I have seen so many topics on this site regarding how much men make and why women would or wouldn't date them. I ask all the men on this site and i would like the women to put them selves in a man's shoes : Would you date or marry a poor woman?

If a woman wouldn't marry a poor man, should a rich man marry a poor woman?

If i was a man no i would not marry a poor woman if i was rich.

I believe that men and women should be evenly yoked when they marry.

Poor people shudnt be marrying each other
Rich people shhudnt be marrying each other
Rich shud marry poor, in order to circulate the wealth abeg
Why shud the poor be getting poorer n the rich be getting richer

tope2000:

Poor people shudnt be marrying each other
Rich people shhudnt be marrying each other
Rich should marry poor, in order to circulate the wealth abeg
Why should the poor be getting poorer n the rich be getting richer

chei, madam philosopher!

tope2000:

Poor people shudnt be marrying each other
Rich people shhudnt be marrying each other
Rich should marry poor, in order to circulate the wealth abeg
Why should the poor be getting poorer n the rich be getting richer

good talk!!
Is better to marry poor humble girl than to marry rich boss girl. You will get your respect and peace of mind with poor families than rich ones.
Though it all depends on love else one of the parties is a gold digger./

igwe 1:

good talk!!
Is better to marry poor humble girl than to marry rich boss girl. You will get your respect and peace of mind with poor families than rich ones.
Though it all depends on love else one of the parties is a gold digger./

Excatly, most rich girls are very annoying n spoilt n not all of them make a good housewife - too lazy to cook or cant even boil water, cant clean the house, cant do anything without househelp. pathetic!

@barsh
Abi na, shey u no gree?

tope2000:

@Brash
Abi na, shey u no gree?

Yes i actually agree

spread the wealth and love is my motto!

I believe one should marry whoever they want. Whether rich or poor, it's all a transitory state anyway.

@ post.

Why not? I aint intested in her money. [s]except it is blocking the way to the 'channel' I so much crave[/s].

Akinagirl:

I believe one should marry whoever they want. Whether rich or poor, it's all a transitory state anyway.

i agree with u only i don't know what a[b] transitory state [/b] means

i agree that a person should marry who they want but when it comes down to it there are people out there who would only want someone well off. I dont know exactly what the ratio is but it seems like women mostly want a man who is well of but they can't seem to deal with a man who is still building (NOT ALL WOMEN).
How would you feel if you met a guy who is well off but he refuses to commit to you because you are still building your life or maybe because your family is not well off.

tope2000:

Excatly, most rich girls are very annoying n spoilt n not all of them make a good housewife - too lazy to cook or can't even boil water, can't clean the house, can't do anything without househelp. pathetic!

I don't agree that most rich girls are too lazy to boil water. Anyways whatever happened to substance i.e. what's in the heart? There are wicked rich and poor women who cook and don't cook. I don't believe money is that important when looking at a wife - character is. But having said that of you have to choose I wouldn't go for poor - why would you go for a woman simply because you think she will be grateful for the acquired wealth - remember human beings are insatiable so its better to deal with a woman who already has money (atleast a little) so that you know she values you for you - if a freak accident happened and you lost ur dough - you know she could not only support the family but would still be there.

Think about it . . .

Lord, grant me richness in health. . . .

ell77:

I don't agree that most rich girls are too lazy to boil water. Anyways whatever happened to substance i.e. what's in the heart? There are wicked rich and poor women who cook and don't cook. I don't believe money is that important when looking at a wife - character is. But having said that of you have to choose I wouldn't go for poor - why would you go for a woman simply because you think she will be grateful for the acquired wealth - remember human beings are insatiable so its better to deal with a woman who already has money (atleast a little) so that you know she values you for you - if a freak accident happened and you lost ur dough - you know she could not only support the family but would still be there.

Think about it . . .

brilliant mind. i dont know why people link wealth with laziness. you use more strength and brains to make money than stay poor. what is wrong with employing people to cook for you if you can afford it? most of you are employees do u see anything wrong with that? i like that word insatiable. most people wants you to apologise for being blessed. it is notthe money but the voice and character you give your money. if you want wahala, deliberately look for "poor" mentality woman and enjoy.

