Can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship? What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural?







I think argument generally to a point is not good. I might be wrong dough

Arguments dey sweet die.


I rest my case

englishmart: Arguments dey sweet die.


I rest my case

. really

you can't avoid arguments in a relationship... its so natural

There must always be. You disagree to agree otherwise, you're both fooling yourselves

A healthy relationship has room for an open confrontation and constructive criticism. If the couple fights constructively, the arguing becomes less frequent, and communication becomes more effective. The relationship becomes a ground for personal growth. The partners get past their defensiveness and start to work out their inner conflicts, to heal old wounds, get over their insecurities. Argument can't be avoided in a relationship.

Human beings are highly rational. In view of this, no matter how compatible you partners are, you will still have this point where conflict of interest will set in. Resolution of such conflicts lies and depends on the maturity of either our both partners. You need a large heart to understand that in a relationship, you can't win every arguments, even if you're ad right as Napoleon.

That is the purpose of argument in the first place, since they are two different people with different backgrounds. Arguments are inevitable in relationships. However, the question should be: 'What type of arguments?'

Partners in relationships are like two sides of a coin. The need to make the other person see things from your angle and vice-versa. As inevitable as it is, it is unhealthy in relationships. True, we disagree to agree but should the disagreements become too much, then the agreements will vanish into thin air.
Sensitive people understand that winning an argument is not important because one might win an argument, yet destroy a lot with it.

Arguments in a relationship is very important but it should not be the center of the relationship. Arguments help both partners understand each other better in terms of likes and dislikes. With that being said, There are some arguments that signs that the relationship is over and arguing will just be routine. If one person hates arguing because its not their nature and the other doesn't mind it then I guess opposites don't attract in that case and you should just end it. but just remember, sometimes arguments are worthwhile whether you like them or not!

Arguing with a lady is like getting arrested. Anything you say or do can and will be used against you.

There is no relationship without argument o!

NO

arguments arises due to selfishness in the either partner or both


If you stick to what's right there won't be room for silly arguments

Its soooo natural. It doesn't make ur relationship weak coz u argue just shows u human nd flawed. It just helps yall to know each other better and what ur partner likes nd doesn't like so u can improve nd be a better partner.......

Its completely necessary because...

i smell frontpage.

Argument makes me to love her more.


*i know somebody will quote me*

Many a breakup stemmed from arguments gone wrong.

Only women would really think arguments/disagreement should be natural.

Guys dream of peace in relationships. Nothing to trigger argument. No jealousy when we meet other females, no bickering, no lectures on what I should eat or drink or even wear, NO NAGGING... Plenty of Logic can save us the needless arguments.

I'm talking about Real, lasting PEACE. Well, not all dreams come true

OohMpa: Ooh Mpa and his chicks argue a lot....

Just yesterday, we're arguing over dïck size. She said she wanted 10 inches and ooh Mpa said his 9.99 inch is enough to make her cumm. She said it's a lie and we continued arguing until she succumbed to a round of ecstasy with ooh Mpa. She came within 30 mins.....


















Now we're now arguing over smaller dïcks....

that means you have double d.ick in your possession abi?

I dont know if its natural or not, but I have a friend who says that his girl complains that they dont argue or fight over anything and he's really beginniing to wonder if his relationship is ok. Not that they always agree, but when differences arise, they talk it out and its settled. He's afraid that everything is moving too smooth.

Charles4075: Arguing with a lady is like getting arrested. Anything you say or do can and will be used against you.

lolz Charles Oya go and sleep

princesstemi: lolz Charles Oya go and sleep

. Haba na. Time still dey na. Hahaha

Charles4075: . Haba na. Time still dey na. Hahaha

or are u wetting for her before sleeping

greatwaters: I dont know if its natural or not, but I have a friend who says that his girl complains that they dont argue or fight over anything and he's really beginniing to wonder if his relationship is ok. Not that they always agree, but when differences arise, they talk it out and its settled. He's afraid that everything is moving too smooth.

. The differences are there nd they clearly communicate really well, they don't have to be screaming and at each others throats for it to qualify as an argument. So I think its good

katzz: . The differences are there nd they clearly communicate really well, they don't have to be screaming and at each others throats for it to qualify as an argument. So I think its good

Thanks, now he can rest. So strange how people want to have things that others are running away from.

Every relationship needs an argument every now and then. Just to prove that it is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.