's not. But subjectively, it is.
No matter how old both parties are, I'll still think - somewhere in my freaky head that this old man is child-abusing this young lady. Long sentence short, I can't deal. Still subjectively, I'd prefer getting married to my peer, more like my age mate or...
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