rokiatu: is the story yours?

evegran: . By ignoring her. Simple! Ignore her enough till she gets miserable and even realizes her faults and then she'd even apologize or try to reach out to you. Its far better than beating her up. For me, if you beat me- ill use whatever I see and hit you back, I will not stand and be beaten. Ignoring me- always works. Cause later, I get sober and reflect and then see my wrongs if I'm at fault that is. Ps: See why couples should court before marriage. Spend time understanding each other before jumping into marriage, courtship creates time to understand and know how to deal with each other. . You're welcome!

Not every woman likes being ignored...
I hope you know that too

majekdom2: OK ... pls invite me when you are getting married. since you can tell which man has got brains and which has not.

evegran: . By ignoring her. Simple! Ignore her enough till she gets miserable and even realizes her faults and then she'd even apologize or try to reach out to you. Its far better than beating her up. For me, if you beat me- ill use whatever I see and hit you back, I will not stand and be beaten. Ignoring me- always works. Cause later, I get sober and reflect and then see my wrongs if I'm at fault that is. Ps: See why couples should court before marriage. Spend time understanding each other before jumping into marriage, courtship creates time to understand and know how to deal with each other. . You're welcome!

naijaboiy:
Not every woman likes being ignored...
I hope you know that too

evegran: @Op.. Huh? I'm confused! You posted a story and you first commented acting like someone else? Anyway, I doubt you're actually feeling bad cause you've justified your actions already. Shame on you! Any man that results to hitting a woman is not man enough to own her. There are ways you can get her to stop and even regret abusing you without beating her. You actually seem "brainless" as she stated- bitter truth!

Kachisbarbie:
You well?

Onyiibazz:

And guess the man doesnt have brothers right? Why does it just seem right for the woman to hit the man first but not the other way round? Anyways, i've made it clear that any woman that deserves hitting from me must get it!

Rooneyboy:

u ladies are always quick to condem physical abuse, u always fail to realise verbal abuse does more harm than physical

Rooneyboy:

u are a REAL MAN

dechandel:
Lol
Sister me
I wouldn't be that stupid to refer to sm1 as brainless
There re so many sh*its a man can take but not continous insults

Tho i don't endorse violence o

evegran: . Nah! Can't invite you. I replied you earlier thinking you had a brain- my dear its water and sand that has actually filled your head. Mtchewww

Elnino4ladies: It is ungentlemanly to slap ur wife

First this...

...bt come 2 tink of it, callin ur husband brainless is unacceptable, if i'm in d husband shoes i will definately beat a hell out of her. Wht nonsense!

Then this...

Bros which side you dey

dechandel:
Lol
Sister me
I wouldn't be that stupid to refer to sm1 as brainless
There re so many sh*its a man can take but not continous insults

Tho i don't endorse violence o

Onyiibazz:

Wait na me this one dey ask? I go give you one better slap o, you think say i be the Op! Be like say elders no dey your village again

evegran: . Duh! I hate being ignored. I honestly rather you beat me than ignore me. Being ignored can kill me! Get it?

Yea,,but not all men can endure...
People are different

The Op tried sef

Kachisbarbie:
Firstly...you can NEVER slap me...maybe e-slap but not in reality.
-then it's advisable to read, understand before commenting...bc my post you jumped on was sarcastic, neither was it directed to you.
-yes there are elders in my village, and they understand/reason before talking/typing...
-nope I don't think you re the OP - the difference between both of you is kinda clear.
Thanks...

evegran: . By ignoring her. Simple! Ignore her enough till she gets miserable and even realizes her faults and then she'd even apologize or try to reach out to you. Its far better than beating her up. For me, if you beat me- ill use whatever I see and hit you back, I will not stand and be beaten . Ignoring me- always works. Cause later, I get sober and reflect and then see my wrongs if I'm at fault that is. Ps: See why couples should court before marriage. Spend time understanding each other before jumping into marriage, courtship creates time to understand and know how to deal with each other. . You're welcome!

naijaboiy:
First this...

Then this...

Bros which side you dey

claremont: You do that to your wife in the UK, the police would come in and get you locked up for assault. You end up with a criminal record, your wife keeps your property and your money.

There is no justification for assault regardless of the party involved, especially when other avenues such as counselling and separation have not been exhausted.

50calibre:

Loool I like your type, loud mouthed, insolent & defensive. Drilling you into submission is going to be so much fun.

I've seen stubborn women drilled into submission to a point where they tremble at sound of their husband's voice.

You must be naive if you think fighting back is in your interest. Better rethink that.

naijaboiy:
Yea,,but not all men can endure...
People are different

The Op tried sef

evegran: . Eh? The OP tried so you would have done worse? As calm as you look? Hmm.

Don't judge me based on picture please...

But I didn't say I would do anything though,,just stating the obvious fact that not every man will react the same way to this..

Different strokes for different folks

evegran: . Tremble at the sound of their husband's voice because he's Hitler? LMAO! Naïve? Not even close. Unlike most marriages in Nigeria today where majority of men feel they did their wives a favor by marrying her so she must swallow all the BS, that can never apply to me. I will get married to a man cause I love him and cause he makes me feel awesome and also cause we have similar future prospects/dreams and etc and not cause society thinks I'm ripe or whatever. I have never and will never be with anyone who feels they're doing me a favor by being with me or they're with me outta pity. NO! I'd rather be single then or turn gay sef. Lmao! Oh and my type? Submission is only outta so much love for him and probably understanding- nothing else!

evegran: . Tremble at the sound of their husband's voice because he's Hitler? LMAO! Naïve? Not even close. Unlike most marriages in Nigeria today where majority of men feel they did their wives a favor by marrying her so she must swallow all the BS, that can never apply to me. I will get married to a man cause I love him and cause he makes me feel awesome and also cause we have similar future prospects/dreams and etc and not cause society thinks I'm ripe or whatever. I have never and will never be with anyone who feels they're doing me a favor by being with me or they're with me outta pity. NO! I'd rather be single then or turn gay sef. Lmao! Oh and my type? Submission is only outta so much love for him and probably understanding- nothing else!

Onyiibazz:

This girl sabi book eh! Remind me to buy you fayrouz later for this prompt response!

Rooneyboy:
I'm already tripping for u cos of this ur post