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Hehehe...you don't even know what you want.

I know you want her to beg you. you were expecting she would continously beg you after the first call.


Dont go calling her except you are ready to do away with your ego.

If you feel she's still worth it, then get her back. You know her number just call her and tell her you wanna see her. Men discuss issues not walk out dishonarably. Your actions were childish. If she stills feels you she would gladly come back.

She dumped you first

inme: I broke up with my Girlfriend 3 weeks ago. I was no longer comfortable with her attitude, so I sent her a text message that I was quitting the relationship. I was really upset that night when I sent the text, she tried calling me back that same day, but I didn't pick up.

Since then she hasn't called or sent a text message. But inside of me, I have been feeling guilty and all that. . . I feel I dumped her and I didn't give her a chance for us to talk things over. Even though we are going to break up, it shouldn't be that way.

HOW DO I GET OVER THIS GUILT?

NB: I honestly would like the relationship to end. But I am also ready to give us another chance

You didnt break up with her in a gentleman's way, but that is in the past now. Lets look forward.
I dont think you should re-consider the relationship just because you feel guilty or feel sorry for letting her down in the way that you did.
You would be wasting your time and hers...If you dont love her anymore, but feel guilty, just call her and meet up to have a chat with her...discuss why you want to end it, and both of you can have your closure.
@iceberylin, the guy that said she doesnt care. I have been in her shoes and I called back twice, he didnt pick up so I figured, well, he is not in love with me anymore, doesnt want me anymore, has told me he doesnt want me anymore, and he isnt picking up. So even though I still loved him, i figured I couldnt force him to have feelings he didnt have so I stopped calling and tried to move on.

satope1: Hehehe...you don't even know what you want.

I know you want her to beg you. you were expecting she would continously beg you after the first call.


Dont go calling her except you are ready to do away with your ego.

If you feel she's still worth it, then get her back. You know her number just call her and tell her you wanna see her. Men discuss issues not walk out dishonarably. Your actions were childish. If she stills feels you she would gladly come back.

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ohwell:
You didnt break up with her in a gentleman's way, but that is in the past now. Lets look forward.
I dont think you should re-consider the relationship just because you feel guilty or feel sorry for letting her down in the way that you did.
You would be wasting your time and hers...If you dont love her anymore, but feel guilty, just call her and meet up to have a chat with her...discuss why you want to end it, and both of you can have your closure.
@iceberylin, the guy that said she doesnt care. I have been in her shoes and I called back twice, he didnt pick up so I figured, well, he is not in love with me anymore, doesnt want me anymore, has told me he doesnt want me anymore, and he isnt picking up. So even though I still loved him, i figured I couldnt force him to have feelings he didnt have so I stopped calling and tried to move on.

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satope1: Hehehe...you don't even know what you want.

I know you want her to beg you. you were expecting she would continously beg you after the first call.


Dont go calling her except you are ready to do away with your ego.

If you feel she's still worth it, then get her back. You know her number just call her and tell her you wanna see her. Men discuss issues not walk out dishonarably. Your actions were childish. If she stills feels you she would gladly come back.

Thanks bro

I am not waiting for her to beg me, at least I expect her to feel sorry for what she did.

@Bolded . . . I think I am going to call her then so we can talk about it

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I know her too well. She care more than I do

inme:

I know her too well. She care more than I do

ĎĤ ŦŐŐĹ yaself

you were looking for breakup she gave it to you on a platter of gold

now u are complaining

get over it

there are no easy ways to break up

methinks she already replaced u

b4 u thought of d breakup

andromida:

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inme:

Thanks bro

I am not waiting for her to beg me, at least I expect her to feel sorry for what she did.

@Bolded . . . I think I am going to call her then so we can talk about it

But do your research. Nose around before doing anything to be sure she's still interested o.

Just discuss with her. No one is perfect. sometimes we try to call the bluff of our partners to test their loyalties although childish but you outgrow it.

What I can see here is dat d girl has dumped u B4 u even did, 4 her nt to keep disturbing u then she clearly has been looking 4 a way to dump u. It's either she has anoda guy or she doesn't love u again.

What I can see here is dat d girl has dumped u B4 u even did, 4 her nt to keep disturbing u then she clearly has been looking 4 a way to dump u. It's either she has anoda guy or she doesn't love u again.
I KNOW U STILL LOVE HER but dnt go 4 her again because she doesn't care.

hushmail: you were looking for breakup she gave it to you on a platter of gold

now u are complaining

get over it

there are no easy ways to break up

methinks she already replaced u

b4 u thought of d breakup

Yea, and d OP must have noticed he is nt d only one dating her

satope1: ?

Your post was on point. (Made sense)

That moment when ur ex would've being tired of the relationship but kept misbehaving so that U can take the final shot, U finally end the relationship and deep inside of him/her the relieve and smiles are written all over her and there U are walloping in quilt. Damn... When U call it quit, u've ended both the relationship and the quilt at once except U were really a bad partner.

andromida:

Your post was on point. (Made sense)

Oh ok. Thanks. I thought you were booking space...

Thank you guys for your comments. I will take the positives from here.

For those that said she's tired of relationship and was waiting for me to call the shot, I don't think that's right

We've been together since March, she spent her quality time with me, she's always shown that she loves me.

She carry me along in everything she does . . .

As human, we all have blemish, that's the part of her I am not cool with.

And I feel I cannot spend the rest of my life with such woman.

I could play along and pretend everything was fine when I know inside of me I am not cool with her attitude.

We've been talking about settling down . . . I didn't want her to be let down at the tail end