Marriage is for better, for worse and expectedly, it is not always rosy. Marriage comes with its challenges, misunderstandings and disagreements between the spouses. And when such disagreements do come, who do you run to for advice? Would you settle between yourselves or would you take it to a third party, especially your spouse’s boss? What would you do if your spouse reports you to your boss?
I will scold him for being childish

LilNetty: Marriage is for better, for worse and expectedly, it is not always rosy. Marriage comes with its challenges, misunderstandings and disagreements between the spouses. And when such disagreements do come, who do you run to for advice? Would you settle between yourselves or would you take it to a third party, especially your spouse’s boss? What would you do if your spouse reports you to your boss?
I will scold him for being childish

Don't even know what I can do sha bt it's very annoying, stupid and childish. thats why it's advice able to marry very matured men that can handle situations. work should be at work and home should remain at home. thats why most women don't talk about work or don't introduce their spouse to their boss.

Reporting me to my boss by my spouse means my boss is not just my boss in the office sense but has a lot of influence over me even outside work. I would most likely listen to his advice if that's the case. But if my boss has no influence on my private life then this my spouse go hear am cos she's now inviting a new third party into our relationship.

perry2020:
Don't even know what I can do sha bt it's very annoying, stupid and childish. thats why it's advice able to marry very matured men that can handle situations. work should be at work and home should remain at home. thats why most women don't talk about work or don't introduce their spouse to their boss.

There are times when even matured men act childish .

Elantracey:


There are times when even matured men act childish .

Yeah very true bt it's stupid.if it were u,what would you do.

perry2020:
Yeah very true bt it's stupid.if it were u,what would you do.

I don't have a definite answer o , but I will ask him first why he had to do that rubbish , there's a lot to deduce from that action .

Elantracey:


I don't have a definite answer o , but I will ask him first why he had to do that rubbish , there's a lot to deduce from that action .

It depends on my mood sha,and the manner of approach my boss made.

perry2020:
It depends on my mood sha,and the manner of approach my boss made.

and it also depends on the gender of my boss and the relationship between them .

Elantracey:

and it also depends on the gender of my boss and the relationship between them .

Which mature man will report his wife to her boss? It is only a childish man that will do that. No matter how troublesome a woman is; it is how a man still finds his way around it that shows that he knew what he was doing before marrying the woman. As for me, I may not be able to entrust some personal matters into the hand of such a man again because I know he will not handle them properly. A man’s intelligence is not determined by what he possesses but by how he handles situations and his domestic affairs.
Home and office lives should be separated

Elantracey:

and it also depends on the gender of my boss and the relationship between them .

Yeah,true doe,very important.bt no matter the relationship or sex does it warrant him to do such??i see it as an insult.

LilNetty: Which mature man will report his wife to her boss? It is only a childish man that will do that. No matter how troublesome a woman is; it is how a man still finds his way around it that shows that he knew what he was doing before marrying the woman. As for me, I may not be able to entrust some personal matters into the hand of such a man again because I know he will not handle them properly. A man’s intelligence is not determined by what he possesses but by how he handles situations and his domestic affairs.
Home and office lives should be separated

I love your comment,whats the probability he hasn't even been telling his friends,pastors,colleagues etc about everything that goes on in your household.

perry2020:
Yeah,true doe,very important.bt no matter the relationship or sex does it warrant him to do such??i see it as an insult.

of course its an insult but being paranoid won't help the issue self , I don't even want to imagine it.

LilNetty: Which mature man will report his wife to her boss? It is only a childish man that will do that. No matter how troublesome a woman is; it is how a man still finds his way around it that shows that he knew what he was doing before marrying the woman. As for me, I may not be able to entrust some personal matters into the hand of such a man again because I know he will not handle them properly. A man’s intelligence is not determined by what he possesses but by how he handles situations and his domestic affairs.
Home and office lives should be separated

None but what if they are best friends and the matter was too pressing on his shoulders and decided to talk to him about it ?

Nothing, cos d lord says, everything happens 4 a reason... If I hear, I go mix her wen we reach house ehh...

ehnn ehn... wont happen!