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Hey Nairalanders...
My ex- went for youth service after which he told me he wasn't interested in our two years relationship anymore. Though hurt, i took it as he made sure there wasn't contact between us. Now a year after, at the end of his service he is begging to come back. His sister and mum are also helping him beg. Am still single as i refused dating any guy since the incident and focused on my career. Though i still love him, but am not sure of wanting to feel that pain again if it arises. What's your take? Biko!!!

Firstly, it's imperative you make him say why he left you initially(At the commencement of his service year) and now wants you back(After the service year).

I'm no expert but I guess he met some chick out there and lost his senses of reasoning.

Find out about that and take it from there. I guess you'd finally know what best to do.

Best wishes...

Mobebi:
NYSC..... breaking relationships since 1973....

Am a living testimony