holluwai: No disrespect but makes little or no sense.

marieolae: Do not support anybody, be neutral. Let them both sit at the back

temigracie: ..lol...Is that possible...

Honestly, it is kinda hard for me to believe your story...

Its not possible your girlfriend will drag seats with your sister....She carry charcoal for head ni??....BTW, whats so special about the front seat gansef??...I wanna know..

Can someone please help me out....

Timileyin:

My Girl friend is calming the sitting in front is her right, me i dont understand ooo?

Timileyin:

My Girl friend is calming the sitting in front is her right, me i dont understand ooo?

cooljoe: family is family. Friends(galfrnd or no galfrnd) are not as important as family. Do not confuse the loyalty of friendship with the bond of blood

gede7744: u are not yet married to ur gf and she is already domineering and controlling, wonder what she will do if u eventually marry her.

MadCow1:


In Life;


Your Siblings are your Siblings..

Your Family is Your family..


But your Girlfriend has a very special place in your life..

If you and your sister drive to your girlfriends house to pick her up.. When your girlfriend comes out, she (i.e your sister) is supposed to go to the back seat on her own.. Its not only corteous, but also shows respect for the relationship they have. Or is your sister trying to put assunder?!

Just because she isnt married to you yet does not make her second to your sister. The way you treat her as a girlfriend would play a role in how she see herself as a wife.

On the issue of guys, its different.. Women (both married and otherwise) normally move to the back seat for guys (its an unwritten rule that amazes me). Maybe out of respect for her husband or boyfriend.. But every other female both family and otherwise move to the back for your main chick..

Timileyin: #

My sister is 27 my girl is 26

Jamean:

What I mean is one shouldn't feel one is much more important than the other. I'm a family loyal..like family freak. But then I know the roles friends have played in my life and the value they've added that family couldn't. Vice-versa.

They both have their signifance..so, I don't dig the comparism. (IMO)

What happened with those ladies is that were just immature and unnecessarily possessive.

lynpetra: That gf of yours is very disrespectful!That one go fit beat ur mama ooooo.Be careful,that she flashed is a very very bad sign.

Be ready to play second fiddle to his sister till you die o!!

A girl wey no get respect for you as a girlfriend would still not respect you as a wife.. #KnowThat..

A Guy who places his sister ahead of you as a girlfriend may still place his sister ahead of you as a wife.. #KnowThat..



This is the reason why many people have troubling marriage because you think that if you come in and start behaving like a snail they would love you. ASIII!!! (Liesss!!)..

You better stake your claims on your man. That frontseat is yours to give up to whom you want to at your own discretion. Girlfriend/Wifes own frontseat ahead of Mother and Sisters.. Men (Including father, Brothers and friends) are the only ones with Frintseat immunity over wife/girlfriend.

If my Mama dey there this kind thing happen, na slap she go use port my Sister from front seat to back seat...

tivta: I doubt if you are in nigeria. Did you say girls leave the front seat for other guys? Most women will break up with their men if the man in question makes her sit at the back for another man. Let's just face it women of this generation are spoilt.

MadCow1:


In Life;


Your Siblings are your Siblings..

Your Family is Your family..


But your Girlfriend has a very special place in your life..

If you and your sister drive to your girlfriends house to pick her up.. When your girlfriend comes out, she (i.e your sister) is supposed to go to the back seat on her own.. Its not only corteous, but also shows respect for the relationship they have. Or is your sister trying to put assunder?!

Just because she isnt married to you yet does not make her second to your sister. The way you treat her as a girlfriend would play a role in how she see herself as a wife.

On the issue of guys, its different.. Women (both married and otherwise) normally move to the back seat for guys (its an unwritten rule that amazes me). Maybe out of respect for her husband or boyfriend.. But every other female both family and otherwise move to the back for your main chick..

MadCow1:


So I guess even when you are married, your wife shoudl still seat at the back when your sister comes knocking; Afterall:: Bond of Blood trumps everything else innit?

Vikky014: d sister is 27 ws in d front sit b4 meetn d gf who is 26 so wht are u saying?

holluwai: Good thing you're a family freak because I'm one too. Friends do come into our lives and make significant impact(s) way more than our family members as such that we consider them blood(brother or sister from another mother) but this issue is quiet sensitive and I believe for the fact that the sister was already occupying the front seat the girlfriend should just use her initiative and sit at the back, funny enough on their way back she might end up sitting in front. There is absolutely no need to ask her to get down so she can take the front seat, shows she is manner less, senseless ,immature and poverty ridden!!!

Timileyin: Got to settle some really big fight few days back when preparing to go to a cousin's wedding. I left home with my sister, with the intention of picking my Girl friend alone with way, When we saw her, she demanded my sister, move to the back so as she could occupy her so called space. Which ended been a big fight and they caused a really big scene. Who do i support?

MadCow1:


Be ready to play second fiddle to his sister till you die o!!

A girl wey no get respect for you as a girlfriend would still not respect you as a wife.. #KnowThat..

A Guy who places his sister ahead of you as a girlfriend may still place his sister ahead of you as a wife.. #KnowThat..



This is the reason why many people have troubling marriage because you think that if you come in and start behaving like a snail they would love you. ASIII!!! (Liesss!!)..

You better stake your claims on your man. That frontseat is yours to give up to whom you want to at your own discretion. Girlfriend/Wifes own frontseat ahead of Mother and Sisters.. Men (Including father, Brothers and friends) are the only ones with Frintseat immunity over wife/girlfriend.

If my Mama dey there this kind thing happen, na slap she go use port my Sister from front seat to back seat...

Jamean:

Well, I think the gf's approach to her request was bizzare. But lemme ask you, be truthful o. If twas you as a gf in a car with you bf and his sis...then she no even send you to sit in front and your bf is mute about it..won't you feel bad?

Sometimes we can't really conclude if we are not in that shoe.

MadCow1:


[b]In Life;


Your Siblings are your Siblings..

Your Family is Your family..


But your Girlfriend has a very special place in your life..

If you and your sister drive to your girlfriends house to pick her up.. When your girlfriend comes out, she (i.e your sister) is supposed to go to the back seat on her own.. Its not only corteous, but also shows respect for the relationship they have. Or is your sister trying to put assunder?!

Just because she isnt married to you yet does not make her second to your sister. The way you treat her as a girlfriend would play a role in how she see herself as a wife.

On the issue of guys, its different.. Women (both married and otherwise) normally move to the back seat for guys (its an unwritten rule that amazes me). Maybe out of respect for her husband or boyfriend.. But every other female both family and otherwise move to the back for your main chick..



P.S The sensibility of a post is also subject to the intellectual capacity of the reader.. #NoDisrespectEither..
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