1- YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT KNOW YOUR SOUL MATE RIGHT AWAY: - When you do meet you soul mate, you will not know him or her by the fanfare and the rush of hormones, you will only know him or her by a very gentle tug on your heart. Instead of looking for the fanfare, look for that gentle tug and build a friendship without expectation of something more. In time, as the relationship blossoms, when both of you reveal your true selves, you will know.
2- RELATIONSHIP RARELY LOOKS LIKE ROMANTIC MOVIES OR BOOKS: - imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after.
3- IT TAKES YEARS TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE: - the gift of being human is our complexity. Is it possible to know someone in a week, a mouth, a few dates? Can you reveal all of your complexity in that short amount of time? How long does it take someone to truly know you?
4- GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS COMPLETELY WORTH THE EFFORT: - there is nothing like being in a great relationship. There is nothing like being seen and known by the one you love, and seeing and loving back. What ever you need to go get there, do it.
5- IN SPITE OF LOTS OF BAD RELATIONSHIPS, A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS POSSIBLE: - it doesn’t matter if you have been “unlucky in love”. All that matters is that you take the steps necessary to build a great relationship. It us essential these be different steps then the ones you have taken in the past.
6- A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A LIVING BEING – IT NEEDS LOVE CARING, SPACE, ETC: - people tend to either ignore or smother relationship. In the first case they ignore their partner, thinking that a relationship, once established, will always be there. In the second case they spend every moment with their partner, give and expect undivided attention. If you had a pet, how would it survive under such conditions?
7- YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS THE WAY YOUR PARENTS DID THEIRS: - regardless of the models and world view of the previous generations, your life still belongs to you. Choose how you do your relationships, instead of blindly doing or thinking something just because it comes naturally.
8- YOU CAN ONLY HAVE A GRAET RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DON”T NEED ONE: - when your life is so wonderful that having a relationship looses is focus is when you will attract the right mate. This is not the same as forcing yourself not to think about relationship or shutting down out of disappointment

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nice ones

niice!!! u dey try o!!! how did u kn all that?

right on top! kool

nice and

luvlymoi:

niice!!! u dey try o!!! how did u kn all that?

hmmm, well u thing been happening around the globe!!

needeeg:


8- YOU CAN ONLY HAVE A GReaT RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DON”T NEED ONE: - when your life is so wonderful that having a relationship looses its focus is when you will attract the right mate. This is not the same as forcing yourself not to think about relationship or shutting down out of disappointment

- i understand all that apart from this, so what if im havin a really wonderful life and attractin a great mate wont make it lose its focus but add to its richness, then i wont attract the great mate, because my life wont lose focus? please explain.

lol

copy and paste

nawa for this one ooo. i disagree with some of them but its a nice work though.

now this what have been looking for,

me,myself:

- i understand all that apart from this, so what if im havin a really wonderful life and attractin a great mate wont make it lose its focus but add to its richness, then i wont attract the great mate, because my life wont lose focus? please explain.

i dont think so!!

this is really very nice

The reason you can't explain anything like me'myself asked you to is because you're probably not the author.

PS your own posts are incoherent.

I dont care If its copied or not  all i do care about is the views of the "f 's"   not the "m's"
in the house(_{as far as this piece is concerned}).They are all very right about the piece.It's cool

jerrymania:

wetin be all these sef? na novice full here?

lol

more like, ur friend looks like me

nahh. . .just got msn for now

jerrymania:

Ok that will do later, anyway i like your pic. got attracted!

Sounds like someone's ready to get shot @. She's married to a white gangsta mind you. You better learn to put y'lil mam where it fits.

_{yeah. . . white boys do drive-byes too}

hmn.