THIS IS TO ALL THE SISTAS IN THE HOUSE
What's the age limit you would place on the guy you want to settle down with?My ex was 6years older than me and i had no problem with it cos i believe most women are more mature in mind n in the way they think than men their age so there is always a balance with the older guy(i stand to be corrected).A friend of mine who is just 2years older than me wants to take it the next level and i really don't know if he is mature enough for me.He sounds,talks and thinks mature but am not sure,i've always wanted a guy who is 4-6 years older than me,so back to my question how old would you want him to be?

I don't mind settling down with someone who is 4yrs younger than I am so far he is capable. I can't settle with anybody who is more than 8yrs older than me. I'll be seeing him as my uncle and won't be able to play with him. I know it's all mind thing but that's me.I have never even dated anyone that is More than 5 yrs older than me. Gosh! it won't just work for me even if he tries with the last drop of his blood, I won't be able to be in love with him but may tolerate him.

@ unit

i've always wanted a guy who is for-6 years older than me

so what will happen when u meet a guy that really really really likes u and you get along very well but he's 1-4 years older than you?
will u turn him down just because he's not older enough?
or theres something else you want - cars,mansion,big man job?

well it all depend on love. but is should'nt be someone heading papa's age

guess age has a part to play in love too. well well well.

@loverbwoy
ve you ever heard that love is not enough.settling down is not for baby minds,if he is 1-4years older and his thinking is right and he loves me why not i just need a man who thinks like a man and has a purpose for his life but i'd rather ve him at least 4years older

i feel it does not matter love is love regardless of age

AGE HAS NOTHING, NOTHING WHATSOEVER 2 DO WITH LOVE IF U 2 LOVE EACHOTHER WHY WLD AGE BE A BARRIER?
AS A MATTER OF FACT MY FIANCE IS 12YRS OLDER THAN ME,I FEEL SO COMFORTABLE AROUND HIM ,HE RESPECTS ME AND LOVES ME FOR WHO I AM EVEN THO HE BEHAVES LIKE AN" AGBAYA" AT TIMES BUT HES FUN 2 BE AROUND WITH.

A lady 2 years or more younger would do for me. But not more than 6 years

unit:

@loverbwoy
ve you ever heard that love is not enough.

oh yes ive heard that from loads of nigerians girls , they usually mean- u need a big ass ride, a big mansion, and a boutique for madam even though she spent 5yrs in university.

settling down is not for baby minds,if he is 1-4years older and his thinking is right and he loves me why not i just need a man who thinks like a man and has a purpose for his life but i'd rather ve him at least 4years older

i understand women generally mature quicker than men but still u cant really set a "level" .remember age(number) is not relative to maturity

at least my age or a yr or 2 older.

at most he would be 5 years older than I
cant be younger than me

but at the same time if i fall in love with someone who isnt my age or a yr or two older. oh well so be it.

not more than 5 yrs cos i don't want my husband to be some old ass man wen i'm still yung we gon be yung to getter and we gon get old 2gether if u know wat i'm sayin

yess ooo

my man cant have a head full of gray hair while im 29

lol i wouldnt fall in love with a 50 yr old man when im like 25 hell no.

K2DaC:

lol i wouldnt fall in love with a 50 yr old man when im like 25 hell no.

Lol

iice:

Need someone u can still groove with

hell yeah

Max 6 years older, for obvious reasons

5 yrs older or 3 yrs younger.

2-4 years age difference btw my and my guy is okay by me

age doesnt really matter i can date a girl that is even older than i am as long as it is not obvious or noticeable in her appearance

I don't think age matters in a relationsip as long as both of you love and respect each other.

I my self I've dated a 28year old lady while I was 18 and it worked out fine, until she got married. My last girlfriend was 7 years older than me, but we broke up because she never respected me. She wanted to use me to get pregnant but I found out what her plan was. Guess what I did? I took of like Lightning Mcqueen!!

Na wah for you oh!I respect you

@ chimaze
maybe someday you would go out with a girl old enough to be your mother,
who knows.

My first guy was 7 years older.
I didnt think there was anythimg wrong until the relationship ended.
I dont feel like dating or marrying someone dat are age difference ll be
up to 7 years.
One bitten, twice shy.
But age may not matter if true love exist.
But it does matter to me

when a girl says she'll prefer a guy thats a couple of years older BECAUSE HE WOULD BE MORE MATURE, is she celebrating his maturity or her own immaturity?

I prefer 5 years older than me (thats my limit). I dont even mind if he is a few hours older than I as long as he's just older than I.

But there is definitely no ways I'd be comfortable getting or ready to marry a younger dude. No ways!!

I wuld prefer a guy dat is 10yrs olda dan i am cos dey r matured n knows how 2 treat a lady beta dis smal guyz r stil catchin their fun nd mess ladies up

grillo_toy:

I wuld prefer a guy that is 10yrs olda dan i am because dey r matured n knows how 2 treat a lady beta this smal guys r stil catchin their fun nd mess ladies up

Do older men care better or just know how to better colour your mind that they treat you better?