dramaticspeak: Personally I don't like collecting stuff from guys. I prefer spending on them and I derive joy in doing so. My friends tell me it is bad, House please what's your opinion on this. Senseible comments pls

swirry, can we date?

dramaticspeak: Personally I don't like spending on my guy. I prefer collecting from him and I derive joy in doing so. My conscience tells me it is bad, House please what's your opinion on this. Sensible comments pls

jennylove7575: Its not wrong to gift money on a guy once in a while..what is wrong is shouldering the total responsibilities of a guy, when it is suppose to be the other way round.. The end result is always bitter because trying to change the course of nature by enforcing role reversal by our action can breed unhealthy consequences..it attracts negativities and greater disadvantages on the relationship.

marieolae: Once in a while, its ok. It shows that the lady cares. It shouldn't completely be the mans job to take care of a woman. Its not bad my dear, but please allow the man to take of you too. It a 60%(men)-40% thing.(women)

emmykk: If you are buying things for him when he is not expecting it from your heart,
if you are giving him money as assisstance when he need it most but did not ask for it from you is good.
But if is nagging or compelling you to spend on him is bad.


Between some good girls are generous,love push them to help their guys or hubby.they are wife material.if a guy have such they cherish her.

jennylove7575: Its not wrong to gift money on a guy once in a while..what is wrong is shouldering the total responsibilities of a guy, when it is suppose to be the other way round.. The end result is always bitter because trying to change the course of nature by enforcing role reversal by our action can breed unhealthy consequences..it attracts negativities and greater disadvantages on the relationship.

ERCROSS:
sister...
Na relationship dem call am..
No be business venture ...
U ladies shld stop being stingy for goodness sake...
Even if he's already ur husband, it doesn't kill to spend moderately on ur man.


O.p, i wish there are more ladies wit your own type of mentality on the topic

marieolae, thumbs up for dat comment, hope u pratice wot u preach cha ?

ERCROSS:
sister...
Na relationship dem call am..
No be business venture ...
U ladies shld stop being stingy for goodness sake...

jennylove7575: wetin u dey see? This has nothing to do with stingyness. Is it not the duty of a man to look after his woman?. Man and woman matter is like right hands and left hands..if both hands wash each other e go clean. A man get total maximum respect from a woman wen he sabi look after her. Everything falls into place.

ERCROSS:

In your own opinion...
But.. i'd prefer a woman like the o.p to u anytime anyday Cos she sees nothing wrong in spending for her man.

jennylove7575: I like ur type..if I marry ur type..you go clean my house, wash my car, wash my dishes, cook, wash and iron my cloths and underwears plus lick my yansh. Then in reward, I go dey shower you with money, buy u all the latest designer clothing, buy u fine rides and spiritually bottle ur penniss u no go fit comb another woman eden except mine...is that wat you want?

DikSin: Op: I like that transparent mellon
I mean ur photo: I fit die ontop

Timothy3113: vicky another woman wrapper

jennylove7575: Its not wrong to gift money on a guy once in a while..what is wrong is shouldering the total responsibilities of a guy, when it is suppose to be the other way round.. The end result is always bitter because trying to change the course of nature by enforcing role reversal by our action can breed unhealthy consequences..it attracts negativities and greater disadvantages on the relationship.