*Toyinrayo:

Lord, grant me richness in health. . . .

and health i say. what was your old ID ma'am?

If she has:

Succulent D+ boobs
Come-f*ck-me face
M25 curves and hips
Hummer-sized arse
Sexy demeanor


Why not? Why will I give a hoot she is poor?

Sagamite:

If she has:

Succulent D+ boobs
Come-f*ck-me face
M25 curves and hips
Hummer-sized arse
Sexy demeanor


Why not? Why will I give a hoot she is poor?

Merry Christmas, be e be I missed you small sha, where have you been

@ Topic

Yes, no condition is permanent

In reality, men shouldn't even be worrying about how poor she is. . . .

I CAN NOT marry a poor man. Period.

JJYOU:

and enjoy.and health i say. what was your old ID ma'am?

Right

see misandry o. toyinrayo is a pisogynist LMAO._{abi na fisogynist}

H2O2:

see misandry o. toyinrayo is a pisogynist LMAO._{abi na fisogynist}

misogynist? Do I sound like I hate women?

Just because I wnt marry poor you?

Sagamite:

If she has:

Succulent D+ boobs
Come-f*ck-me face
M25 curves and hips
Hummer-sized arse
Sexy demeanor


Why not? Why will I give a hoot she is poor?

Tsssk men

Busy_body:

Merry Christmas, be e be I missed you small sha, where have you been

Merry Xmas, Auntie me.

This nairaland na life-waster. I had to run away from it a while when I say that it was consuming my life.

It has already taken 4 hours from my life today.

Sagamite:

Merry Xmas, Auntie me.

This nairaland na life-waster. I had to run away from it a while when I say that it was consuming my life.

It has already taken 4 hours from my life today.

I tried to stay away too, but i weak small Hope you had a productive time away from NL sha, and hope the credit crunch no reach ya side

lol @ 4 hours

Treetop20:

sure why not

lol, you should NOT have a problem with it

*Toyinrayo:

lol, you should NOT have a problem with it

if she's smart and has everything i need in a woman, why not?
we can make the money together

Treetop20:

if she's smart and has everything i need in a woman, why not?
we can make the money together

exactly. . . .
But if a dude is smart and poor, abeg, I no want am.
A working/stable man is better than one that carries a diploma around with debts shackled to his feet.

Generally, men should not worry about it, because they're supposed to be the "captain" (as they scream so on NL) of their woman. If she's poor, why should it really matter since you're the primary source of bacons in the r/ship?

Now if the "captain" of the house is poor, it might generate a big problem, such as disrespect in the r/ship.

*Toyinrayo:

exactly. . . .
But if a dude is smart and poor, abeg, I no want am.
A working/stable man is better than one that carries a diploma around with debts shackled to his feet.

Generally, men should not worry about it, because they're supposed to be the "captain" (as they scream so on NL) of their woman. If she's poor, why should it really matter since you're the primary source of bacons in the r/ship?

Now if the "captain" of the house is poor, it might generate a big problem, such as disrespect in the r/ship.

i have to make more money than she does.
i am the provider

marry poor woman for where, God forbid

Treetop20:

i have to make more money than she does.
i am the provider

exactly. . . .infact take this

jayon:

marry poor woman for where, God forbid

lmao!!

*Toyinrayo:

exactly. . . .
But if a dude is smart and poor, abeg, I no want am.
A working/stable man is better than one that carries a diploma around with debts shackled to his feet.

Generally, men should not worry about it, because they're supposed to be the "captain" (as they scream so on NL) of their woman. If she's poor, why should it really matter since you're the primary source of bacons in the r/ship?

Now if the "captain" of the house is poor, it might generate a big problem, such as disrespect in the r/ship.

Not captain of their woman but his family.

@Topic
Ofcuz, what matters is the love, any relation based on material things don't last long.

presido1:

Not captain of their woman but his family.

@Topic
Of because, what matters is the love, any relation based on material things don't last long.