Hey Nairalanders...
My ex- went for youth service after which he told me he wasn't interested in our two years relationship anymore. Though hurt, i took it as he made sure there wasn't contact between us. Now a year after, at the end of his service he is begging to come back. His sister and mum are also helping him beg. Am still single as i refused dating any guy since the incident and focused on my career. Though i still love him, but am not sure of wanting to feel that pain again if it arises. What's your take? Biko!!!

Like she haven't make up her mind already

Note: she said she's "single" o

Just forgive the poor guy this time b4 accepting him bck make him promise to marry you

@OP, give him second chance&pray about but keep your eyes open,i once bitten twice shy.

@OP, give him second chance&pray about it but keep your eyes open,once bitten twice shy.

You should ask yourself if he's not using you as a backup plan... It might be 'cos he found another lady while serving that made him stop dating you. If he's using you as Plan B, then you should have a rethink before considering marrying him

Crocz:
Like she haven't make up her mind already

Note: she said she's "single" o

I really haven't

samflexxy:
Just forgive the poor guy this time b4 accepting him bck make him promise to marry you

Its marriage a solution I think that should be his idea not my suggestion!!!

Yungwhy:
You should ask yourself if he's not using you as a backup plan... It might be 'cos he found another lady while serving that made him stop dating you. If he's using you as Plan B, then you should have a rethink before considering marrying him

Thanks swty, i thought in that line too...

Ctemi:
@OP, give him second chance&pray about but keep your eyes open,i once bitten twice shy.

Tnx dear

If my bestie were to read this, she'd say: 'His other girlfriend has broken his heart, that's why he is coming back to you'. Truth is, right now, I'm thinking along those lines.

Crocz:
Like she haven't make up her mind already

Note: she said she's "single" o

hahahahaha. You get sense o.

Well, @Op. If you love someone or something, let it go. If it's yours it will come back, true. But open eyes for 9ja o.

missberrypop5:
hahahahaha. You get sense o.

Well, @Op. If you love someone or something, let it go. If it's yours it will come back, true. But open eyes for 9ja o.

Why don't we think like the whites for once

Op grab am back.... Guys aren't easy to come by, afterall he might truely be sorry after making a fool if himself. But before you say yes,
GIVE HIM A DIRTY SLAP
Jst my thot

Driven:
If my bestie were to read this, she'd say: 'His other girlfriend has broken his heart, that's why he is coming back to you'. Truth is, right now, I'm thinking along those lines.

Are you kidding me

Ooops!

Freest:

Why don't we think like the whites for once

why can't the whites think like us for once

Freest:

Are you kidding me

No, I'm not kidding you.

Freest:
Op grab am back.... Guys aren't easy to come by, afterall he might truely be sorry after making a fool if himself. But before you say yes,
GIVE HIM A DIRTY SLAP
Jst my thot

My turn to ask: Are you kidding me?

Follow your heart

aunty shine your eyes o...

Is he working?

Don't be in a hurry to make up your mind take as much time you may need do not let him or his family pressure you. Don't pressure yourself as well thinking his coming back is a sign that he is "the one".
His coming back is just that- he came back so you should start by asking him why he is back.

Just because he came back does not mean you should demand marriage from him like men are running out of stock. Sit with yourself,use your mind,body and soul to check if you want this guy in your life and if so what for? Make this all about you not about him its what you want for yourself that counts the most.

Are u sure he loves u?

NYSC..... breaking relationships since 1973....

Oooops:

Its marriage a solution I think that should be his idea not my suggestion!!!

I just think him being commited to you won't make him misbehave that way haven't you herd or women that propose to the spouse

Oooops:

Its marriage a solution I think that should be his idea not my suggestion!!!

I just think him being commited to you won't make him misbehave that way haven't you herd of women that propose to the spouse

Where were his Sister & Mum when he left?
The girl he left u for has broken his heart.
U will be the worst loser in this world if u take him back cuz no matter what a guy will neva let go of a girl he values.
If it didnt work then what makes u think it will work now?
What was his reason for leaving in d 1st place?
A 2nd chance does not mean he has realized his mistake.. Sumtyms it is just to test how Mumu a girl is.
Even if u give him a 2nd chance, i imagine u stil carry alot of resentment about him leavin, u will always rememba that u were not good enuff, u are the plan B to fall back on.
Anyways sha d decision is all urs, if u feel he has truely changed & he sincerely loves u & wont pull that kinda S:hit again. Give it a shot.

As a guy,don't take him back.

You will end up loosing him again,when he sees another opportunity to bolt away again.

He's using for a rebound.

my dear take it from a guy,he would leave just as he did before now,he is comin back cos there aint no new chick on board as soon as one new babe enta,out the window u go again.