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Spotting A Cheating Partner by pasqal09: 7:09am On Sep 23, 2014
1. Increased Laziness
Household duties and chores may become neglected. You’ll notice your partner spending more time on the Internet or literally laying around on the couch with no interest with the housekeeping of the house.


2. They are Narcissist
Does your significant other think they’re so amazing that they deserve special treatment? Or do they show little regard for your feelings yet still expect to be the center of attention?


3. Their Friends Cheat
We all love our friends to death, and it’s in our humanly instincts to follow in the footsteps of those closest to us.


4. Paranoia
An increase in accusatory behavior may actually reveal more than you think. Nine times out of ten, it’s your partner’s way of covering up their own guilt for behavior they’re accusing you of.


5. Sudden Change in Behaviour
One of the best parts of being in a relationship is getting to know someone for who they really are. We pick up their likes, dislikes, and even their everyday habits. So a sudden change can be a good reason to ask questions.


6. Proximity
It’s a bond we can’t explain, but we are most attracted to the people we see most often. Just as a co-worker tends to like you more if you work in the same office, a man or woman will seek your attention more if they get used to seeing you on a daily or even weekly basis. Think of it as a long-distance relationship. They can be costly. Seeing someone in a new light or setting can pose problems in a relationship that some can't control. Why do you think people complain so much about their long-distance relationships not working out? We want to be with someone nearby.


7. Lying
It’s very true, but even the little things count whether it’s a romantic gesture or a little white lie about where you were the night before


8. Selfish
Make sure you two are seeing the same picture because no one wants to be with someone who only thinks of themselves. A relationship takes two people to be successful.


9. Being Too Secretive
Let’s face it, nobody likes someone who can’t be 100 percent with them, no matter what the situation is. If your significant other is keeping things from you or doing things behind your back, not only is that a sign they may be cheating but it’s a wake up call!


10. The Phone Trick
When your partner is on the phone and you enter the room and all of a sudden your partner lowers his or her voice or even leaves the room for a split second to finish the conversation, that’s grounds for questioning.

N.B:
I'm not saying that one should go looking out for these in their partner, but if you should happening to observe them, then you should know what to expect.
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by Unionised(m): 7:17am On Sep 23, 2014
Love is blind.

How are we supposed to "enjoy" a relationship when we spend the whole time playing "Sherlock Holmes"?
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by jnrbayano(m): 7:19am On Sep 23, 2014
A pro in cheating business cheats in your presence and you still won't notice....

To catch a cheat, act more with your brain in a relationship than with your heart.

The heart is more vulnerable to cheating than the brain.
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by TRADELYN: 7:21am On Sep 23, 2014
11. No Trust:

She/he will never trust you because she/he does not trust herself/himself. They will always question every move you make/take with negative assumptions!
kiss angry sad
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:46am On Sep 23, 2014
selfie: people still spend their time doing all this?
me sef wonder o
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by Liability(m): 9:49am On Sep 23, 2014
jnrbayano: A pro in cheating business cheats in your presence and you still won't notice....

To catch a cheat, act more with your brain in a relationship than with your heart.

The heart is more vulnerable to cheating than the brain.
please can you please explain this more? My brother is being cheated but he is not seeing it.
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by Liability(m): 9:55am On Sep 23, 2014
TRADELYN: 11. No Trust:

She/he will never trust you because she/he does not trust herself/himself. They will always question every move you make/take with negative assumptions!
kiss angry sad
is this a new research topic?
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by Nobody: 11:00am On Sep 23, 2014
Liability: please can you please explain this more? My brother is being cheated but he is not seeing it.
and you haven't opened a thread yet?? angry what are you waiting for? angry

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Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by TRADELYN: 12:45pm On Sep 23, 2014
Liability: is this a new research topic?
grin grin grin
It's just my little input to this thread.
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Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by ollyboy009(m): 12:58pm On Sep 23, 2014
pasqal09: 1. Increased Laziness
Household duties and chores may become neglected. You’ll notice your partner spending more time on the Internet or literally laying around on the couch with no interest with the housekeeping of the house.


2. They are Narcissist
Does your significant other think they’re so amazing that they deserve special treatment? Or do they show little regard for your feelings yet still expect to be the center of attention?


3. Their Friends Cheat
We all love our friends to death, and it’s in our humanly instincts to follow in the footsteps of those closest to us.


4. Paranoia
An increase in accusatory behavior may actually reveal more than you think. Nine times out of ten, it’s your partner’s way of covering up their own guilt for behavior they’re accusing you of.


5. Sudden Change in Behaviour
One of the best parts of being in a relationship is getting to know someone for who they really are. We pick up their likes, dislikes, and even their everyday habits. So a sudden change can be a good reason to ask questions.


6. Proximity
It’s a bond we can’t explain, but we are most attracted to the people we see most often. Just as a co-worker tends to like you more if you work in the same office, a man or woman will seek your attention more if they get used to seeing you on a daily or even weekly basis. Think of it as a long-distance relationship. They can be costly. Seeing someone in a new light or setting can pose problems in a relationship that some can't control. Why do you think people complain so much about their long-distance relationships not working out? We want to be with someone nearby.


7. Lying
It’s very true, but even the little things count whether it’s a romantic gesture or a little white lie about where you were the night before


8. Selfish
Make sure you two are seeing the same picture because no one wants to be with someone who only thinks of themselves. A relationship takes two people to be successful.


9. Being Too Secretive
Let’s face it, nobody likes someone who can’t be 100 percent with them, no matter what the situation is. If your significant other is keeping things from you or doing things behind your back, not only is that a sign they may be cheating but it’s a wake up call!


10. The Phone Trick
When your partner is on the phone and you enter the room and all of a sudden your partner lowers his or her voice or even leaves the room for a split second to finish the conversation, that’s grounds for questioning.
Nice points you put up there, but frankly speaking, if a man should start lookin out for all these in his woman, i doubt if he is going to ever graduate. Besides, keeping suspitn on your partner only makes you condeming always, even when they arnt cheating.
Re: Spotting A Cheating Partner by pasqal09: 1:00pm On Sep 23, 2014
ollyboy009:
Nice points you put up there, but frankly speaking, if a man should start lookin out for all these in his woman, i doubt if he is going to ever graduate. Besides, keeping suspitn on your partner only makes you condeming always, even when they arnt cheating.
I'm not saying that one should go looking out for these in a partner, but if you should happening to observe them, then you should know what to expect.

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