hi

Hmmm....ask the child to tell u the name of its DNA

BTW

U no dey do house agent business again ni


https://www.nairaland.com/1045250/one-room-self-contain-rent

Firstly, The DNA can be ascertained at this early stage but such test is usually very expensive.

Secondly, it appears your husband knows more than what he is telling you. How can you accept a child that is not yours all in the name of being nice or wanting to help out. Abi your husband dey run orphanage?

Thirdly, there is the saying that a woman knows the actual father of her child. The lady might be right.

D lord is ur muscle..

I think your fiancee knows that he is responsible for that pregnancy... if he is so sure that he is nit the one responsible, he won't take it this lightly... troublesome woman.... hmnnnnn! think about it, the other lady has an edge over you already, he might not end up marrying you so dont be surprised if he refuses to talk about marriage or commitment with you again

Hmm, men and lies!. Instead of him to open up and say the truth. He's still deceiving you.

That's Y I lik MEN.... Even with gun pointed to our head, we will still lie...... I hail all the MEN excludin myself cos am still a boi

rattlesnake: Hmmm....ask the child to tell u the name of its DNA

BTW

U no dey do house agent business again ni


https://www.nairaland.com/1045250/one-room-self-contain-rent

thank u
Am not an agent.it was my room, I wanted to rent cus I stayed dere 4 2months only. And d landlady gave me the condition of bringin someone to pay 4d place b4 she can then refd my money...

Mmmh

[quote author=merieam16]D lord is ur muscle..[/quote
Amen.....oooo]

todayguest: Hmm, men and lies!. Instead of him to open up and say the truth. He's still deceiving you.

Is so frustrating

Your fiance is hiding something from you......How can you accept something that is not yours, simply because you wanna be nice....

Remember, He was nice to the lady...They had sex.....

Now, he wants to be nice again....

When he wants to marry her....am sure he ll be nice again......Since he is your fiance, I think you should involve your parent.......

@op i dey weep for u. Your 'fiance' don already give geh belle wen u never give am d priviledge of answering the title of 'husband'.
You better use your tongue to count ur teeth unless u are really really desperate.

temigracie: Your fiance is hiding something from you......How can you accept something that is not yours, simply because you wanna be nice....

Remember, He was nice to the lady...They had sex.....

Now, he wants to be nice again....

When he wants to marry her....am sure he ll be nice again......Since he is your fiance, I think you should involve your parent.......

Thank u for the advice

Destilo:

Thank u for the advice

You are welcome, ma'am....

Please dont let this to affect you or weigh you down....I know how it feels like when someone you love disappoints you....

I think you need to parent more than ever before....They ll make you recover faster and guide your path towards this issue......Gold or iron must pass through series of bending and polishing before it'll come out shining and perfect....Just consider this as another stepping stone to your land of fulfilment...

Remember, dont settle for less....Aal izz well.....

Nutase: @op i dey weep for u. Your 'fiance' don already give geh belle wen u never give am d priviledge of answering the title of 'husband'.
You better use your tongue to count ur teeth unless u are really really desperate.

Not dat am desperate, but in a situation like dis....ones need opinions from people....n trust me, was very confuse before I ran to Nairaland but I think am gettin a little better

Even if drunk self,shey the chick knws what he wud do dats why she could try such,dat one no konsign us but u need to sit and do some self examination,cuz the future is always near even if in paper it seems far,and u knw women and jealousy,and dis women tin for deir children would,can u cope with the new baby or you find anoda man if itz gonna kill your dream.

Destilo:


Not dat am desperate, but in a situation like dis....ones need opinions from people....n trust me, was very confuse before I ran to Nairaland but I think am gettin a little better

I wish u God's guidance as you face your fears and defeat them.

Thank u

Nutase:
I wish u God's guidance as you face your fears and defeat them.

Amen

k

You are a very nice and soft person. ,8 years is such an investment.
I don't think he is a first time offender. It is come that comes to become. Am a guy. shifting to blaming alcohol says it all. he is unstable in his ways and had a long thing going on with the said troublesome lady. Wanting the product of such escapade, test or no test is an affront on your intelligence.
You deserve better out of life. Stand aside. Your peace of mind is not negotiable. Those 2 has something that binds them.

prologue: You are a very nice and soft person. ,8 years is such an investment.
I don't think he is a first time offender. It is come that comes to become. Am a guy. shifting to blaming alcohol says it all. he is unstable in his ways and had a long thing going on with the said troublesome lady. Wanting the product of such escapade, test or no test is an affront on your intelligence.
You deserve better out of life. Stand aside. Your peace of mind is not negotiable. Those 2 has something that binds them.

Thank u very much

Destilo: Am still discussin with him now...he said he needs dat child whether d child is his or not...nd nothing will change dat....dat I shuld give him d reason he shouldnt accept dat child....

Let him have the child and accept the child too.
Drop every fear in your heart and push up support.
Let him know you support and trust him inspite of his mistake.
In your "having and accepting the child" zone - promise to see that the child is taken as yours.

*****
Throw in some punishments for your man eg
No more drinking
Every party you attend I will be there

God bless you my dear

#My unscripted lines

8 years is not 8 days. I can see your dilema. But this one that he's insisting on accepting the child whether its his or not is disturbing. Is he then saying that he's going to be doing the work of accepting the child of any woman who just walks up to him and say he's her baby's father simply because he wants to be nice? I have a bad feeling about this. And before i go any further, i want to ask this personal question. Has he ever gotten you pregnant before?

Chai poor gal dnt wori the man of God's advice will be coming in de next bulletin dnt miss it cus I will tell u wat to do

Your husband is lying.

If you can't bear the heat,don't go ahead with the marriage.

Some men ought to be a politician,with their lying abilities.

merieam16: D lord is ur muscle..

Oluwa ni isan re

Destilo: Am still discussin with him now...he said he needs dat child whether d child is his or not...nd nothing will change dat....dat I shuld give him d reason he shouldnt accept dat child....

Why does he need the child whether it is his or not? Why is he hell bent on accepting this child even if it is not his?

DWJOBScom:

Let him have the child and accept the child too.
Drop every fear in your heart and push up support.
Let him know you support and trust him inspite of his mistake.
In your "having and accepting the child" zone - promise to see that the child is taken as yours.

*****
Throw in some punishments for your man eg
No more drinking
Every party you attend I will be there

God bless you my dear

#My unscripted lines

thank u

ok

Yomieluv: Your husband is lying.

If you can't bear the heat,don't go ahead with the marriage.

Some men ought to be a politician,with their lying abilities.

The heat is what am afraid of..
I knw...he's hiding something from me